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I refuse to settle for less than what I want in a mate. Does this make me a *****? Probably. I just want someone to be happy with. I don't care about money or prestige. But I won't take someone just so that I don't have to be alone. I have come to enjoy and LIKE my company thank you.
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Does this make me a *****? Probably. Finally the stars are aligned. It makes you adventurous! |
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I refuse to settle for less than what I want in a mate. Does this make me a *****? Probably. I just want someone to be happy with. I don't care about money or prestige. But I won't take someone just so that I don't have to be alone. I have come to enjoy and LIKE my company thank you. Happiness is an inside job. |
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I'd settle until I found the right person
 Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored. |
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have had great long terms with un-obvious choices that surprised "other people". Who cares!
"Settling" would have to with principles and ideals. Once thought I was jazzed to be dating a (magazine standard) super model type. 2 weeks in she started spouting racist/antisemitic GARBAGE......GAME OVER!!! |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Sat 06/21/14 07:01 PM
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no it doesn't make you anything of the sort. it's your life, live it as you see fit.
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Sometimes I think I settled and ya no fun. That or we just grew apart.
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I'd settle until I found the right person Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored. my profile is speaking to you, isn't it? |
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I'd settle until I found the right person Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored. my profile is speaking to you, isn't it? I was wondering what that buzzing noise was! 
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Why is settling such a dirty word?
When you choose what to wear for the day, do you settle upon a particular outfit? When you decide to buy a new car, so you decide between a couple before you settle upon one? When you go out to eat and are torn between the steak or the shrimp, don't you settle upon one of them? Does settling make any of those choices wrong or lesser than? |
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have had great long terms with un-obvious choices that surprised "other people". Who cares! "Settling" would have to with principles and ideals. Once thought I was jazzed to be dating a (magazine standard) super model type. 2 weeks in she started spouting racist/antisemitic GARBAGE......GAME OVER!!!
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I have come to enjoy and LIKE my company thank you. Your welcome? |
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have had great long terms with un-obvious choices that surprised "other people". Who cares! "Settling" would have to with principles and ideals. Once thought I was jazzed to be dating a (magazine standard) super model type. 2 weeks in she started spouting racist/antisemitic GARBAGE......GAME OVER!!! Super......Model 
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I would rather be a ***** and alone, before I be with someone that I am not happy with.............
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Sat 06/21/14 10:10 PM
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I agree with your thoughts, actually being with the wrong person is worse than being alone.
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I'd settle until I found the right person Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored. So you date just so you won't be bored? Do you not get out and do things unless you're dating someone? What about friends? Do you spend time with them? Are they boring to be around, for some reason? |
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I think you are doing the right thing. There's a reason I'm fussy about who I choose to date. Will never lower my standards ever again. I soon learnt from that.
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Once thought I was jazzed to be dating a (magazine standard) super model type. 2 weeks in she started spouting racist/antisemitic GARBAGE......GAME OVER!!! Always the case. It looks good until it opens it's mouth. |
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I'd settle until I found the right person Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored. So you date just so you won't be bored? Do you not get out and do things unless you're dating someone? What about friends? Do you spend time with them? Are they boring to be around, for some reason? I was being sarcastic ... my stupid sense of humour  I can't even remember the last date I went on...and i've had one relationship (which lasted 6 months) in the past 3 years...so I can clearly entertain myself 
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Edited by
no1phD
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Sun 06/22/14 11:11 AM
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Hmm.. I have settled once before..
. now that I am settled.. in being single.. I will settle for nothing less.. .. but as I settle in my chair.. and set my sights on this.. question of settling v\s being single.. a single thought comes to mind.. why would you settle... for nothing less.. unless you are happy with the thought of settling... for less than what you deserve... that single thought a loan... unsettleds me.. just my single thought...  
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