Whenever something not too pleasent occurs in my life which gets me a lil low...i think of her & wish to hold her... coz just holding her during bad times would make everything ok.
But those days are gone.
Regardless of how many people are in my life sometimes i wish to touch & hold that special one & give her all my love.

It will happen.
There is no love-on-demand.
It is a good thing to yearn for something.
Makes it all the more precious.

The older you are, the wiser you are.
The sounder your decisions.
You were lucky you could hold off
'til now.

those days are gone for a lot of us. I talk to good peeps at those times :)

Yes same here....but the person who i told my inner most ambitions, desires, secrets & all of me & to be my better half does not exist right now....kinda sucks when i see happy couples & i remember thats how i once was

Anyway life goes on....& thank you mingle2 for always being there

Many know that feeling but just don't admit it.. I'm pretty content on my own. Have been divorced many years, it's not like I have not dated.

But even though I have adjusted to being alone more then with someone special. Even I have to admit it is nice to have someone around that you can share your innermost with. That one that makes your heart skip a beat just at the sound of their voice. To have someone special to do things with regardless what it is..

One thing I have learned through the years is to not let it get you down. Find your inner peace, learn to enjoy being alone and doing things on your own...Then when the time comes and you find someone special they will enhance your life. No one can make someone happy, that comes from within first...

It will be better, Romeo. Sometimes it just lasts longer till we accept that the special one is not a part of our life anymore. But... we can be grateful we had that person in our life anyway, no matter how long it lasted. For me at least it was helpful when I tried to change sorrow in gratitude for every moment I was granted by his presence. And I am grateful till today, 20 years after.
Wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart

True & very wise

Thanks. I'm not dwelling in the past about my ex or anything like that. Ive passed that stage & moved on but i duno why today i had a flashback of that closeness & special feeling we had.
i do sometimes wonder if she ever thinks of me lol

At least you have inner most ambitions and desires and so on...

Best of luck to you, you are a nice person so nice things will happen sugar {{{{unknown_romeo}}}}

Oh, I think she surely does But it is good for you that you moved on

Thanks sugar

Thank you.
my question is...when ever you in that situation who do you hold on & hug etc for comfort....it doesnt have to be a lover but im sure all of you have Someone.....where as i don't

I remember doing this for several years after my husband died...I would think I was over it, moved on doing wonderful then out of the blue. It would hit me like it was yesterday, man that sucked..

I still have days after 30 years, this year, that something will happen and I will remember such sweet memories of things that no one else on this earth could know or understand.. Those damn flashbacks will get you..

I am sure she does think of you and those special times, the more time that passes and the angst has time to fade the memories will grow fonder but not as sharp or painful.





For years it has been just me and my dog sassy... she knows all my secrets, wishes etc...

VVVVVVVVVVVVV Kristi OMG.. Gf I didn't know you had one named that also.. Mine is a toy poodle that just turned 12 on tax day...

It's me, myself & I ohhhhhhhhh and of course my dog sassy..

If I'm going to be with someone I want it to be someone I feel that way about..

When you feel that way get out and do something go eat sit at the bar. There is always someone to talk to there. Go see a movie or if your interested in hobbies go to a hobby shop and look around.. Keep yourself busy.. Read, watch tv,call friends ect... There are many things you can do to stay busy at that time.. You will realize it is good for the soul. And when you find that special someone it will be special not just someone to hold for a short time..

Romeo, you'll do better than her mate and I guarantee that, cos you're a decent guy! Fair enough, you're still hurting just now, but there will come a time when you do meet someone, who's worthy of you, that you'll look back and say " Aye, the mingle community were right, what they told me!" Just a passing phase just now my friend, you'll see?

Cool.
Im busy all day Working then training & Sport & always with people yet i dont prefer to share such details... but i duno whats been happening lately

Aye, the mingle community were right what they told me

j/k thanks mate

That is exactly how it is. Them flashbacks are bad