Topic: Why are You Still Single?
TMommy's photo
Thu 06/04/15 07:08 AM
Edited by TMommy on Thu 06/04/15 07:18 AM
Forgive typos I am on my phone so I had to stop putting my love and faith and trust in someone who viewed me as his possession. " my wife" just like "my car" and had to go out and figure out what it is I still wanted out of life and define for myself who it is I still want to be

got tired of living with someone threatened by my intelligence
who was incapable of empathhy,demanded intimacy as if he was entitled to it,demanded respect but did not give it

2OLD2MESSAROUND's photo
Thu 06/04/15 07:15 AM

Are you
a prostitute?
a serial dater?
holding out for true love?
not single but here to mingle?
just taking a break and going slow?
just a little bit shy?
not single and spying on someone?
not ready and undecided when/if you will be ready?
currently seeing someone long distance on Mingle?
what else?


scared unsure - more afraid of what's lurking for me, then what I'm looking for - don't think I want another 'MARRIAGE'!

sanam987's photo
Thu 06/04/15 09:28 AM
I really don't know why m i still single girls on this community can u all please let me know the answer??

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 06/04/15 12:03 PM
"I'm in love with a beautiful woman".


Godistheanswer's photo
Thu 06/04/15 01:02 PM
haven't found the right person yet, have one i like alot but he is far away

JustScribbles's photo
Thu 06/04/15 01:33 PM
I'm suffering the onset of a horrible malady: ARTSY or Age-Related Termination of Social Yearnings.

The symptomology includes lack of tolerance for drama, a marked inability to internalize biological age factors vs. psychological age, profound disinterest in 'normal, age-appropriate behavior', severe nausea occasioned by judgementalism, strident idealism and superficiality. Frequent migraines occur due to the influence of illogical presumptions, ill-considered assumptions and the occasional instance of performance anxiety.

To date, no significant research is being considered which would remove/mitigate the assortment of symptoms sufferers of ARTSY experience.

The prognosis is, therefore, terminal. sad

Argo's photo
Thu 06/04/15 01:37 PM
because i've crossed way over the line on cynicism...

no photo
Thu 06/04/15 01:47 PM
I love the HONEST answers on this thread of people who KNOW themselves & can just say it.


:thumbsup: Bravo

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 06/04/15 02:16 PM

"I'm in love with a beautiful woman".




Go and get her. Sweep her off her feet.
I love a happy romance story.
:banana:

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 06/04/15 02:18 PM

I'm suffering the onset of a horrible malady: ARTSY or Age-Related Termination of Social Yearnings.

The symptomology includes lack of tolerance for drama, a marked inability to internalize biological age factors vs. psychological age, profound disinterest in 'normal, age-appropriate behavior', severe nausea occasioned by judgementalism, strident idealism and superficiality. Frequent migraines occur due to the influence of illogical presumptions, ill-considered assumptions and the occasional instance of performance anxiety.

To date, no significant research is being considered which would remove/mitigate the assortment of symptoms sufferers of ARTSY experience.

The prognosis is, therefore, terminal. sad


Just reading this has given me a head ache.
I don't feel to good now.
sick

no photo
Thu 06/04/15 02:20 PM

I'm suffering the onset of a horrible malady: ARTSY or Age-Related Termination of Social Yearnings.

The symptomology includes lack of tolerance for drama, a marked inability to internalize biological age factors vs. psychological age, profound disinterest in 'normal, age-appropriate behavior', severe nausea occasioned by judgementalism, strident idealism and superficiality. Frequent migraines occur due to the influence of illogical presumptions, ill-considered assumptions and the occasional instance of performance anxiety.

To date, no significant research is being considered which would remove/mitigate the assortment of symptoms sufferers of ARTSY experience.

The prognosis is, therefore, terminal. sad


I bet I could cure ya!.....loltongue2 :angel:

JustScribbles's photo
Thu 06/04/15 02:43 PM
rofl I'm so sorry, li'l 'roo. Just to be on the safe side, you ought to see your physician. It's possible that the headache could be from early ARTSY. scared

As for you, Ms. Bunny-doll, I'm afraid I'm gonna need all my energy to battle this affliction. Who knows what might happen if you get me exhausted? surprised drool tongue2

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 06/04/15 05:35 PM

rofl I'm so sorry, li'l 'roo. Just to be on the safe side, you ought to see your physician. It's possible that the headache could be from early ARTSY. scared

As for you, Ms. Bunny-doll, I'm afraid I'm gonna need all my energy to battle this affliction. Who knows what might happen if you get me exhausted? surprised drool tongue2


Shall do that. The joys of Rotoura, swimming all year round

GreenSorcery's photo
Thu 06/04/15 07:44 PM

I'm suffering the onset of a horrible malady: ARTSY or Age-Related Termination of Social Yearnings.

The symptomology includes lack of tolerance for drama, a marked inability to internalize biological age factors vs. psychological age, profound disinterest in 'normal, age-appropriate behavior', severe nausea occasioned by judgementalism, strident idealism and superficiality. Frequent migraines occur due to the influence of illogical presumptions, ill-considered assumptions and the occasional instance of performance anxiety.

To date, no significant research is being considered which would remove/mitigate the assortment of symptoms sufferers of ARTSY experience.

The prognosis is, therefore, terminal. sad


we would have also accepted a simple,"It's you not me." and we still wouldn't believe you. Wait I'm still confused, is it you or them?

NiceGuySteve1989's photo
Thu 06/04/15 07:47 PM
I don't really know why. I keep trying but no luck... I am really hoping to find her :(

GreenSorcery's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:09 PM

Forgive typos I am on my phone so I had to stop putting my love and faith and trust in someone who viewed me as his possession. " my wife" just like "my car" and had to go out and figure out what it is I still wanted out of life and define for myself who it is I still want to be

got tired of living with someone threatened by my intelligence
who was incapable of empathy,demanded intimacy as if he was entitled to it,demanded respect but did not give it


Not an unusual heart-breaker of a story. Single is an epidemic.
A further explanation is that the shift from being self-centered to truly loving another person never happened for most people. Stuck in child for the duration and terrified of a real closeness with potential for oneness, about which they know nothing.

Failure gives meaning to success. Take charge the power of passion for understanding. Answers and good people are out there though a rare find indeed. You might still need to fix them up a bit, I expect. If you know how.

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:13 PM

I'm suffering the onset of a horrible malady: ARTSY or Age-Related Termination of Social Yearnings.

The symptomology includes lack of tolerance for drama, a marked inability to internalize biological age factors vs. psychological age, profound disinterest in 'normal, age-appropriate behavior', severe nausea occasioned by judgementalism, strident idealism and superficiality. Frequent migraines occur due to the influence of illogical presumptions, ill-considered assumptions and the occasional instance of performance anxiety.

To date, no significant research is being considered which would remove/mitigate the assortment of symptoms sufferers of ARTSY experience.

The prognosis is, therefore, terminal. sad

Ahem Mr. Scribs... my friend you are single because you are picky and any woman that gets you is going to be so blessed and we both know it...flowerforyou

TMommy's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:13 PM
Ahhh I am not perfect by any means and would not expect that of someone elsehappy

rug212001's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:21 PM
hmmmm Good question. Oh, yeah, that's right. Because I live in the middle of BFE.

Never mind the fact that I'm a short, chubby, long haired, geek. That probably has nothing to do with it.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 06/04/15 08:28 PM

hmmmm Good question. Oh, yeah, that's right. Because I live in the middle of BFE.

Never mind the fact that I'm a short, chubby, long haired, geek. That probably has nothing to do with it.


Perhaps you'd have more luck if you were to tell women, "I have abs." indifferent

(That's an inside joke that some site members might get.)