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Topic: What would you do if you found out your best friend was havi
bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 10/08/14 11:01 AM
^^^^^That's what I would do.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 10/08/14 11:06 AM
What would you do if you found out your best friend was having sex with your EX? I would do nothing....He is an EX for a reason... Wish them luck

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Wed 10/08/14 11:10 AM
If said best friend asked if I minded if he dated my ex, probably wouldn't care too much. Just give him the heads up. Now if he went behind my back and dated my ex, he'll get lost in the meanderings of life.

Queenbee Joined Sat 01/13/07 Posts: 1746	Wed 10/08/14 11:17 AM
Inform her that when he tells her "Don't worry, it isn't done growing yet!", it's a lie When what isn't done growing? Didn't think I needed to draw a picture I like pictures! Make it a flip-it for Leigh. I want a pop up. Be creative. 3D. u r all soooooo funny!! a POP-UP!!! ROTF!!!

Queenbee Joined Sat 01/13/07 Posts: 1746	Wed 10/08/14 11:31 AM
For me its goodbye best friend.Although my mother did teach me to always give my old toys to those less fortunate. I'm with U Rubicat......it would be time 4 a new BFF 4 me. Would never trust her again.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Wed 10/08/14 11:42 AM
I would feel uncomfortable ...and not sure how it would be with my girlfriend then ... maybe ok so long as we did not discuss the x ... not sure... don't remember being in that position before ...so can't really say ... Same here, too uncomfortable. He's my ex for a reason. If my best friend wants to come over with her partner, I'd have my ex in my home again. Having to socialize and have fun with him? Too close for comfort. I don't want my ex in my social life.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21251	Wed 10/08/14 03:46 PM
Laugh hysterically, then point and laugh some more.

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Wed 10/08/14 03:52 PM
What would you do if you found out your best friend was having sex with your EX? smile...that's where rubbish normally goes...in plastic...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 10/08/14 03:54 PM
I would feel uncomfortable ...and not sure how it would be with my girlfriend then ... maybe ok so long as we did not discuss the x ... not sure... don't remember being in that position before ...so can't really say ... Same here, too uncomfortable. He's my ex for a reason. If my best friend wants to come over with her partner, I'd have my ex in my home again. Having to socialize and have fun with him? Too close for comfort. I don't want my ex in my social life. That's a good point. I would not want to socialize with my ex. So, the friendship would become strained.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 10/08/14 03:56 PM
I don't know, my best friend wouldn't date my exes because he knows why we broke up, and probably doesn't want to be around them for the same reasons I don't. There's some exes I do get along with still, and I'd be okay with that if by chance they did.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 10/08/14 03:58 PM
I would feel uncomfortable ...and not sure how it would be with my girlfriend then ... maybe ok so long as we did not discuss the x ... not sure... don't remember being in that position before ...so can't really say ... Same here, too uncomfortable. He's my ex for a reason. If my best friend wants to come over with her partner, I'd have my ex in my home again. Having to socialize and have fun with him? Too close for comfort. I don't want my ex in my social life. Exactly! There's some I don't want to be around, and wouldn't want to have to socialize with them anymore.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 10/08/14 05:12 PM
I would feel uncomfortable ...and not sure how it would be with my girlfriend then ... maybe ok so long as we did not discuss the x ... not sure... don't remember being in that position before ...so can't really say ... Same here, too uncomfortable. He's my ex for a reason. If my best friend wants to come over with her partner, I'd have my ex in my home again. Having to socialize and have fun with him? Too close for comfort. I don't want my ex in my social life. I see where you're coming from,I would feel same in certain situations,but I know of some ex.'s that are actually good friends,just like some friends become lovers and visa versa!!

Tryztan Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 273	Wed 10/08/14 07:07 PM Edited by Tryztan on Wed 10/08/14 07:16 PM
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Mortica7 Joined Sun 02/10/13 Posts: 120	Wed 10/08/14 07:36 PM
Me and best friend have an understanding of the expectation of best friends. This isn't something we would ever do to each other.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Wed 10/08/14 07:38 PM
in spite of anything else that may have caused our separation, my ex does have ethics. he would never get with my best friend. plus she goes for a different type of man. but in the event they did end up together in whichever manner, that's karma at its finest to each of them and id laugh so much.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 10/10/14 09:09 AM
I would feel uncomfortable ...and not sure how it would be with my girlfriend then ... maybe ok so long as we did not discuss the x ... not sure... don't remember being in that position before ...so can't really say ... I never thought of being uncomfortable as I still do talk with my ex boyfriends and we remain friends. I think only two guys that I dated ever left on bad terms due to misunderstanding. So, I suppose if you broke up on bad terms; it probably would be uncomfortable.