Topic: Why are You Still Single?
mcarr91's photo
Wed 06/03/15 05:37 PM
I am single because I let her become my whole world and forgot how to be me.

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Wed 06/03/15 06:06 PM
Taking things slow, meeting different people, so I can find love.

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Wed 06/03/15 06:12 PM
I am single cause I have to find me first, make myself happy and organize my life before I even think about being with someone else.

JustScribbles's photo
Wed 06/03/15 06:33 PM

I am single cause I have to find me first, make myself happy and organize my life before I even think about being with someone else.


Perfect, Bunny-doll. :thumbsup: flowerforyou

TMommy's photo
Wed 06/03/15 06:33 PM
flowerforyou :thumbsup:
I am single cause I have to find me first, make myself happy and organize my life before I even think about being with someone else.
flowerforyou :thumbsup:

SuzQ66's photo
Wed 06/03/15 06:43 PM
Because I'm not in a hurry anymore. I realized that the right person for me will not want to rush me into anything.

dnewnew's photo
Wed 06/03/15 09:00 PM
I'm single because:

1. Currently unemployed - therefore not getting out & about to actually see & be seen by men I might be attracted to. Not really checking in on OLD, since I spend more time on job boards than cruising profiles.

2. Not attracted to anyone I have seen so far in OLD or IRL - I have a preferred physical type & very few fit it.

3. Apparently not attracting males IRL (on the few occasions I am out & about), even if they are not my type. Apparently my own physical type is not attractive to the opposite sex.

4. Super small social circle comprised of all married/partnered women that can't introduce me to any men (or job opportunities).

5. No interest in NSA sex so no outlet for meeting men thru that. (unless you are a hiring manager?, then maybe I can overcome my distaste but I need to be hired first LOL!)

dreamerana's photo
Wed 06/03/15 09:22 PM
because Sebastian Rulli prefers Angelique Boyer over me
laugh

red_123456789's photo
Wed 06/03/15 09:26 PM
ima bad girl thats why im still single lol no complains..

HoneyFly's photo
Wed 06/03/15 10:23 PM
Discovering if the glass is half full / empty.

ZenSoul79's photo
Wed 06/03/15 10:25 PM
Edited by ZenSoul79 on Wed 06/03/15 10:28 PM
The ones who match to me don't know how to write a message. Too shy for my liking.
The ones I actually WANT to engage I get ignored by. Too cold.

These days I only write them ONCE and move on if i don't get a response good or bad within 3 days to a week.
I learned my lesson a while ago: NEVER chase after them. Not unless they want to be chased.
My legs are too tired anyway, so I'll be in the lounge drinkin' a Dissaronno on the rocks if anybody needs me.
drinker

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Wed 06/03/15 10:29 PM
No woman should ever have to settle for me and I'm so bad in the sack that I don't even enjoy it. In short if woman want me she should probably see a shrink and to quote Jack "Sell crazy someplace else, we're all stocked up here!"

2469nascar's photo
Wed 06/03/15 11:10 PM
cuz i havent made it to texas yet, but when i do,,she better watch out,,,,iam so gona take her,,,heart and soul..

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Thu 06/04/15 04:26 AM


You are single because not a single opposite gender finds you attaractive enough with whom you met till now or there were instances in which they have some better option than you. This is the factual harsh reality of life because every living soul wants superior mate for mating not inferior or you might be behaving like those, not giving importance to person who want to get commit with you. So try to enhance your personality to the next level and don't get upset over this because there are numerous people who falls in your category including all people presents on this website, me also.


For me that is not the problem at all..of course some guys won't find me attractive but I never had an issue about looks or about being social. But what I hear from most guys I know it has to do with me being too independent but I am not. For people who have been alone since day one they will understand. That's why some of us are single.


Estelle ^^^^^ You make a great point here. For myself also,
"Independence " , real & perceived IS an issue with romantic relationships, maybe many or all, relationships.

Examples:
1977- "Why did you decide to go to college? To look for a husband?"
* And we broke up *
1988- " What do you mean, you are keeping your maiden name ?
* Had to get new friends & put family in check *
1993- " What do you mean you want to live alone? "
* Divorce, all but 2 people are shocked *
2003- " What do you mean your relocating ?"
* New life new everything*
2015- " Why did you say that? I'm going to have to tame you "
* And I left him*

EACH - Major decision for MY life & what I wanted & was best for ME... there was a man, friends & family... fighting me & trying to stop me.

I did it my way
That's why I'm single.
And I would do it again.
smokin

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 06/04/15 05:00 AM
Edited by Annierooroo on Thu 06/04/15 05:02 AM
After great thought I have come to the conclusion my knight in shinning armour has not yet shown up.
Maybe he lost his way or feeding his face with the chocolate he brought for me.
Maybe my chick shed was too much for him.
Ooooh hope hes not in still in there.
He better hurry up or I'm off. Lol

Rooster35's photo
Thu 06/04/15 05:09 AM

Are you
a prostitute?
a serial dater?
holding out for true love?
not single but here to mingle?
just taking a break and going slow?
just a little bit shy?
not single and spying on someone?
not ready and undecided when/if you will be ready?
currently seeing someone long distance on Mingle?
what else?

I'm still single because I like to date and see what's out there for potential long-term relationship and later M... Can't even mention it this soon, lol.

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Thu 06/04/15 05:15 AM
All of the above I have 7kids

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Thu 06/04/15 05:22 AM
Good answer

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Thu 06/04/15 05:23 AM
I have 7 kids and 27 GRANDKIDS

TMommy's photo
Thu 06/04/15 07:05 AM
Because beginning in 1995 He.took a job as merchant marine and left me and our 5 year old son for three months,five,sometimes 6 in row
because as he spent more time away he got more controlling of finances the kids and me

because he put demanded I

handle.everything while he was gone but then resented that strength and.independence when he was home
because if I.cried.and showed emotion was told to.sleep on.couch
when i.threatened divorce was told no man would want me and all I.was cut.out for was being truck.stop waitress
because I was allowed to.be.funny just not funnier than he was,laugh but not too loudas to draw.attention told not to dye my hair or wear make up and only baggy clothes. told to take classes online but only leave house to.takeee.kida school or go.church.or.do.shopping