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Topic: Preparing for the dreaded first date.
red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Tue 01/27/15 07:43 AM
I just jump in and see what happens, but this tactic has failed me a few times now and it's not a nice feeling. It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Here's an example of some of the mistakes I've made: I often turn up not knowing where we're going to go, and this makes me look indecisive. Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha!

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Tue 01/27/15 07:51 AM
No shower even?...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Tue 01/27/15 08:34 AM
It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Yes, we Melmacians have that problem, but you are immune from it.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Tue 01/27/15 08:40 AM
You mean you don't keep your date enthralled by talking about how good looking you are? Shocking.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Tue 01/27/15 11:04 AM
May I suggest letting one off before going out so you don't think much about it and you can pay more attention to her.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Tue 01/27/15 11:51 AM
May I suggest letting one off before going out so you don't think much about it and you can pay more attention to her. Good call....lol

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45333	Tue 01/27/15 12:05 PM
I just jump in and see what happens, but this tactic has failed me a few times now and it's not a nice feeling. It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Here's an example of some of the mistakes I've made: I often turn up not knowing where we're going to go, and this makes me look indecisive. Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha! Like most men, you make the mistake of attributing your feelings about looks, to your partner's feelings about looks. We do NOT care. You could be the ugliest guy around, a regular Charles Bronson, or Quasimodo, but if you are caring, intelligent, humorous we will jump your bones. There are pretty boys aplenty. They may draw a woman's attention, but it stops there. He has to perform from then on.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Tue 01/27/15 12:52 PM Edited by joethebricky on Tue 01/27/15 12:53 PM
get her on the dance floor and give it large, should break the ice

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 01/27/15 01:37 PM
I just jump in and see what happens, but this tactic has failed me a few times now and it's not a nice feeling. It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Here's an example of some of the mistakes I've made: I often turn up not knowing where we're going to go, and this makes me look indecisive. Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha! Like most men, you make the mistake of attributing your feelings about looks, to your partner's feelings about looks. We do NOT care. You could be the ugliest guy around, a regular Charles Bronson, or Quasimodo, but if you are caring, intelligent, humorous we will jump your bones. There are pretty boys aplenty. They may draw a woman's attention, but it stops there. He has to perform from then on. This

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Tue 01/27/15 01:56 PM
I just jump in and see what happens, but this tactic has failed me a few times now and it's not a nice feeling. It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Here's an example of some of the mistakes I've made: I often turn up not knowing where we're going to go, and this makes me look indecisive. Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha! same old BS, you never change...

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Tue 01/27/15 03:10 PM
May I suggest letting one off before going out so you don't think much about it and you can pay more attention to her. He'd be a good 30lbs lighter if he did that, then his clothes wouldn't fit him properly?

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Tue 01/27/15 04:41 PM
In response to lionsbrew. I don't want to waste it just in case I get lucky. Because I've been in situations where they wanted it again and again. One soon after the other. Up to as much as four times! I guess there must be something about me that brings out the nympho in them.

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Tue 01/27/15 04:50 PM
.... It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome ............ Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha! These 2 sentences should be an indicator of your desirability regardless of how good looking or even handsome you think you are. As it is, character, personality, humor & other factors comes into play, so, you definitely lack it if 'uncomfortable silences' and your date 'starts playing on their phone' happens. Maybe, it is time you go brush up your skills on communication and character improvement. Maybe start at pre-school??

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 01/27/15 04:53 PM
sitting quietly ,in the corner.. with ball gag on.. taking notes..

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Tue 01/27/15 05:06 PM
I just jump in and see what happens, but this tactic has failed me a few times now and it's not a nice feeling. It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you, so you don't feel the need to prepare properly. Here's an example of some of the mistakes I've made: I often turn up not knowing where we're going to go, and this makes me look indecisive. Another thing... uncomfortable silences. It's important to keep them talking. When they start playing on their phone it's not a good sign haha! you might want to brush your teeth first..lol

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Tue 01/27/15 05:22 PM
In response to lionsbrew. I don't want to waste it just in case I get lucky. Because I've been in situations where they wanted it again and again. One soon after the other. Up to as much as four times! I guess there must be something about me that brings out the nympho in them. They probably just like the way that you air them up.

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Tue 01/27/15 05:25 PM
Soufier, Charles Bronson is handsome, surely?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45333	Tue 01/27/15 05:31 PM
Soufier, Charles Bronson is handsome, surely? To us, probably not to you :-)

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Tue 01/27/15 05:34 PM
I think Charlie B is handsome. Now I'm confused.

Tatilove Joined Fri 10/01/10 Posts: 243	Tue 01/27/15 05:39 PM
It's kind of a curse being extraordinarily handsome because one look in the mirror is all it takes to reassure you