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I did not go back and see who said this...but uh huh in a nutshell.
"Women can have unmentioned wants, and if a man doesn't meet them, then the man is out of luck" This This This |
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Also... I can read a persons profile and on paper we could be a perfect match. She describes me exactly. So I send her a polite message. She does not reply, and does not even view my profile. She looks at my pic and decided I'm not worth looking at, much less replying to.
That is 99.9% of what happens when I send a message. Then there are those who think we guys are supposed to be creative and unique in a first message. News flash... the ones who have some creative unique message is a player. How do you think he knew what would work? Lots and lots of successful practice. That super confident guy.... He got all that confidence through success. Not failing. Also a player. Women choose to talk to a guy through a certain set of standards that have nothing to do with personality, because if you don't talk to a guy, you have no clue what kind of personality he has. And you will never judge correctly just by looking at a profile. EVER! |
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Edited by
mightymoe
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Wed 03/05/14 01:21 PM
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In my case...I would like to find a men to love me, respect me, be honest and faithful...be there for me and hold my hand in good and bad days. Because I will do the same thing for him.  I'm not asking for too much I don't think! if it was only that simple...  then we all have a GF/BF...  I agree with mightymoe on this one. Women can have unmentioned wants, and if a man doesn't meet them, then the man is out of luck. Dodo_David, If you always think the way...you never going to meet the right person. I think it goes both ways, but you got to learn to give and take not just take He speaks truth. You see... there is a funny thing about truth. It remains truth weather you want to believe it or not. He came to that conclusion through experience. He didn't read it in a book, or just make it up. It is a fact. Please don't tell me you reply to 100% of all messages you get. There has to be at least one person you looked at and based on his picture you did not want to talk to him. He could have possessed every one of the qualities you mentioned. But you will never know if you don't talk to him. And really... You need to date a person for a few months to find out if he is real or not. Typing and texting isn't the way. people talk to who they want, there really doesn't have to be a reason why they stop talking... or don't reply... it's not womens or mens fault, sometimes people just don't click, not a bad or evil thing... but the first thing people say to themselves when they don't reply or stop talking is "what did i do" or "why are they mad" type questions...doesn't matter a whole lot, there are plenty of other people that will talk... @Maria but the reason i say it's not that simple is because everyone has different expectations of what respect, honesty and faithfulness means, it's takes a while to learn who has the same ideas and meanings of the words as you do... |
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Women can have unmentioned wants, and if a man doesn't meet them, then the man is out of luck. Dodo_David, If you always think the way...you never going to meet the right person. I think it goes both ways, but you got to learn to give and take not just take I merely stated an observation. Also, I already met the right woman ... my late wife. Good for you David! You never know someday you might meet her twin
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Edited by
Dave39_S
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Wed 03/05/14 06:30 PM
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people talk to who they want, there really doesn't have to be a reason why they stop talking... or don't reply... it's not womens or mens fault, sometimes people just don't click, not a bad or evil thing... but the first thing people say to themselves when they don't reply or stop talking is "what did i do" or "why are they mad" type questions...doesn't matter a whole lot, there are plenty of other people that will talk... There is always a reason for what people do. No matter what it is. But if the conversation is going well, and she disappears, then there is a reason for it. Would this make sense? ( I had a great guy I was talking to. We seemed to get along great. So I stopped talking to him and I have no reason just decided to stop) <--- that makes no sense at all. Why would you stop talking to some one that your getting along with really well? There is ALWAYS a reason for peoples actions. Weather you realize it or not. People make conscious decisions. Were not animals operating on instinct. Not supposed to be any ways. In 10 years of dating sites, I have had a lot of women tell me they was just bored and wanting conversation. Thats just the ones who will be honest and admit it. Not every one is that honest. These dating sites are filled with people just looking for attention and conversation. Soon as you try to take the conversation to a telephone they disappear. Then I realize I just wasted a week or 2 talking to some one who isn't really looking to meet a guy. Thats called playing games. Any time I ever found a girl friend on a dating site, they was ready to meet with in 2 days, and by that weekend were on our first date. I just dated a woman for 5 months. We had a wonderful relationship. No fights, no arguments, no disagreements. All wonderful. Now POOF, she is gone. No reply to my calls, no explanation, no nothing. 2 weeks and not a word. I see no reason, but obviously she had some kind of reason she stopped seeing me so suddenly. I just wish I knew what that reason was. But there WAS a reason. What ever that reason might be. |
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I think I will chime in here on this one. What a woman wants and what a girl thinks she wants are two separate things. Maturity will eventually bring the girl around to the correct line of thinking. I don't know... I'd really like a batman!! MightyMoe, will you don the suit!??  (can you "tag" someone on here??) |
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at.
They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experiences with women. |
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experiences with women. Well said... |
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experiences with women. 
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experiences with women. Ditto!
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious,joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experience with women... Spoken very well!!! Good job that u understand us. Now to try to use it in a relationship. Now that would be the man for me!!!! Lol... I can't figure myself out!! I would like a man to give some effort in trying...That would be someone special in my eyes... |
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Spoken very well!!! Good job that u understand us. Now to try to use it in a relationship. Now that would be the man for me!!!! Lol... I can't figure myself out!! I would like a man to give some effort in trying...That would be someone special in my eyes...�
Sorry Willing2. I typed under your post. I got how to do it now. Lol |
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Edited by
mightymoe
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Thu 03/06/14 08:06 PM
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I think I will chime in here on this one. What a woman wants and what a girl thinks she wants are two separate things. Maturity will eventually bring the girl around to the correct line of thinking. I don't know... I'd really like a batman!! MightyMoe, will you don the suit!?? (can you "tag" someone on here??) I'm batman!  lol, no tags...  |
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A happy woman is a myth :);) )))))
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A happy woman is a myth :);) ))))) Lol ...sounds like a book to me. |
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I did not go back and see who said this...but uh huh in a nutshell. "Women can have unmentioned wants, and if a man doesn't meet them, then the man is out of luck" This This This I'd say the man is in luck, he gets out of a conditional relationship quicker that way. |
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The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. That's just a little bit of this old farts experiences with women. Amazed that so many women "flower" this ... For me these statements are like this: The women I hang with want to be talked to, not at. They want sincerity, serious, joking, playing, dancing. They want to feel safe and free to rant and vent without us trying to fix em. I want a man who can calmly tell me that he doesn't like it, so we actually end up having a good, calm, normal conversation where we see eye to eye as opposed to one letting rip, hurting the other. They want to feel safe and confident her man won't use her as a shield in a gunfight. that's what you get if a country allows everyone to carry a weapon. Thank god we don't have that here! She wants help rearranging the furniture without us adding our two cents. I prefer a man who does put in his two cents of what he likes and thinks. I prefer to do such things together, not solo. After all it's our home, not just mine. If a guy doesn't have any input, I think I'd respect him less. After all I want a man, an equal partner, not a sheep that follows my lead. She wants a confidant she can tell anything to. Foremost I want a man that's cares and listens when there's something important on my mind or in my heart. The other stuff about "suzy did this that and the other, now her hubby is leaving her blablabla " I might rather do with my girlfriends. IMO, most want a leader. One who leads with wisdom and compassion. Wisdom is knowing we don't have all the answers and we will need her experience, strengths and abilities. To me a leader is the one running the show. I don't want that at all, I want to be equals. It's just that men & women do this their own typical way. I think you mean the same thing I would want, but I don't like the suggestion that one is in control. BOTH should be, equals. |
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whatever it is that women want, I'm all out of, so I'm safe....at least for the moment!
and Leigh told me I'm safe for the first 50 posts anyway, so I'll stop at 49!  
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Edited by
kwyllancy
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Sat 03/08/14 03:08 AM
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What women want vary can from one woman to the other, but generally women are essentially intelligent & emotional beings & derserve to be cared for, pampered, to be petted & loved.
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You mean besides a big dick, money, house, your money, attention, love, a superman, a batman, a husband, father, provider, your soul, acceptance, trust, loyalty, respect. Wow, I haven't found a guy yet who has all these assets. Someone needs to point me in his direction. |
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