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Topic: Dating single moms yeah or nay?
damfa's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:39 AM
My friends second wife told me no matter how old the kids get they never totally leave you. She has 3 from prior marriage and he has none. Needless to say they caused some drama in their marriage.

Is it wise to date a single mom knowing that the kids will get in the way of the relationship? I hate it when you make reservations and they get blown away due to a kid problem. Am I being a selfish SOB or just should stay away from that situation?

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Thu 06/26/14 02:44 AM
u r right damfa...
my own experience too...i was dating a single mom..she was 15 years elder to me...still our chemistry was superb...we love each other...

but not for long time...her kids (that time teenagers) revolted...she too stopped getting along with me...
:(

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:49 AM
I'm not opposed to the idea,

but I also think that I wouldn't blame it entirely on the kids being the reason something didnt work, granted they may be a contributing factor, but if something ends, it means either one or both parties are ok with it ending.....so that person wasn't a fit move on to the next, but overall you need to decide if a single mom fits YOUR life, thats just my 2 cents

padmaja963's photo
Thu 06/26/14 02:51 AM
so sad
i hate this post
y men always behind single woman
leave them plssssssss

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Thu 06/26/14 02:56 AM
i agree with isaac_dede...
in my case too...she was not firm about our relationship....

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Thu 06/26/14 02:57 AM
@padmaja963
babe...u dont look like a singlemom...y do u scream...
lol....

damfa's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:04 AM
Single mom dating is more complex as you got the kid(s) the biological father and in some cases his family to deal with. If they have a teenager that is another problem in itself.

Is the drama worth it?

moseseyo's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:06 AM
I love to date a singel mom more because that attention is always been given to the guy. There better off than the singel ladies I love them any singel mom in the house lol. bigsmile

mikey5360's photo
Thu 06/26/14 03:34 AM
Single mum/single hmmmmmmmm......there still woman aren't they???

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:09 AM
frustrated frustrated frustrated
Who Would Date A Married Mom..

damfa's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:30 AM

frustrated frustrated frustrated
Who Would Date A Married Mom..


Who would date a single PREGNANT mom?laugh

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:32 AM


frustrated frustrated frustrated
Who Would Date A Married Mom..


Who would date a single PREGNANT mom?laugh


The Babys Father???

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:38 AM
Ive Never Got Subjects On Forums Like This...

Why,,Is There A Stigma Attached To Single Moms..

They Tend To Be Much Stronger,Than A Man

That Cannot Step Up To His Responsibilities..

damfa's photo
Thu 06/26/14 04:47 AM

Ive Never Got Subjects On Forums Like This...

Why,,Is There A Stigma Attached To Single Moms..

They Tend To Be Much Stronger,Than A Man

That Cannot Step Up To His Responsibilities..


Maybe the mom is Maury Povich material and needs a DNA test to figure out who the real father is. You know they all look alike in the darklaugh

no photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:14 AM
single moms have feelings too,situations come up that cant be avoided.see men can run from there responsibilities if they want and women cant.so, no children should not interfere with someones happiness.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:15 AM
Well, what about us single dads? Are we "off limits" too?

smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 06/26/14 05:21 AM

Well, what about us single dads? Are we "off limits" too?


absolutely not

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Thu 06/26/14 05:38 AM
DNA test require when you are not sure,in case multiple kids mom its needs to find kids are twins if so de 99% sure father is same. But if U hve to date multiple kids mom. Its all needs to belive her if she has four kids you ask her details of Y chromsomes of each kids I dont know how she will burst out only I can pray GOD save U

Esmeralda08757's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:15 AM
If you don't like children you should not date a single mother or father. You probably should not have children of your own either.

Some folks have dated people who have children from a previous relationship and have treated these children as if they were their own. It's not always easy but I think these people deserve a lot of credit. If you are not able to do this, you probably should only date the childless.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 06/26/14 11:35 AM

If you don't like children you should not date a single mother or father. You probably should not have children of your own either.

Some folks have dated people who have children from a previous relationship and have treated these children as if they were their own. It's not always easy but I think these people deserve a lot of credit. If you are not able to do this, you probably should only date the childless.

Ditto~~~


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