Topic: lonlyness
maximine's photo
Sat 09/27/14 05:29 PM



Loneliness is a part of life and it teach us much about us so if we take it in positive seance
Where do I go?
When I'm feeling so lost and I don't want to be found.
When I'm looking and listening for that peace in my heart.
But I know I'll never hear that sound.
Where do I go?
Where do I go when I'm trying to laugh but all I can do I cry?
I'm trying to keep on living because I'm not ready to die.
Where do I go because the sun never seems to shine?
Can you give me my life back it's not yours it's mine?
How do I keep going, how do I fight this fight?
I'm tired of feeling beat down, but I'm trying with all my might!
Where do I go when my head hangs so low?
Please give me an answer because I just don't know!
Where do I go?
Does it take very long?
For me to find that peace and a place where I belong.
I need you to help me, help me to take a stand.
I'm scared to do it by myself, will you please take my hand?
Where do I go? Where do I go? Where do I go?
Do you know

Rubicat's photo
Sun 09/28/14 10:37 AM




Loneliness is a part of life and it teach us much about us so if we take it in positive seance
Where do I go?
When I'm feeling so lost and I don't want to be found.
When I'm looking and listening for that peace in my heart.
But I know I'll never hear that sound.
Where do I go?
Where do I go when I'm trying to laugh but all I can do I cry?
I'm trying to keep on living because I'm not ready to die.
Where do I go because the sun never seems to shine?
Can you give me my life back it's not yours it's mine?
How do I keep going, how do I fight this fight?
I'm tired of feeling beat down, but I'm trying with all my might!
Where do I go when my head hangs so low?
Please give me an answer because I just don't know!
Where do I go?
Does it take very long?
For me to find that peace and a place where I belong.
I need you to help me, help me to take a stand.
I'm scared to do it by myself, will you please take my hand?
Where do I go? Where do I go? Where do I go?
Do you know

That is really beautiful,really sad and painful but still amazing .Sending you a big hug.flowers :thumbsup:

maximine's photo
Sun 09/28/14 01:46 PM



thanking you ...hugs back .....

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 09/28/14 05:34 PM
I am finding that it can be just as hard to ask for help as it is to give it. It is just one of the perks I find in being a care giver.:smile: Sure beats loneliness.flowerforyou

Rubicat's photo
Sun 09/28/14 08:44 PM
Hey Max have you thought of being a caregiver? We all have so much to he grateful for when we still have our health(well most of it) Why not find someone who needs your care,animals,humans,elderly,Terminal. There are so many other lonely souls out there who need some attention.
I always find a way to pay it forward when I am really depressed and it lifts my spirit.
One small act of kindness can mean the world to someone else.

Tomishereagain's photo
Thu 11/06/14 11:39 AM
I feel for ya.

Perhaps this will help some...

Loneliness and being alone are two different things.

Being alone is a circumstance where Loneliness is a depression.

For most people (there are causes for depression that are medical) depression is something that only you can beat. It requires a change in thinking and creating new activities. Being aware that you are depressed is the first step. Many people baulk at the idea that they are not in full control of themselves but you gotta get past that.

You may not be able to change the fact that you are alone but you can change the way you see it. You have to recognize the thinking that is causing the depression. Once you can see it coming you can redirect your thinking to something more desirable.

Those things you tell yourself have a direct impact on your minds state of health. Longing for something you do not have is just reinforcing your sense of loss. Concentrate on the things in your life that you do have. Work towards making the things you like better.

Oh, and something else,... Proclaim the GOOD THINGS in your life.
When something happens in your life that is a Good Thing actually say the words - This is a Good Thing - It does help you keep focus on the good.

Being alone is something we all must contend with from time to time.
Stop trying to be Happy and try to be Content. When you are content, happiness just seems to find its own way into your life and it is a natural happiness.

Contentment and natural happiness attracts potential partners no matter the gender. If you can get control of the loneliness state of mind your contentment may remedy the state of being alone.

I wish you luck my friend!waving

no photo
Wed 12/03/14 03:25 AM
Wow! That's great, valuable counsel on loneliness-management. Thanks for the nice post, Tomishereagain :)

Spike1964's photo
Mon 12/15/14 08:42 AM
I have been alone for half of my life but never felt Loneliness too many people around me gets on my nerves just enjoy being alone for most of the time anyway.

seekingsouthern's photo
Sat 12/20/14 09:09 PM
You write beautifully...waving

elle_rose's photo
Sat 01/03/15 01:03 AM




Loneliness is a part of life and it teach us much about us so if we take it in positive seance
Where do I go?
When I'm feeling so lost and I don't want to be found.
When I'm looking and listening for that peace in my heart.
But I know I'll never hear that sound.
Where do I go?
Where do I go when I'm trying to laugh but all I can do I cry?
I'm trying to keep on living because I'm not ready to die.
Where do I go because the sun never seems to shine?
Can you give me my life back it's not yours it's mine?
How do I keep going, how do I fight this fight?
I'm tired of feeling beat down, but I'm trying with all my might!
Where do I go when my head hangs so low?
Please give me an answer because I just don't know!
Where do I go?
Does it take very long?
For me to find that peace and a place where I belong.
I need you to help me, help me to take a stand.
I'm scared to do it by myself, will you please take my hand?
Where do I go? Where do I go? Where do I go?
Do you know
I can be a friend.