Topic: Men. Are you a Cunning Sweet Talker?
michele63's photo
Tue 08/05/14 09:23 AM

No games. If he wants to be with me passed the sex, then it's cool.

Good attitude. i like it. too many fish in the sea to drown cause one.
laugh laugh laugh laugh

willing2's photo
Tue 08/05/14 09:34 AM

whatever works for ya Casanova!


What works for you?

How do you work 'em?

Awatersign's photo
Tue 08/05/14 10:12 AM
Lol aint know secretes here,just being a good listener and always think its not all about me,and knowing how not to get stuck in that"friend zone",and by knowing how to control the conversation,makin um laugh without being a total D&%k,and being able to adapt to them while still being who you are,and remember, everyone aint going fall for you dont care how tight your "game is" ect,basic stuff you know!shades drinker

Awatersign's photo
Tue 08/05/14 10:24 AM
And almost forgot,BODYLANGUAGE,,,this MAY be a secrete to some caus aint everyone know how to read womens bodylanguage,,this can give you a cue to bck off or a green light to go!shades

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 08/05/14 10:24 AM
Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

michele63's photo
Tue 08/05/14 11:29 AM

Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

you look smooth. lol
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

willing2's photo
Tue 08/05/14 02:38 PM


Klc he does it on purpose...being late...
I guess he cant bring himself to admit that. He just kept telling me 'which date' or 'how many minutes' instead of 'why' which was all I asked.

Maybe he feels bad about it?


Pray tell.

Why would I feel bad about teasing, pleasing and romancing women?

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

willing2's photo
Tue 08/05/14 02:39 PM

Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

What bait do you use to snag a gal.

Or, do they do the chasing?:wink:

michele63's photo
Tue 08/05/14 02:59 PM



Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

you look smooth. lol
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
oh ... Gravel roads can be dangerous ... The risk of losing control :-)
imagine travelling over that road. heeheeheepitchfork pitchfork laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

TBRich's photo
Tue 08/05/14 03:57 PM
When studying PUA, you can get a bunch of canned lines,etc. but I always felt whatever came out spontaneously was best. The last time I actually cared enough to try, I told a woman her legs looked like they tasted like cinnamon and we are still very close. That is actually the hard part, keeping a relationship; getting them into bed is the easy part

willing2's photo
Tue 08/05/14 03:58 PM




Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

you look smooth. lol
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
oh ... Gravel roads can be dangerous ... The risk of losing control :-)
imagine travelling over that road. heeheeheepitchfork pitchfork laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Hot Damn, Pancho!

Looks like we have a winner.

Get him, ladies!smokin

no photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:04 PM




Yaaaaa.No.
I'm about as smooth as a gravel road.whoa

you look smooth. lol
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
oh ... Gravel roads can be dangerous ... The risk of losing control :-)
imagine travelling over that road. heeheeheepitchfork pitchfork laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


the bumps....the curves....the dangerpitchfork drool shades

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:11 PM
Being a cunning sweet talker doesn't come naturally for me. But the nurses and female aides are teaching me to be better. It still seems like the art of lying to me. But the job is the job. I just love working with the crazies. Its the normal ones that throw me off. Or when the Dr. Jekyll turns into the Mr. Hyde without warning.:smile:

TBRich's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:15 PM

Or when the Dr. Jekyll turns into the Mr. Hyde without warning.:smile:


So, you work with my ex-wife then?

no1phD's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:17 PM


That should be one of their rules. LOLOLOLOL
pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork :laughing: :laughing:
.. surrrre!!! nowwww.. somebody tells me .....lmwo.
that's a little bit like closing the barn door. after the horses xscape.
laugh rofl rofl frustrated :angel:

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:25 PM


Or when the Dr. Jekyll turns into the Mr. Hyde without warning.:smile:


So, you work with my ex-wife then?


Did you marry her first? She said she wasn't married before. laugh

TBRich's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:34 PM



Or when the Dr. Jekyll turns into the Mr. Hyde without warning.:smile:


So, you work with my ex-wife then?


Did you marry her first? She said she wasn't married before. laugh


I don't really know- at this point the whole thing feels like a bad dream

Shovs's photo
Tue 08/05/14 04:52 PM

Once I made a girl fall in love with me by letting the phone ring, and ring, and ring, and ring.....until finally she asked, "Are you going to get that?"

I said, "There is no one I want to talk to. YOU....are already here."


....but you see, I don't think I could have pulled that off unless I meant it. So I concur with the above. Sincerity and truth will always trump tricks and manipulation.


Congratulations, You get the Award for best answer!
You have to be real as it is too tiring to keep up a charade.

*Btw, don't you think that Willing2 scrubs up well! I had to do a double take and even check out his profile. blushing *

Players will be thrown back in the playing field where they belong. Ok, I know men love sex and women love romance, but the key is in mixing this up in the right proportion which requires time and effort but is richly rewarded. Communication is key. Chemistry is essential.

For what it"s worth, I read a brilliant book called The Five Languages of Love. Once you know her language and she knows yours, then the real talking happens.

Shy boys have their place in the arena of love too as half the fun is learning all this stuff.:banana: No short cuts. Shucks all this love talk is making me ache again...


no photo
Tue 08/05/14 05:42 PM
Edited by JOHNN111 on Tue 08/05/14 05:58 PM


whatever works for ya Casanova!


What works for you?

How do you work 'em?


Well that's easy, it works itself... waiting around for someone new sucks so I wouldn't do that to her. I'm punctual so I'll be there on time, I think that's golden for most. there's no way I'll be aloof as a first opinion of me. Then, I like to mix it up, rarely doing the same stuff on outings If it works out between us, it was special and if it doesn't, it was special anyways. I've done tons of things that I wouldn't have done or thought of doing without her input.

I like to use hands and not in the groping way brother... hand on hand and arms, I feel it till she kicks the door wide open. If it takes a while, so be it if I like her.
And if that doesn't work, I make her a mean Greek salad smokin

willing2's photo
Tue 08/05/14 08:40 PM
Have one lady friend I've been dating/ hanging out with for over two years. She has keys to my place and I have keys to hers. We even do business together and her kid lives with me during school years.

We won't be getting married, live together or even have, OMG, sex together.

Dating for me isn't about trying to convince every woman I hook up with that we belong together for life.

And I know for certain, not all women who enjoy my company gonna want to wake up to my mug every morning.

Gonna be a long, lonely road for many those 'perfect' folks.laugh smokin