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Topic: BDSM relationships
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 02/20/15 10:01 AM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not?

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 02/20/15 10:03 AM
Depends on what you do. Or how extreme you get.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Fri 02/20/15 10:05 AM
If you hurt no one else, then flying your freak flag should be okay.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 02/20/15 10:07 AM


messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Fri 02/20/15 10:09 AM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Why do you always ask a question at the start of your threads, but never give your own views on the subject?

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Fri 02/20/15 10:12 AM Edited by Pansytilly on Fri 02/20/15 10:13 AM
this is so you...

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 02/20/15 10:12 AM
As long as you don't forget the safe word.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Fri 02/20/15 10:15 AM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Why do you always ask a question at the start of your threads, but never give your own views on the subject? You're new.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Fri 02/20/15 10:19 AM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Yes. As long as both know what they're doing, both physically (safety) as psychology & emotionally. It is a big responsibility, not just some silly game, and one (the dominant party mostly) must be ready, willing and able to handle this responsibility.

Ɔʎɹɐx Joined Mon 08/19/13 Posts: 4935	Fri 02/20/15 10:28 AM
It is healthy only when blood is involved , because that releases the extra energy from one's body , and it could release their soul sometimes .

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Fri 02/20/15 10:39 AM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? its healthy for people who truly understand it.. and respect it.. it is built over time on trust, honesty and mutual respect

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 02/20/15 02:43 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Of course it is. Bruises, scratches, claw marks, and broken bones are a plus.

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 02/20/15 02:44 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Of course it is. Bruises, scratches, claw marks, and broken bones are a plus. Don't forget the bite marks

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 02/20/15 02:49 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Of course it is. Bruises, scratches, claw marks, and broken bones are a plus. Don't forget the bite marks I should be punished for forgetting that.

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 02/20/15 02:51 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Of course it is. Bruises, scratches, claw marks, and broken bones are a plus. Don't forget the bite marks I should be punished for forgetting that. Assume the position...... ...lol

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Fri 02/20/15 02:53 PM
Whatever floats your boat I reckon. I certainly wouldn't criticize anyone who likes it, especially if I was handcuffed But seriously I've never tried it but each to their own

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 02/20/15 02:58 PM
Beat me, whip me, make me write bad checks.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Fri 02/20/15 03:22 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Of course it is. Bruises, scratches, claw marks, and broken bones are a plus. I suspected you to be naughty, but broken bones is pushing it.. just a bit, lol

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76353	Fri 02/20/15 03:28 PM
Do you believe this lifestyle is healthy or not? Hey as long as they are consenting adults more power to them.. As long as all involved are into that then it is not for others to judge.. The way I understand those that are into it have safe words and each knows the limits of the other... Myself have never gave it a thought....

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 02/20/15 03:38 PM
The world of bdsm for many is a lifestyle which has much more to do with just expression of sexuality .. like devil dog said it is built on complete trust and an openminded view of what pleasure And commitment is. There will always be extremes but those who practise mostly do so with knowledge and caring for their partner. Like any relationship it can become destructive dysfunctional and dangerous to your health .. Many men particularly think dominance is about aggression and overpowering their partner .. When in fact it has more to do with a connection of minds .. And controlling through mindplay :-) Very well said!