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Topic: sex fight
kaymoza's photo
Sun 06/01/14 08:09 PM
what do u do when u are in a relationship and ure man doesnt like sex like u do? It that cold season and a conversation wont keep u warm.

kc0003's photo
Sun 06/01/14 08:13 PM
find another heater source

Thomas27's photo
Sun 06/01/14 08:20 PM
Ummmmmm...... Go fishing??

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Sun 06/01/14 08:23 PM
Maybe

stan_147's photo
Sun 06/01/14 08:57 PM
Darn it! I came in here thinking this thread was about angry sex. Carry on.

Cosita89's photo
Sun 06/01/14 09:14 PM
Hmm it's all about compromise. But don't be ashamed to let him know how freaky u like to be. Maybe he is pretending not to like sex bc u're not showing him ur real wild side, and maybe due to that it has become a bit borring for him. I'm sure once u get really open with him, he'll rock ur world and vise versa.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 06/02/14 07:15 AM
Honestly the last guy I was with did not care for sex he was looking for companionship instead. After six months nothing changed he very seldom wanted sex and he was living with me so I know it was not someone else...

What did I do I told him we were looking for two different things in life and it was time for him to move out... I wanted intimacy and sex as well he wanted just companionship told him I hope he finds what he is looking for cause it was not with me... waving

2469nascar's photo
Mon 06/02/14 07:30 AM

Darn it! I came in here thinking this thread was about angry sex. Carry on.
ya me to, bummer...lol

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 06/02/14 11:44 AM
Edited by Dodo_David on Mon 06/02/14 11:46 AM

what do u do when u are in a relationship and ure man doesnt like sex like u do? It that cold season and a conversation wont keep u warm.


Your question must be a hypothetical question.

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Wed 06/04/14 09:56 PM
Heyy pll

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 06/04/14 10:03 PM

Ummmmmm...... Go fishing??


Right on!
drinker

omfriendsnc's photo
Thu 06/05/14 09:05 AM
love :thumbsup:

CowboyGH's photo
Thu 06/05/14 10:02 AM

what do u do when u are in a relationship and ure man doesnt like sex like u do? It that cold season and a conversation wont keep u warm.


Depends on how much you like/love him and if you're willing to "save" yourself for him. If you can't "save" yourself for him, then the relationship thereof won't last, no true actual relationship with actual sentimental meaning will last on that level.

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Fri 06/06/14 10:12 PM
what do u do when ure man doesnt like sex like u do?
First, you have to find out the cause. What are the reasons your man has stopped having sex with you?
One thing you can do when you find yourself in this situation is to go with your husband or mate to a medical doctor to discover whether or not his lack of desire is tied to a medical issue.
However, after talking openly with your partner, you may discover that your sexual issues are more emotional:
1. He may be angry with you over some perceived event or experience.
2. He may feel that you are over-controlling and hypercritical, and has shut down in an effort to push back.
3. He may be bored. As the saying goes, "familiarity breeds contempt," as you and your partner get into a sex routine that may cause you to take each other for granted.
4. And you can't overlook the real possibility that your mate is bored of having sex with you because he is really interested in having sex with someone else... a rationale that frees him from being faithful.
5. Finally, husbands and lovers who have problems with intimacy often put space and distance between them and you when they find themselves in a committed relationship, which can make them feel vulnerable.

aidata's photo
Sat 06/07/14 09:23 AM
You like a crazy dog.

aidata's photo
Sat 06/07/14 09:25 AM
You like a crazy dog.

dreamerana's photo
Sat 06/07/14 05:55 PM

what do u do when u are in a relationship and ure man doesnt like sex like u do? It that cold season and a conversation wont keep u warm.

Has this always been the case since you started seeing each other or were you having intimacy and now things are different?
If things are different, what changed and what else is your relationship besides sexual?
If sex is your only compatibility, I suppose it would be hard to remain together.
If you have a lot more than sex going for you, then only you can decide of it it's worth holding on to.

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Sun 06/08/14 02:59 PM
heya
flowerforyou

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Sun 06/08/14 03:24 PM
Why don't you both talk to a sex therapist about it?


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Sun 06/08/14 03:34 PM
This may sound a little mean, but maybe it is not that he lacks interest in sex, it is he lacks interest in sex with YOU, or at least lack of interest of the TYPE/STYLE of sex YOU give him.

Most men I know are interested in sex, but sometimes women like to play the "show me how sexy i am" they want the man to make the move "on their time" because we all know if it isn't on the women's time(aka not in the mood) then it's not going to happen.

I've had girlfriends in the past that played that game, and later thought i wasn't interested in sex, I was very interested in sex, i just stopped making the first move, and 'chasing' so I waited for them to make the move, most of the time they didn't, or if they did it would be weeks before they did, that told me they weren't as interested in it as I was so I said 'see-ya' and found someone who understood that not every sex encounter needs to begin with a guy pushing a woman into the wall(though that can be fun on occasion), not every sex encounter is going to be as passionate as it is on TV.

What i'm saying is, he is probably still interested, and if you're in doubt, try initiating, but don't wait until 11pm after he gets off work, or has a rough day, try earlier in the day on his day off, some women think men are ready to go at a moment's notice and whenever, that's not always the case.

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