That after so many heartbreaks my heart will just stop letting people in.

Love is a battlefield

And shell-shock is a common affliction. All I can say is that you're never going to hit anything if you don't give it a shot. That's what keeps me going - I could just sit around and hope that my lady-love finds me, but that's a pretty vain hope. And inefficient.

EDIT
Er... I don't mean "hit anything" like "I'd hit that"... >.< (Though that could be applicable to some people.)
I mean more like Cupid's arrow hitting someone.

One day someone will come along and pick up the pieces of your broken heart, you need to be patient and let that person in.

maybe try a different type of guy?

Love gives us reason to live


good luck

Maybe give yourself time to heal completely. Cherish yourself now, you need it. I was afraid of the same not so long ago, and felt that I'm closing toward others. But that feeling can be beaten. Wish you strength to stay open and all the luck to find the special one

blast from the past welcome back!

God has planned something better for you! Keep your heart open. Always

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Msmyka you wee doll, nice to see you!
They obviously have not seen your perfect behind pictures :-)

Soufie, you know you just made me check out the young ladies profile

10/10

Just like a child learns that "fire is hot"! we must learn from our mistakes. What, eventually, was good for me was not what I thought would be my match. The trick is not to learn what attracts! That oasis is an illusion. The trick is to learn what to avoid.

In the words of Sherlock Holmes...

"How often have I said to you that when you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains,however improbable, must be the truth?"

She is a keeper, I can tell youz.
Years ago we had a best-looking-butt contest on here.
She was the consensus winner, pics still around somewhere..

Welcome back Myka! ...Moving past a broken heart is about you, not him ...Grief has a mind of its own and is as individual as you are...Keep moving!...Don't look back, look forward!...Don't let the past control your future...Good luck!...

Hahhahaha that was a contest? So funny I forgot all about that.

In all ya glory:
http://mingle2.com/topic/275427?page=3

Hahahaha oh geez!

Great butt, memorable even, now shake that booty!

Back on topic, you should be worried.
You can easily become jaded.
Suspicious, wary of all comers.
Tis a hard thing, to move..along when results have
not been satisfactory.

Which means, you could be your own worst enemy in
that camp.

But you know how it works, just when you think that,
HE comes along and suddenly, you are ready to risk
all..again.

So, back burner it.
Don't over-worry it.
Try to keep your heart open.

well said indeed Leigh

It is grief - like a death, the death of your imagined life together.

Concentrate on yourself, play your favourite music - sing along.
Try everything you can to make yourself happy. I got my first tattoo yesterday - I LOVE it, every time I look at it I smile.
Laughing is wonderful, do it often. Talk to your friends often.
Just keep trying.

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