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Topic: ZERO Tolerance
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Tue 07/21/15 07:55 AM
What are at least 3 of your "NOT negotiables" in a romantic/ sexual relationship or marriage ?

* We all have them , hopefully *

Example : Criminal History noway

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Tue 07/21/15 07:57 AM
Edited by IamwhoIam1 on Tue 07/21/15 07:57 AM
At this point in time, as long as he has a pulse, a career and is attractive, I can't be too picky anymore. grumble




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Tue 07/21/15 08:03 AM
Non-negotiable:

1. He cannot wear my stuff.
2. Must love dogs.
3. No lies.

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Tue 07/21/15 08:09 AM

At this point in time, as long as he has a pulse, a career and is attractive, I can't be too picky anymore. grumble

Aww, don't say that flowers
Just think of the reasons you left a guy ? Did they have things in common? To show a pattern?

When I was younger, I kept picking the same type. It took a LONG time for me to see it... that I chose them.
So, a " Control Freak " would be one of MY non negotiables.
And I do mean " Control Freak ". geez! The stories I could tell.. So I changed myself , so it never happened again biggrin

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Tue 07/21/15 08:14 AM
I'm drawing a blank. As long as he doesn't kill me in my sleep, I'm good.

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Tue 07/21/15 08:29 AM

I'm drawing a blank. As long as he doesn't kill me in my sleep, I'm good.


Okay..... It must be a pamper myself day, for you.
* I am having mine on Thursday ,I deserve it. laugh *

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Tue 07/21/15 08:35 AM
can't be married, seperated, etc if they are willing to cheat on their current, they will be willing to cheat on you as well.


Must have all their teeth, and no black teeth.


can't have a voice like Fran Drescher. ..

must be able to chew with their mouth closed


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Tue 07/21/15 09:20 AM
just 1 non-negotiable for me....

absolutely cannot be a Tea-Party member,
or even be in agreement with that political viewpoint....

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Tue 07/21/15 11:29 AM

can't be married, seperated, etc if they are willing to cheat on their current, they will be willing to cheat on you as well.


Must have all their teeth, and no black teeth.


can't have a voice like Fran Drescher. ..

must be able to chew with their mouth closed




Fran Drescher laugh
Yea.. I think that voice would be like nails scratching a chalk board.
Woody Allen's voice & mannerisms are the male version, imo.. ill

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Tue 07/21/15 11:31 AM

just 1 non-negotiable for me....

absolutely cannot be a Tea-Party member,
or even be in agreement with that political viewpoint....

But... but smitten


* No worries :banana: *

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Tue 07/21/15 11:35 AM
I think for me the zero tolerance thing
Would be honesty..

What ever whomever you are ....

I do admire people that stay true to whom they are
May not always agree with them but I respect them for standing up for what they believe in.

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Tue 07/21/15 03:25 PM
What are at least 3 of your "NOT negotiables" in a romantic/ sexual relationship or marriage ?

Wow...there are just SO many.
I'm extremely shallow.

Based on my experience with what I've found in the online dating world I'd go with...

Hmmm....
There's cannibalism.
There's bestiality.
There's pedophilia.

Those are three "NOT negotiables" (must not do those things, if that wasn't clear).

Hmmm...
There's also being in a cult.
Polygamy/polyandry.
Leaky colostomy bag.

I shouldn't forget...
Currently in prison with dating website access.
Or has down's syndrome.
Or has slept with my sibling.

And I'd hate myself if I didn't include...
Has cats.
Insurance fraud is main source of income.
Homeless.

I'll leave it there, I can't just choose 3.

TMommy's photo
Tue 07/21/15 03:29 PM
oooooo man like I got time to write this list out bigsmile how many you want? 3 hmmmm


got three or more baby mamas and does not talk to any of his kids

jailbird

control freak

Rock's photo
Tue 07/21/15 03:35 PM
Absolute musts...

1. Must be sane
2. Must be sober
3. Must be honest

........


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Tue 07/21/15 03:39 PM
Well, my pre-nup (well, the one I will require her to sign) basically states she cannot.....

1. Cook naked....unless I am present.
2. Masturbate......unless I am present (or videos it).
3. Put anything girly in the man cave, and no touching the vintage 70's Farah Fawwcett poster.

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Tue 07/21/15 03:51 PM

can't be married, seperated, etc if they are willing to cheat on their current, they will be willing to cheat on you as well.


Must have all their teeth, and no black teeth.


can't have a voice like Fran Drescher. ..

must be able to chew with their mouth closed


Isaac, that's funny about the teeth. I had a meet and greet with a guy I met online. I wondered why he didn't smile in his pics. Found out upon meeting him.....he was missing a front tooth. noway

I stayed and talked with him for an hour and all I could see was the missing tooth. lol

TMommy's photo
Tue 07/21/15 04:03 PM
messaged back and forth with a guy from where I used to live
nice enough guy ..anyhow
he stopped by one night after work and we sat out in his car
just talking and laughing but it was dark out
and when he reached over to kiss me goodbye? I realized he did not have any front teeth..now THAT felt really weird noway

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Tue 07/21/15 04:10 PM
Okay,
1- Criminal Record smokin
2- Control Freak frown
3- Non Christian pitchfork
4- Never married and/ or Never lived alone oops
5- Has relatives at home and/ or financially supporting , and or minor children whoa
6- Wants to move in with me noway
7- Was not born in the USA spock
8- Has mama drama and or baby mama drama waving
9- Owes the IRS scared
10- Has an addiction drinker
11- Thinks my uterus is a tracking device to find his sh@t, because he forgot . frustrated
12- Is under 50 years old ill


* Just think... when I was in my breeding phase, this list was much longer think *

TMommy's photo
Tue 07/21/15 04:32 PM
number 10 definite on my list

has never been in a committed relationship by time he is in his 40's

cannot carry on a conversation if it does not revolve around sex

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Tue 07/21/15 04:51 PM
Edited by 2469nascar on Tue 07/21/15 04:59 PM

Non-negotiable:

1. He cannot wear my stuff.

ooh come on red,,just one time????

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