..always kind of liked the dirty boy approach

....after getting slapped and hearing "not if you were the last man on earth!!! "

saying, "Well then I guess a bj is out of the question?"

sometimes it breaks the ice?

I was a sweet talker from birth. I say things off the cuff and damn, I have to pinch myself because it is all cheese.

"Where did you get those eyes from, your parents must have spent alot of money on you?".

"How long did it take you to get a bum like that? Nice work".

Pick a feature and compliment, it always breaks the ice.

Makes sense... For me it's no longer about how fast I can tap that. It's a process of getting to know her after she peeked my interest. She could be just a future good friend for all I know.
I got it wrong so many other times that today I'm way careful with peoples emotions.

I guess I'm done with laying it on thick at first then needing to pull back for whatever reason later. Compliments and Sweet talking should be sincere and natural always.

lol

good thread

Thank you.

It's a shame more men who love romancing women don't participate.

There are plenty shy guys who post threads about not being able to get women. They could use the other men's support.

I do feel for women who have experienced only user types of men. They don't like it and, they believe their only option is to avoid all men.

Hence, lonely, CCLs. Crazy Cat Ladies.



I learned, the only way to change the type of person one attracts is for that person to change themselves so, they no longer attract the user types.