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Where were all of your vows when you signed those divorce papers?.... anyhoo, I dont see anyone referring to morality even though that would be fine, yes?... theyre just giving perspectives. Its what we do here in the threads. He will like some of what he reads and dislike other things, just like all of us do. right? Honestly, he will probably not read any of it... But that is pure speculation. Like I said, I do not believe he is really trying that hard.. and thats fine too It takes a lot of courage to be honest... I would say he is one of the better ones.. It is good to see someone not coming off playing the victim role... So, I can appreciate that, regardless of what my perspective is on his situation. Hope you enjoy the rest of your evening :) Hmmmm... No, that is not what he said. He did not say that he petitioned his wife to have sex with other women, he simply stated that his wife suggested that he find other women to fulfill that need. He did not give any long sob story filled with self pitty about how he was lonely and just couldn't do without it.. |
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Hey all, I'm married happily but my wife has had surgery that's left her out of action so she has insisted I find an open minded person to "be with" on top of not being able to do anything she also has no interest in anything else. Finding it hard to find people like that though. Any help? For some reason I have a feeling your wife did not say that. JMO |
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Where were all of your vows when you signed those divorce papers?.... anyhoo, I dont see anyone referring to morality even though that would be fine, yes?... theyre just giving perspectives. Its what we do here in the threads. He will like some of what he reads and dislike other things, just like all of us do. right? Honestly, he will probably not read any of it... But that is pure speculation. Like I said, I do not believe he is really trying that hard.. and thats fine too It takes a lot of courage to be honest... I would say he is one of the better ones.. It is good to see someone not coming off playing the victim role... So, I can appreciate that, regardless of what my perspective is on his situation. Hope you enjoy the rest of your evening :) Hmmmm... No, that is not what he said. He did not say that he petitioned his wife to have sex with other women, he simply stated that his wife suggested that he find other women to fulfill that need. He did not give any long sob story filled with self pitty about how he was lonely and just couldn't do without it.. You win? |
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 Whatever happened to for better or for worse, in sickness and in health......FFS.....Even with the others consent a seed has been planted, man up, youve got two hands, respect, respect, respect....ohhh, rant over, I'll go back to my cave now
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is it a contest? You tell me |
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Hey all, I'm married happily but my wife has had surgery that's left her out of action so she has insisted I find an open minded person to "be with" on top of not being able to do anything she also has no interest in anything else. Finding it hard to find people like that though. Any help? For some reason I have a feeling your wife did not say that. JMO She did it for me  While the cats are away, the mice are going to play 
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Hey all, I'm married happily but my wife has had surgery that's left her out of action so she has insisted I find an open minded person to "be with" on top of not being able to do anything she also has no interest in anything else. Finding it hard to find people like that though. Any help? So, you are asking strangers for advice on how to commit adultery. No thanks. I respect the institution of marriage too much to give you what you want. |
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I've read all the comments so far and thank you all for your input. Just to clarify I never hinted, suggested or even mentioned anything like this to her it was a decision she made on her own, that I was originally against but have sorta come around to the idea. I care for my family just fine and we've pretty much gone over everything but her final decision was for this to go ahead and over all else it's what makes her happy that counts. She also talks to anyone who shows any interest and says no to anyone she doesn't like.
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I've read all the comments so far and thank you all for your input. Just to clarify I never hinted, suggested or even mentioned anything like this to her it was a decision she made on her own, that I was originally against but have sorta come around to the idea. I care for my family just fine and we've pretty much gone over everything but her final decision was for this to go ahead and over all else it's what makes her happy that counts. She also talks to anyone who shows any interest and says no to anyone she doesn't like. If your wife has suggested that you commit adultery, then so be it. |
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I've read all the comments so far and thank you all for your input. Just to clarify I never hinted, suggested or even mentioned anything like this to her it was a decision she made on her own, that I was originally against but have sorta come around to the idea. I care for my family just fine and we've pretty much gone over everything but her final decision was for this to go ahead and over all else it's what makes her happy that counts. She also talks to anyone who shows any interest and says no to anyone she doesn't like. So you running around with other women makes her happy??? I am speechless 
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I remember several years back when Will Smith announced that he and his wife were in an open relationship... They are still married happily as far as I know... Who am I to say what works and what doesn't. The committed relationships that I have been in, I haven't worked out thus far...
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hummmm, let me see now, when I had neck surgery and I was married. I probably was so hurting that I would've said the same thing AND NOT MEANT IT. "okay honey, take another pain pill." lol
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I don't see what could go wrong with this plan.
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This is one of those things that was doomed from the start.
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I don't see what could go wrong with this plan. i hope your joking? |
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Yes, I can see your wife's recovery going well not having to worry about fulfilling your basic needs. This companion you seek, will she also be responsible for the cooking and cleaning? I can't imagine you would want to put these undue hardships on your wife either. And I can tell you are not versed in the ways of taking care of your damn self. |
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I remember several years back when Will Smith announced that he and his wife were in an open relationship... They are still married happily as far as I know... Who am I to say what works and what doesn't. The committed relationships that I have been in, I haven't worked out thus far... ... as in mature. aside from that, people will do what they choose to do. Its the ops business of course but if he's asking for participants in his adultery...good luck with that, and the marriage. I read it on the Internet, it's true.... 
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As far as I can tell, you're only posting tidbit affirmation in a choice that's personal.
Since you asked, I will ask you this, did you take vows with her to honor in better and worse. Sickness and health. Etc. Where does that go at a time like this? In the end, to each their own. We can all tell you do this, that or the other. In the end you are the one who has to face yourself in the mirror every day. Wish you the best |
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