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I think its about your mind set and theirs. I Like a lot of people but they never seem to have any interest in me. Should I lower my standards, hell no. That means I would eventually end up on a cycle of gradually lowering my standards one by one until someone comes along that is totally against my original standards and what I just go with it knowing that it won't work out. One of such standards could be do they smoke. I might for go this because at the end of the day my brother smokes so no big deal. But then I start to for go other things such as, I'd rather they didn't already have kids or I'd rather they were Caucasian or I'd rather they weren't religious or I'd rather they were sane. Start dropping one criteria then you may as well just drop the lot because that means your changing to get the right partner and no one should change for anyone. By Changing that makes you become someone your not and although they might like you, in the long term, You won't like you. I am just sick of hearing "Sorry, but your just not my TYPE". In what way though? Can't just say that and it be ok. It sounds as if there is no real reason and that its just a immature way to turn someone away unless of course there is a reason but for some reason I never hear why, Surely I don't match one or more of your criterias and I might yet find that they still don't match some of mine. It is weird though because I did confront this person I liked and that is what she said (not my type) and after asking her what the problem is she just couldn't come up with anything. I asked her what is it that makes me a walking reject, what thing or things is preventing someone from saying yes just once. "Oh I don't think its anything to do with you, you just haven't found the one yet?" Right ok so I have just asked you because I like you and your telling me that there isn't anything wrong with me as a person but its just that I haven't found the one yet even though the one could be the very person I am talking to who doesn't like me back for no known reason but insists its just because I am not her type? Ha this isn't Pokemon. What Just because I'm Grass Type (because grass is weak and women are my weakness) means you being a Psychic Type (Because all Women are Mind readers)(Don't mean to be offensive to the ladies here but it is common knowledge that Men aren't) means that together WE wouldn't work. You never know without trying but its easier to say no than try it seems. Everyone tends to comment that I am a "good looking lad" and yet all women just seem to make you feel like your covered in dog ****, thanks Ladies for always being the cause and solution to most life's problems |
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Edited by
lu10nt
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Sat 06/27/15 03:32 AM
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I can answer you back without using too many words here but I will anyway. You go into a shop looking for a chocolate bar, one pack is already open, the other sealed tight, which will you buy. You look at some mince on the shelf, one has gone all brown and the other looks really fresh, there is a shriveled up lemon and a fresh one of those too. Your in a rush and their are two tills open, one with a spotty kid who looks like he is on his first day and looks clumsy at everything he does or the other till has the overflowing with experience manager, which till will you use. One cigarette is all bent and one is perfectly straight, which do you smoke. You want to write a love letter, one piece of paper is all scrunched up and the other is perfectly flat, which do you use? Add a few more options in. You are hungry and thirsty but can only choose one option. A drink of water, 2 slices of bread or a bowl of soup, which do you choose, since the soup is kinda both that is surely going to quell both issues. The biggest problem is choice. If it was just as simple as female then everyone would have their partner but just like last night when I went out into town. The percentage of guys that had seen someone they liked: 100%. The percentage of girls that wanted attention: 100%. The percentage of girls that had seen someone they liked 0%. Thus guys build up the girls' egos because they think they are going to get somewhere and girls just get their free drinks, free dance and free whatever and then disappear. The problem for me is that I am in that shop in a different way. You see a guy who is confident but immature or you see a guy who is timid and shy and you can't gauge his maturity. Who do you dance with, who do you flirt with, who do you talk to, who do you leave with. I am the rotten piece of meat, the scrunched up paper, the bent cigarette, the shriveled lemon. The problem I think is other peoples perception of me but I can see why. The problem for me is I can't become a fresher lemon, fresher meat, a perfectly flat piece of paper or a straight cigarette because the damage has already been done and is irreversible. I just need to hope that everyone else rots far quicker and although manky I would become the fresher lemon. I know people don't like reading my essays or at least I tend to assume but it is only because I have a mind that tries to at least make reading between the lines a bit easier. I could have just said would you have rotten meat or fresh but I didn't because I try to provide the bigger picture using plenty of examples. This might get people to understand my problems and help me with solutions. I understand my problems fully but I can't see a way to change in a way that I would want to that would allow me to find my own solutions. Thanks for Reading. My autobiography comes out tomorrow and it will be 79 Billion pages long, just kidding.
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Edited by
lu10nt
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Sat 06/27/15 03:41 AM
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There is one special for every person When you find the one that ticks all the boxes they become the 'special one' for you, that's not to say there is only one of them out there, but hopefully you will never need to look again. Finding the one that ticks all the boxes is difficult indeed, but more difficult is finding someone who ticks all the boxes whom likes you because you tick all theirs #WorldsHardestThingToFind See I can do small posts |
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que sera sera
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There is one special for every person When you find the one that ticks all the boxes they become the 'special one' for you, that's not to say there is only one of them out there, but hopefully you will never need to look again. Finding the one that ticks all the boxes is difficult indeed, but more difficult is finding someone who ticks all the boxes whom likes you because you tick all theirs #WorldsHardestThingToFind See I can do small posts And here folks is the never ending (just ask any generation) problem of any and all romantic relationships. Is it inevitable that one will love, care, feel more than the other?? and how much of a gap in the intensity of those loving caring feelings is acceptable and workable for that particular pair ?????????? my head hurts ......  |
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Edited by
mom333
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Sat 06/27/15 03:50 AM
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The shrivelled lemon will be sweeter. The bent ciggerete if not broken will be stronger in taste because it might be older or not do tightly packed in. The chocolate bar shouldn't be sold and that spotty kid you can help by letting him do his job because he will learn faster and might even be nicer to you instead of rushing you and being stone faced. A real person who has lived and been hurt and may not look the way you want might be the one who sees you the way you want to bee seen. And that is vice versa. Someone who still thinks that she can change a man or even pick a man that is a super hero or a knight in shinning armour is not a good catch because she will be incapable of loving you just fort being you. But a woman who has gone through the wars and is still sane and has kept her good nature is more likely to be the one who sees you for you and will see beauty in the. Flaws you have and will love you because you are that bent ciggerete or the lemmon that doesn't look that pretty anymore.
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The shrivelled lemon will be sweeter. The bent ciggerete if not broken will be stronger in taste because it might be older or not do tightly packed in. The chocolate bar shouldn't be sold and that spotty kid you can help by letting him do his job because he will learn faster and might even be nicer to you instead of rushing you and being stone faced. A real person who has lived and been hurt and may not look the way you want might be the one who sees you the way you want to bee seen. And that is vice versa. Someone who still thinks that she can change a man or even pick a man that is a super hero or a knight in shinning armour is not a good catch because she will be incapable of loving you just fort being you. But a woman who has gone through the wars and is still sane and has kept her good nature is more likely to be the one who sees you for you and will see beauty in the. Flaws you have and will love you because you are that bent ciggerete or the lemmon that doesn't look that pretty anymore. I like people with flaws.nothing is perfect and so it shouldn't be.its what makes us unique 
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so that is why lynn owns stock in the nerve glue factory ???
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so that is why lynn owns stock in the nerve glue factory ??? I own the company need it on here 
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The shrivelled lemon will be sweeter. The bent ciggerete if not broken will be stronger in taste because it might be older or not do tightly packed in. The chocolate bar shouldn't be sold and that spotty kid you can help by letting him do his job because he will learn faster and might even be nicer to you instead of rushing you and being stone faced. A real person who has lived and been hurt and may not look the way you want might be the one who sees you the way you want to bee seen. And that is vice versa. Someone who still thinks that she can change a man or even pick a man that is a super hero or a knight in shinning armour is not a good catch because she will be incapable of loving you just fort being you. But a woman who has gone through the wars and is still sane and has kept her good nature is more likely to be the one who sees you for you and will see beauty in the. Flaws you have and will love you because you are that bent ciggerete or the lemmon that doesn't look that pretty anymore. You may say all that but in reality you naturally pick and chose the one that's best. Your seriously telling me you would buy inedible lemons over fresh ones? You would help the spotty kid on the till who will take 10 minutes to serve you when your in a rush and have to actually be somewhere important in 2 minutes time and being late means its game over. It seems typical from most points of view that women are looking for their knight in shining armour and a castle away from all the riff raff. Women surely instinctively and naturally chose someone who is strong and stern over someone who is shy and in the shadows. You can't fall in love with someone you can't see however someone who is strong that can protect you and your future children sounds like the right choice. I fail at every turn because I do not behave in the immature gangster/hard-man ways and instead choose to be the more intelligent and financial type because I know in reality brains and money are far stronger than some pathetic muscles but sadly 99.999999999999999999999% of women are far to blind or lack the intelligence to realise this. But then again I must reiterate myself, You can't fall in love with someone you can't see. I do believe that other people may have an interest in me but since I don't have the confidence to speak nothing happens or the times they do see me are when I'm too confident such as when I'm at work and so they might assume that actually I'm taken but since I can't change anything unless I wear a sticker on my head that states single and searching I might never get anywhere. |
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The shrivelled lemon will be sweeter. The bent ciggerete if not broken will be stronger in taste because it might be older or not do tightly packed in. The chocolate bar shouldn't be sold and that spotty kid you can help by letting him do his job because he will learn faster and might even be nicer to you instead of rushing you and being stone faced. A real person who has lived and been hurt and may not look the way you want might be the one who sees you the way you want to bee seen. And that is vice versa. Someone who still thinks that she can change a man or even pick a man that is a super hero or a knight in shinning armour is not a good catch because she will be incapable of loving you just fort being you. But a woman who has gone through the wars and is still sane and has kept her good nature is more likely to be the one who sees you for you and will see beauty in the. Flaws you have and will love you because you are that bent ciggerete or the lemmon that doesn't look that pretty anymore. You may say all that but in reality you naturally pick and chose the one that's best. Your seriously telling me you would buy inedible lemons over fresh ones? You would help the spotty kid on the till who will take 10 minutes to serve you when your in a rush and have to actually be somewhere important in 2 minutes time and being late means its game over. It seems typical from most points of view that women are looking for their knight in shining armour and a castle away from all the riff raff. Women surely instinctively and naturally chose someone who is strong and stern over someone who is shy and in the shadows. You can't fall in love with someone you can't see however someone who is strong that can protect you and your future children sounds like the right choice. I fail at every turn because I do not behave in the immature gangster/hard-man ways and instead choose to be the more intelligent and financial type because I know in reality brains and money are far stronger than some pathetic muscles but sadly 99.999999999999999999999% of women are far to blind or lack the intelligence to realise this. But then again I must reiterate myself, You can't fall in love with someone you can't see. I do believe that other people may have an interest in me but since I don't have the confidence to speak nothing happens or the times they do see me are when I'm too confident such as when I'm at work and so they might assume that actually I'm taken but since I can't change anything unless I wear a sticker on my head that states single and searching I might never get anywhere. |
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By the way if your pi king women based on substance rather than looks then you will find someone who is worth their salt. :)
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There is one special for every person Ahh if this were only true.............. we would be born with the other persons name and address stamped on our foreheads. Now that would make sense- if there is only one, surely you would want a hint at least to that person's whereabouts ... Life is total and utter chaos and we keep trying to make it into a pattern or a plan - give up already - some times you are lucky - or not - That's all. Couldn't agree more. There is nothing as 'one special for everyone'... Sometimes the two get along together as they think alike and have similar backgrounds. Otherwise, people weigh the consequences of a split-up against sticking around when the initial attraction melts away. If the former prevails, they separate and console themselves that probably he/she was not the 'one' after all. |
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By the way if your pi king women based on substance rather than looks then you will find someone who is worth their salt. :) Well your right about my confidence having had a kicking. My issue is that I can only be so patient and that it has literally become an obsession to the point that when "it" happens, I want it to be perfect. Time is as much my biggest enemy as is my confidence. |
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By the way if your pi king women based on substance rather than looks then you will find someone who is worth their salt. :) Well your right about my confidence having had a kicking. My issue is that I can only be so patient and that it has literally become an obsession to the point that when "it" happens, I want it to be perfect. Time is as much my biggest enemy as is my confidence. |
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There is one special for every person i used to believe that too... |
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Actually, I could a use a good special right now. A special on stoves. Mine's flaking out.
I sure HOPE there's not one special PERSON for everyone, given my track record, there'd be a 100% chance I already missed her. She probably lives reeeeeely far away, like four thousand miles. Or maybe twenty-six hours by plane. |
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I don't believe there is someone for everyone. maybe if I give up on being myself and looking for who I am attracted to and having similar outlooks in life. I might find someone.I don't want to settle.
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There is one special for every person I hope not. I am here looking my second special someone. |
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I totally agree..
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