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Everyday do something you wouldn't normally do. Eventually it gets easier and easier. besides having shyness in me i also have fear that's why i can't really do a lot of things i wouldn't usually do i mean i think about it but at the end i chicken out The reason for both your problems, shyness & fear, is the lack of self-confidence. Did you read my post on this? I gave you a real life example to let you know that if I could do it so can you. Btw, I have been an adjunct professor, on & off, for the past 17 years. Most of my students are around your age. Many have/had your problem. I did help some of them overcome their shyness and/or fear. All you need is patience and the "I can do it" attitude. And dont forget, to become a successful actor, shyness & fear will never help. Good luck and God bless. honestly what you wrote i didn't understand and i didn't get your point and i don't lack confidence i have plenty you don't know me at all and don't act like you know everything cause you're way off |
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Edited by
premierblue
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Fri 07/11/14 02:23 AM
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Everyday do something you wouldn't normally do. Eventually it gets easier and easier. besides having shyness in me i also have fear that's why i can't really do a lot of things i wouldn't usually do i mean i think about it but at the end i chicken out The reason for both your problems, shyness & fear, is the lack of self-confidence. Did you read my post on this? I gave you a real life example to let you know that if I could do it so can you. Btw, I have been an adjunct professor, on & off, for the past 17 years. Most of my students are around your age. Many have/had your problem. I did help some of them overcome their shyness and/or fear. All you need is patience and the "I can do it" attitude. And dont forget, to become a successful actor, shyness & fear will never help. Good luck and God bless. I'm not shy or fearful, I was just answering her post. That post was meant for Just_Dance123 and not for you, Oldhag. I've read many of your posts on the forums and you certainly don't come across as somebody suffering from shyness or fear. With my experience working with young people her age I was sincerely trying to help her. |
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Everyday do something you wouldn't normally do. Eventually it gets easier and easier. besides having shyness in me i also have fear that's why i can't really do a lot of things i wouldn't usually do i mean i think about it but at the end i chicken out The reason for both your problems, shyness & fear, is the lack of self-confidence. Did you read my post on this? I gave you a real life example to let you know that if I could do it so can you. Btw, I have been an adjunct professor, on & off, for the past 17 years. Most of my students are around your age. Many have/had your problem. I did help some of them overcome their shyness and/or fear. All you need is patience and the "I can do it" attitude. And dont forget, to become a successful actor, shyness & fear will never help. Good luck and God bless. honestly what you wrote i didn't understand and i didn't get your point and i don't lack confidence i have plenty you don't know me at all and don't act like you know everything cause you're way off Sorry, I wasn't trying to be rude or pushy. I guess that we are just not on the same intellectual frequency! |
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you   sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine 
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Msmoxi87
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Fri 07/11/14 07:33 AM
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I'm not sure if I'm really shy or not, but I am pretty antisocial. People kinda gets on my nerves. But anywho when it comes to a guy I wana get to know, I usually just go for it. If hes into me then that's good but if he's not, it sucks but I just keep it moving. I guess I been turned down so many times that I'm kinda numb to rejection. U won't know, unless u put yourself out there. U will be ok. Ur beautiful :)
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol [/quoteI'm a guy,I had that problem most of my life,was'nt a lack of confidence or nothing like that,i just had the wrong attitude, i felt like i did'nt have to kiss no @ss,cus the attititude some peopl give when you just say "hi"ect.,was like their better than me or somthin like that,but i worried more about them than the ones that were more mature ect,but the work envirement help me alot,dealing with customers /guest and coworkers...so now,the ones that i think mite give me the attitude,alot of times their the ones i go and mess with even if i dont like them in that sense,lol i get i kick out of it,and some times to my surprise,their not even like that,,so to me its your attitude,you can go up to that person and talk about anything,could be like,"its realy cold today rite"he might be like,"oh yeah want use my coat" ect, now look at you,,  |
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Hi Im the same with women who I find attractive. I dont know where to start in a conversation with them. Im very easy to talk to as.
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Everyday do something you wouldn't normally do. Eventually it gets easier and easier. besides having shyness in me i also have fear that's why i can't really do a lot of things i wouldn't usually do i mean i think about it but at the end i chicken out You have to understand that everyone has fears of various degrees and there is a way to combat all fears. Here in Texas, there is an old saying, "When you fall off a horse, you get right back on!" The meaning is that to conquer a fear you simply have to do the thing you fear. Keep in mind that you don't have to start out by doing the thing you fear the most, just something. A good example is having a fear of talking to people. Go to a museum and approach someone looking at an exhibit (or if you want something even easier approach someone working at the museum) and ask, "What do think of this exhibit?" A simple light conversation with start and the more you do it the more your fear will subside. If you will approach your fears one at a time in this manner, you will soon realize, you have nothing to fear but fear itself. |
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol  !!!
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine yeah sorry but i care about age so you don't need to worry about you getting my attention |
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine yeah sorry but i care about age so you don't need to worry about you getting my attention woah...back the love trolly up.i was only giving you advice,not trying to marry you |
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Its normal to be shy at your age and it can work to your advantage because you will not be the type to rush into things, just go with it and eventually you will meet a nice young man and the shyness will drop naturally. Good luck to you.
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Sat 07/12/14 03:28 PM
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine yeah sorry but i care about age so you don't need to worry about you getting my woah...back the love trolly up.i was only giving you advice,not trying to marry you |
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She reminds me of a black stallion; stubborn and dangerous. I want to be the cowboy that breaks her in. Yee hah!
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol !!! Why is it the only guys who are brave enough are the really overweight ones, or ones that you wouldn't normally go for? |
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol !!! Why is it the only guys who are brave enough are the really overweight ones, or ones that you wouldn't normally go for? i'm not over weight  
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine yeah sorry but i care about age so you don't need to worry about you getting my attention woah...back the love trolly up.i was only giving you advice,not trying to marry you Hi JT. where did everybodys sense of humor go here? how funny 
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol go to a bar (wearing a white tee shirt),buy a drink and spill it on yourself,you won't have to say anything.the drink does all the work for you sorry but i don't drink or go to bars nor am i ever going to i'm better than that hey who said you had to drink the alcohol,it's only gonna be used to get someones attention i know it would get mine yeah sorry but i care about age so you don't need to worry about you getting my attention woah...back the love trolly up.i was only giving you advice,not trying to marry you Hi JT. where did everybodys sense of humor go here? how funny i don't know.i'm guessing they haven't tried looking on Ebay.i bet they could get one pretty cheap on there 
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I'm not afraid to admit i'm shy. i wish i could be more outgoing but that doesn't seem to be working for me. especially when i see a handsome guy i never seem to have any words and it's frustrating! i can't even go up to a guy and ask a simple question or say hi lol !!! Why is it the only guys who are brave enough are the really overweight ones, or ones that you wouldn't normally go for? i'm not over weight No, but your too old apparently 
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