Fantasize about getting married to a woman that you love and find sexy and having a child or more, creating a family that you cherish more than anything else? Because that's often what women fantasize about (except with a man)..So, if not then what do you fantasize about in life? Sports, sex, beer and sandwiches? And if that is the case do you ever get bored?

Don't have to fantasise about that, as i married my wife last year and we have a 6 week old son also. Wouldn't change it for anything!

yes and no, sexy yes, the rest, not so much...

Right now, I'm fantasizing about winter ending.
Eventually it will.
I like to keep my fantasies somewhat realistic.

I never get bored.

When I was in my twenties, I might of had fantasies along those lines, but as I aged, I stopped adding the family, then the woman no longer had to be sexy, later marriage no longer fell into the category.

Now, well just having a cup of coffee and some dinner with a nice woman is about as far as a fantasy might make it. The truly sad thing is, it falls under the realm of fantasy.

So, it doesn't hurt your wife's feelings that you're on Mingle2? I mean she just had a baby. Anyway, my daughter is 9 months now, but when she was 6 weeks I just wish someone would have brought me things like water/food whatever or the baby to breastfeed her to my bed because I was still healing down there in that region if you know what I mean...just an idea. It's a vulnerable time for a woman...I think men don't get that. It's such a different experience that for me I grew apart from my boyfriend and he from me. It's been the most lonely time in my life when I needed love the most. So, take care of your wife for the next few months is my advice..then it will get easier.

I quit fantasizing about marriage and family, when my ex girlfriend, who at the time I had thoughts of marrying. Went and aborted my child without telling me she was pregnant, and after convincing me that I'd make a great father. That I shouldn't worry about passing my bipolar disorder on to a child of mine. As much as I hate to say it, probably for the best.

You don't have to give me advice, about what i already know? I work, i come home and pull my weight in the house also. I also get up at night when my boy wakes up unsettled, is hungry, or needs his nappy (diaper) changed. My wife deals with that during the day when i'm at work, so i deal with it when i'm at home after work. Only fair eh? As for being on here? It states quite clearly in my profile that i'm not looking for anyone, just friends and a laugh on these forums. Ain't no way i would blow what i have with my wife for anything, or anybody!

I don't fantasize at all about having children and a family. I never have...It's the last thing on my mind.

I fantasize about food and Hawaii...

Most women would like to have babies...it's natural for the species survival. I guess it's even a healthy thing to want. If you don't agree that's ok because the world is kind of over populated as it is right? I'm going to stop at one and not damage the planet or anything..

Well i'mglad that you ask,actually I DO fantasize about getting married with a family ECT,but now,I just do it less,cause usually,I end up getting to deep in it and end up freakin myself out to much lmao,and sports?Oh yeeaah,all the time,about my dolphins and Canes football!

I don't dream about a family and another child other, dear god, spare me the experience! I've multiplied twice, happy with the results, no need to do it again, lol.
Matter of fact, I don't even date men with younger children. NO way am I going to do the 'family thing' again! Done that with my ex, his kids, my kids, one big UNhappy family! Sod that chit!
Plus ... I got my freedom back, my babies have left the nest, and no way am I gonna fill it with someone else's kids, or new ones of mine.
The only kids I'll help raise, are my future grandchildren.

I kinda feel like William Wallace when it comes to freedom, slightly adapted version: I may be willing to share my life with you, but I'll never give up my freedom!

I Believe, the majority of my posting history on this site, has the phrase,
"better dead, than wed", repeated often.

I'll stand by those words, until death.
Or, at least until the right woman comes along.

Yeah, but I don't always get the marriage part and children, usually she cheats on me at some point and I kill the guy she cheats with, and his sister comes to take revenge and somehow me and his sister end up in a complicated relationship of vengeance and romance, and then it gets pretty complicated from there /:)

I think this is an average male fantasy: having sex with their favorite actress (mainstream or porn or both at the same time),while watching their favorite sports team win the championship, while eating their favorite sandwich & drinking their favorite beer. It's a fantasy so of course they'd be able to do everything at the same time LOL!

Only when they are in love do their fantasies involve the face & sometimes body of the real life woman they are in love with...sometimes, not often though.

Ask most 18 y.o. girls if they have envisioned their wedding & having children & the names etc. & they will say "yes" & give you details like the wedding locale & what the first date with their husband to be was like. Ask any 18 y.o. boy & he will say "get out of here, that's gay man!" while punching you in the chest.

I use to fantasize about nailing"Tina Turna when I was little,remember how she use to come on stage showing those beautiful legs? ,And I also use to fantasize about salt &pepper,they where the **** back then lol!

Hope Tiffany doesn't find out.

Could be worse? You could be fantasising about vinegar and ketchup? Salt and pepa, it was, not salt and pepper!!

I like how you narrow it down to only 4 top choices for men... lol. There's rinse & repeat which also never gets old.