apparently so.... when I said..I DO..
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Jesus... this thread is still going on?

And cheating has nothing to do with this thread this thread is about insincere compliements on sudden questions such as "How do I look?"

In theory the best honey to the women's ears is the truth. In practice a guy may find that messengers do get shot if the news is anything BUT the honey. Dating a woman with a visible difference such as overweight, big nose or smth else may therefore become a challenge cuz while guy might be absolutely insanely attracted to the woman's personality... he will still have to say something about his date's looks once prompted... and usually unprepared.

So far all the answers have been firm proponents to the truth and the definition of that truth is- a dude still has to say she's the best in every category incl the looks BUT he must MEAN it as the truth.

Maybe it is best to go for only the women, to who you could honestly answer yes you are the prettiest? Or what? Cuz I can see going for the inner beauty in imperfect package leading into trouble. Especially when one falls in love and do not expect the sudden scrutiny. Or am I missing something big here?

I'm not really asking advice for myself. Having sketched dozens of people, maybe a hundred, which means focusing on every feature my eyes can see, I have developed my approach to this thing how to stay on the truth's side without conflicting logic and offending the woman and it works. But I'm still curious how others do it.

Nice Val ^^^
Baring your honesty and humility to her will will bring it back in spades.....
once you are aware of and fall for each others imperfections the rest is easy.....
Honesty over lies anyday....

Yes, it appears you are "missing something big here".


If you don't mean it, don't say it. Don't say it if it serves no good purpose TO be said. It's really just that simple...and really NOT that difficult to put into practice.

Using your example, when she asks "Do you think I'm the prettiest girl, EVAH?!?" [Really? Grown women ASK that???], there is no GOOD reason for you to say, "Well, no...no you're not. That nose of yours, that can be picked up from space, really destroys any hope you'd ever have of being considered even remotely attractive, as it completely blocks out any and all of your other facial features which - IF able to be seen - might be somewhat pleasing.

"But, thank God, you've got that stellar personality, which allows me to overlook your humongous honker!!!"



While (eventually) she may appreciate your (brutal) honesty, most likely she'll simple be hurt by it and you may find yourself alone, again, to find That Most Awesome Beauty - With a Stellar Personality, of Course - which you most truly deserve, after she decides you're, honestly, just a d*ck.

Hahahahar rilly funny

Holy cow! I hope you didn't get a heart attack while writing this.

But point taken - just STFU. Simple enough indeed.

Nope...no heart attack. No rise in blood pressure, I wasn't even breathing heavily, nor did I feel any stirring in my loins.

It actually took my about 43 seconds to type, from start to finish, right off the top of my head.



Online dilemmas don't really warrant too much emotional - nor time - investment...



...on MY part, anyway.

Not sure why I am laughing at that but I am

It's bad to lie to women. Just say the truth and be your self. Most of the time when it comes to dating or having a relationship with women, they do not believe the truth, They believe lies.

Yes only if it saves you from a big fight ( you are looking beautiful in this dress babe, Fat? No!!!!)

So lie to avoid fights ... Interesting

Is it ok to lie to women.
Well yes it is, but don't expect your testicles to stay where they are if you caught.

I agree. Some of us get a bit upset when lied to.

Lying for a good purpose is not bad I guess. If somebody praises you , you get happy whether he is lying or not ,simple as that :p

rayAhopeHi, you do own a "cup", right?

Women do not believe guys that always say the truth

Totally, whatever you say

I wonder why

.. ok so under this logic.. Of never lying to a woman... or a man for that fact... I go on a meet and greet..
. a blind date let's say...
.. and the person that is to be your date... is hideous.. overweight by 180 pounds.... the worst halitosis you have ever smelled in your .. life..
... you have a coffee with them..
.. and they ask you sooo... what do you think ...are we a match.. and why...
.. but they are a very nice person...
.. try not lying to them.. are crush their feelings.... I think a little white lie in that case... maybe do you think..
Lmao

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