...to get back to my original weight...& I'm ok with that...really. I mean...7lbs 8oz just isn't all that realistic!

So now that summer is upon us...what are your main concerns about dating? Gettin' all buffed & tanned, finding the time or money...or are you pretty well set to go as is?

Anything I've wanted to change about myself, has probably already been done a long time ago, so I'm just like "Here I am. Like it, or walk away". Though I reckon if someone doesn't like you as you are, they're not worth the time.

My main concern is that I'm just not getting any, dates I mean

I gave up on dating. Sooooo think that solves that problem.

.. thinking ,thinking,.. I got it..
.. I am pretty much set to go.. have been set to go for some time.. tapping his toe on the floor..lol..
. now if I could just have someone to go with..lmao..
..ps.. I am happy with my looks.. I am now getting tanned.. not that it's doing me any good.. I seem to put of! this you can look but you can't touch vibe..hmm..
.. perhaps that's what I need to work on.. that are wear a sign that says. you may squeeze the produce... but beware it squeezes back..
..

Well...I reckon I'm glad your all quitting- less competition for me!!

Pickin's are slim in your area...or are you just tired of the whole dance? I mean...34 is pretty young to give up...no?

Not really. I've had my share of failed relationships, and don't see myself being in a long term relationship. I don't have nor can I have children, so even more reason to just be a bachelor. Then I also don't have any nagging going on while I'm trying to watch a game or wanting to attend games. I could go into more reasons, but think that should suffice for the Mingle public.�

The rooster likes the yard as it is.
I ain't doing nuttin'.

Sorry I asked...

Oh, dang! Soufie, you jumped in while I was replying to Scoobs...

Buuuuuut...cockadoodledoo!

It's ok. My last date I had was an indication that I'm not meant to date for awhile. It was one of those nights...

I'm giving up too. Haven't figured out what yet, but I'm with you!

well iam all washed and wax up. my rims are shined up and nobody to go out cruzen with.. this is not staring out good. :-(

Hi there Scoobert! Dont be hard on yourself. Your special someone will come in God's perfect time, you'll see. ^_^

...sorry, I get the sentiment but I totally laughed hard while reading that...

OK. ..now back to serious, anytime is probably too soon to give up if the desire is truly strong in a person to find someone

My goal this summer is to get back on my non smoking train. Can I say that here? I quit for two whole months. ..and lost it over a bad weekend. .ugh!

Are you gonna try the e-cig, patch, or just go cold turkey this time?

Hey Astrid! Not being hard on myself at all. Reality just told me that right now isn't the time to be dating. There's things I've realized I need to do for me, and dating would just complicate it.

I can't cold turkey. ., y'all would be glued to the news if I ever went that route. .it'd be "white Ford Bronco" days all over again.


I'm going back to the e-cig. The liquid vapor type..it worked and I liked it. I just have to learn to not sleep with it, after a night on the town. ..i broke two that way.

@ Scoob... Well, when you put it like that, I tend to agree. Ya' gotta be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. It's an old cliche' but it's true...good luck!


@ Ldr... How many times have I told you to never stash the e-cig in your bra?