Topic: What would u do
Jay's photo
Thu 05/07/15 08:19 AM
When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else

1j9b6c5's photo
Thu 05/07/15 08:45 AM
Just go out and get her more. But don't forget who's taking her home and in whose arms she's gonna be.

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Thu 05/07/15 09:20 AM
anson2399 asked >>>
When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else


1)Have you known the woman a long time {longer than a month of dating} - Are you really 'DATING'?
2)Are you just friends and go out together to social functions and you offer to spend money on her and she readily accepts that and is very out going to 'EVERYONE'
3)Have you established that 'Monogamous' relationship issue or are you just assuming that you both are on the same page - hoping that she feels the same way?
4)Maybe she's not ready to be a 'one date' woman yet - not ready to be 'monogamous'...seems you need to have that 'Relationship Talk'

See, the complexities of just a one sided question when there's a whole wide world of social possibilities that could mean something different to each of you!

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Thu 05/07/15 09:33 AM
What would u do When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else

I would stop giving her my money?
And even though she was flirting with someone else I would have sex with her to the best of my ability laughing at the other guy who wasn't having sex with her (at least while I was)?

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Thu 05/07/15 09:38 AM

When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else
Dump her and let her be someone else's problem?

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Thu 05/07/15 09:50 AM

When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else


There has been so many threads lately about these guys paying women to date them... I am kind of pisst I didn't get the memo I have been doing this all wrong...grumble :angry:

OP quite honestly....Why are you giving all your money to someone that isn't even with you...She is using your money to get all fixed up to hook someone else...

where I come from that is a gold digger...

I bet if you cut her money off she would be gone so fast your head would spin....

Find someone that wants to be with you because of you not you wallet..frustrated

Awatersign's photo
Thu 05/07/15 10:29 AM

When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else
Ever watch that movie"Buried Alive?pitchfork :angry: biggrin

Awatersign's photo
Thu 05/07/15 10:33 AM
Or,the person can stay in the relationship and keep getting use until they learn,and hopefully if they learn,then they should leave that person and never look back!

Awatersign's photo
Thu 05/07/15 10:35 AM


When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else


There has been so many threads lately about these guys paying women to date them... I am kind of pisst I didn't get the memo I have been doing this all wrong...grumble :angry:

OP quite honestly....Why are you giving all your money to someone that isn't even with you...She is using your money to get all fixed up to hook someone else...

where I come from that is a gold digger...

I bet if you cut her money off she would be gone so fast your head would spin....

Find someone that wants to be with you because of you not you wallet..frustrated

Couldn't have been said any better!!:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 05/07/15 10:47 AM
If the woman I love spends all your money?
I don't think I'd have a problem with that. Whatever makes her happy. laugh

I would, however, have a problem with me loving a woman noway frustrated

mightymoe's photo
Thu 05/07/15 10:50 AM


When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else


There has been so many threads lately about these guys paying women to date them... I am kind of pisst I didn't get the memo I have been doing this all wrong...grumble :angry:

OP quite honestly....Why are you giving all your money to someone that isn't even with you...She is using your money to get all fixed up to hook someone else...

where I come from that is a gold digger...

I bet if you cut her money off she would be gone so fast your head would spin....

Find someone that wants to be with you because of you not you wallet..frustrated



or at least don't complain when they do spend your money...

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Thu 05/07/15 10:52 AM
Getting upset about a little thing like flirting is very insecure. And just because you spent some money on her doesn't mean she should stay with you. Hahaha.

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Thu 05/07/15 12:26 PM
You paid her to have sex with you? Don't be naive enough to give that woman any more money whatsoever. If you haven't known her for that long, just stay vigilant/cautious. Have boundaries. And if you live by yourself, don't let her into your home anymore.

no photo
Thu 05/07/15 12:40 PM

When the women u love nd care the.most use all of my money nd flirt.with someome else


I assume you're in a relationship with her.
if so she could be playing you...coz what shes doing is disrespect in some way...& probably a lack of appreciation...if its hurting you emotionally the longer you're with her the worse it could get for you....

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 05/07/15 12:53 PM
You can NOT buy a woman; if she does not love and respect you by her own free choice then you could shower her with gold and it would not change anything. Women are not property.

If you try to buy a woman then you should not be surprised that she act like a prostitute and is always seeking the next man with money to attract.

So many times men see just being civil or friendly as flirting because it is their own insecurity that when a woman is not totally focused on him; which would be boring soon enough, is how it started; maybe because he demanded it. But reality sets in and it becomes tedious.