I just got a simple question. Are people really as stuck up, conceited, and gold diggers as they seem to be on these sites. Here's what I've encountered. Everybody always talking about how important honesty is to them. However when you are honest and straightforward like I am and put a real picture. With real information. And create a real profile. Nobody will give you the time of day. But when you put up a fake picture of someone with supermodel looks and give the impression that you have a lot of money and are looking for someone to spend it on your email gets blown up non stop. Then when you reveal the truth these women on here get mad as hell and call you all kinds of names like liar, cheater,scammer, lowlife, scumbag and so on. I know this firsthand causeiI did it just to put it to the test. So why wouldn't they respond to the real profile? And what happened to the honesty that was so important to the women on this site? It went right out the window. Didn't it?

There indeed are lots of gold diggers and very shallow people but not just here; they are out there in every day life. Fact is people don't really want honesty as relationships are built on lies. People try to justify them so they are only white lies so that they won't hurt the person but they are lies none the less. As metal wing says; try the forums and see what happens.

I'm really hoping you don't think this about everyone.

Yes; I do but as I said its white lies. Like for example when a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit; and the guy says no. He is lying. When a woman tells a guy he did a good job fixing something to stroke his ego but really he didn't do a great job. They are both lying but it seems to make the other person happy.

I just got a simple question. Are people really as stuck up, conceited, and gold diggers as they seem to be on these sites. Here's what I've encountered. Everybody always talking about how important honesty is to them. However when you are honest and straightforward like I am and put a real picture. With real information. And create a real profile. Nobody will give you the time of day. But when you put up a fake picture of someone with supermodel looks and give the impression that you have a lot of money and are looking for someone to spend it on your email gets blown up non stop. Then when you reveal the truth these women on here get mad as hell and call you all kinds of names like liar, cheater,scammer, lowlife, scumbag and so on. I know this firsthand causeiI did it just to put it to the test. So why wouldn't they respond to the real profile? And what happened to the honesty that was so important to the women on this site? It went right out the window. Didn't it?

I just got a simple question. Are people really as stuck up, conceited, and gold diggers as they seem to be on these sites. Here's what I've encountered. Everybody always talking about how important honesty is to them. However when you are honest and straightforward like I am and put a real picture. With real information. And create a real profile. Nobody will give you the time of day. But when you put up a fake picture of someone with supermodel looks and give the impression that you have a lot of money and are looking for someone to spend it on your email gets blown up non stop. Then when you reveal the truth these women on here get mad as hell and call you all kinds of names like liar, cheater,scammer, lowlife, scumbag and so on. I know this firsthand causeiI did it just to put it to the test. So why wouldn't they respond to the real profile? And what happened to the honesty that was so important to the women on this site? It went right out the window. Didn't it?

In all honesty, OP, I'm really *sorry* if I'm not attracted to a man who gets paid to be a "big, fat, hairy, *****, redneck sum *****" <---YOUR words, NOT mine.


I'm A-OK with the *fact* that that makes me - in your eyes - one of those "self centered, conceited, stuck up *******" <---YOUR words, NOT mine.



Best of luck to you on ANother site, since - according to you - you're done with THIS one.

Everyone either has lied, lies ay some point, and most likely will at some point, example; you ,your husband or bf whatever and your kid walking through a dark alley, two mask men jumps out the bushes, your kid run and hides, you know where your kid run,the men wants your kid and yells, "tell me where is the kid",lol what are you going to say???((fleta)

hummmmm, I don't lie. Go ahead and say I do, that would be wrong.

1st off, you don't ask open ended questions if you already know you look fat, do something about it. Don't look for a lie to stroke your ego into staying fat.

2nd, a man will want to please a woman by doing things for her. There are always ways to look for the silver lining without negativity. Some things men can do better than women, and vice verse. "Gee honey, thank you so much for helping me with that, I couldn't have done it without you."

Nope, I don't lie, white lies included.

Everyone either has lied,lies ay some point, and most likely will at some point,example;you ,your husband or bf whatever and your kid walking through a dark alley,two mask men jumps out the bushes,your kid run and hides,you know where your kid run,the men wants your kid and yells,"tell me where is the kid",lol what are you going to say???((fleta)

You evaded the second scenario. Yes he helped you but did the project wrong, say hung a shelf crooked; cut laminate flooring too short to reach the wall and you have a gaping gap. You would not tell him that? You can still thank him but tell him that there is something wrong. If you don't; then you are lying. I think you can be diplomatic when you are saying something negative. There is a difference if a guy says you need to lose weight or if he says wow; you are fat.

and I'm going to evade police tactics in questioning. My father was a cop, remember? I was also ARMY, come from a military family also.

You want it done right, if nothing is good enough, then do it yourself.