Topic: Love
loverlez's photo
Sun 11/23/14 04:19 AM
Why is it when you get older and raise the bar on what you looking for it seems harder to find a good women, can somebody answer that for me??????

no photo
Sun 11/23/14 05:52 AM
It seems everyone has the same kind of problem, due to uniqueness.

Could be your requirements are too picky.

Could be they are already taken and married at our age.

Could be there is no such person.

Could be you haven't run into them yet, or you haven't recognized them as such and you did already find them.

Good luck.

msharmony's photo
Sun 11/23/14 10:59 AM
answer is in the question

raising the bar means higher expectations which fewer are going to meet


I am perfectly fine not 'looking' anymore as I love myself enough and probably better than another would,,lol

but if the path of 'the right one' crosses mine, I will be all that much more appreciative because I know its not a position that just anyone can fillflowerforyou ,,,,,


metalwing's photo
Sun 11/23/14 11:08 AM
It doesn't have to be harder, even if the playing field is smaller.

You should have learned from experience ...

What to look for.

Where to look.

What and where to avoid.

You should also have learned not to waste time on a relationship that obviously isn't going to work. That cuts the "hunt time" down per potential opportunity.

Sounds like you need to grow some balls and get out there.

dreamerana's photo
Sun 11/23/14 11:46 AM
first off what do you consider a good woman?

secondly, since a good woman wants a good man,
do you meet those standards as well?

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/23/14 12:08 PM
Kudos on "raising" your standards (no matter how far and few between the diamonds)!

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Sun 11/23/14 03:49 PM
love is the key to all the doors,,,and i know it when i see it

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Sun 11/23/14 03:55 PM
to the girls,,,,,if you could get ,,just, one date with brad pitt,,just one,,,would ya go,,,,just for the fun,,,,,ya get it,,,,,fun fun fun

no photo
Sun 11/23/14 03:55 PM
so many relationships are conditional,,,date just for the fun of it,,,for the love of the moment,,,for the experience,,,for the joy,,,,do ya remember dating when you were 16,,,,,,it was fun,,,dont mess it up,,or take it seriously,,,its fun,,,if ya meet the one,,,good,,if ya dont,good,,,the real fun,,is the searching,,,xx

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Sun 11/23/14 04:01 PM
ya gota laugh at all the conditions,,that must be met in this forum,,,for a date...,,,there are no conditions in dating,,no expectations of the other,,,just the fun,,,,,,thats it,,,,,the pure adventure of it,,,,,the excitment,,,,or did we just grow old

msharmony's photo
Sun 11/23/14 04:08 PM
impressions mean a lot

dates are no different than job interviews,, people don't generally apply to all jobs, just those that seem suitable on one level or another

I don't think we should date everyone ,, by the same standard, there is a reason to even have standards when it comes to 'dating'