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Topic: Bad sex
mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 02/04/15 02:46 PM
If you love your partner deeply but the sex isn't good, what would you do? hmmm... all i can say to that is even my worst was still pretty damn good...

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3510	Wed 02/04/15 02:48 PM Edited by fleta_n_mach on Wed 02/04/15 02:49 PM
Too many situations to contemplate as individual decisions. If they're mental, dump em.

JupiterRising7 Joined Sat 04/06/13 Posts: 4	Wed 02/04/15 08:57 PM
That simply isn't true. Sex is the ultimate act of physical intimacy. Relationships without a mutually satisfying interaction do not last.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Wed 02/04/15 09:06 PM
As with so many things in life You get out of it.. What you put into it. Figuratively speaking. And literally speaking.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 02/04/15 09:11 PM
too funny!

coolmate3025 Joined Wed 02/04/15 Posts: 1	Wed 02/04/15 09:16 PM
Bad or good sex is always good.;)

kenny517 Joined Tue 01/20/15 Posts: 12	Wed 02/04/15 10:36 PM
All men are capable of being great lovers .. With the right partner :-) thats it.....no lie

danglpz73 Joined Sat 01/24/15 Posts: 235	Fri 02/06/15 06:53 PM
My last gf had bad Personal hygiene (I found out the hard way ) and she was just fkn terrible at sex so I just stop talking to her no if and's or buts I just stop seeing her no explanations nada yes I know it's mean but what she did was cruel

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Fri 02/06/15 10:10 PM
Just flip the mattress

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 02/06/15 10:16 PM
My last gf had bad Personal hygiene (I found out the hard way ) and she was just fkn terrible at sex so I just stop talking to her no if and's or buts I just stop seeing her no explanations nada yes I know it's mean but what she did was cruel I would've told her to get her manky arse out of the door pronto, the smelly Cow!

samikhanss Joined Sat 02/07/15 Posts: 1	Sat 02/07/15 03:23 AM
hi any girl for sex here

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/07/15 03:45 AM
I want sex, I'm naked and ready to go lmao

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 02/07/15 03:47 AM
I want sex, I'm naked and ready to go lmao Put the microphone down and get dressed, ya wee hussy?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/07/15 03:50 AM
I want sex, I'm naked and ready to go lmao Put the microphone down and get dressed, ya wee hussy? lmao

0GentleMan0 Joined Sat 02/07/15 Posts: 6	Sat 02/07/15 03:55 AM
I am ready for u

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Sat 02/07/15 03:58 AM
I am ready for u if thats to me then,,

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sat 02/07/15 04:06 AM
then you haven't been to bed with some of the guys that think they are so great in bed, but wasn't worth the time uh,i haven't been with any men and never will

0GentleMan0 Joined Sat 02/07/15 Posts: 6	Sat 02/07/15 05:31 AM


GodsOutlaw1964 Joined Sun 09/19/10 Posts: 48	Sun 02/08/15 05:19 PM Edited by GodsOutlaw1964 on Sun 02/08/15 05:40 PM
Doesn't sound like your partner is compatible with you.I was in one of those type relationships where the sex wasn't any good at all,she was lousy in bed and I never thought that could be possible.we are not together anymore and not because of that. but it can be very frustrating. just my 2 cents worth.

ABerryann Joined Sat 12/13/14 Posts: 10	Sun 02/08/15 07:07 PM
I'm not sure that's true. It would depend on whether they are willing to communicate, and not get offended. I spent 17 years with my last boyfriend. Great guy with a heart of gold, but lousy in bed. Spent years trying to communicate my needs. He wouldn't listen and was insulted by every suggestion that I made to make things better. It literally ruined our relationship. As time passed I became more and more frustrated that my needs were not being addressed and he had taken so many of my suggestions as personal attacks that it slowly just took over the rest of our relationship until all that was left were arguments and hurt feelings on both sides of the fence. Both partners need to be willing to listen and try to not get personally insulted. It wasn't like this was a short term relationship. There was major time invested and as time goes by if both people are not doing their part to understand the other person's side to the situation it can get really ugly. Trust me I know.