Topic: Distance relationship
Argo's photo
Sat 10/10/15 08:57 PM

Do you believe in distance relationships?

that depends....for some, accross the street is too far...

now for some others, ....ain't no river wide enough, to keep me from gettin' to you...

Goofball73's photo
Sat 10/10/15 09:41 PM
Nah. She would have to be a special chick for me to consider it.

2469nascar's photo
Sat 10/10/15 10:57 PM

yes
thats from ^^^^^ someone who has never been in one iam sure,,,I SAY HELL NO. but you just never know who your gona meet,,,so i guess you should never say never,,,,i have tryed three times,,all failed with in three months,,but ya never know right?

Vishnu Reddy's photo
Sun 10/11/15 12:22 AM
yes I believe

mjpet1's photo
Sun 10/11/15 12:49 PM
Distance is not the problem,but how best the tow know each other;for me trust is the key when you trust your partner then distance is even fun because it make you think more of ur spouse!!

mjpet1's photo
Sun 10/11/15 12:50 PM
Distance is not the problem,but how best the tow know each other;for me trust is the key when you trust your partner then distance is even fun because it make's you think more of ur spouse!!

no photo
Sun 10/11/15 05:57 PM
Yes, I do believe in LDR as long as you both have trust, deep emotional attachment (strong love), constant communication and patience to endure the separation and distance. You might even be surprised that the feelings of partners in LDR are much stronger with that deep longing and affections, a feeling of being so close and near to each other despite of the distance rather than that of being together , so near yet so far feeling.

chyndal's photo
Mon 10/12/15 01:07 PM
I so much believe in it, and will like to give it a shot.

7Kamek's photo
Mon 10/12/15 02:23 PM
Yes I am in one, but I think it depends on the person. We both do a lot of things online, like playing mmorpgs together. It's something we both enjoy doing in the meantime, and when we get together we'll do other things like visit conventions and go camping.

My sister was the same way, she was in a long distance relationship for 7 years. They met on an online game, now they're living together.

It's good to skype every night, and try to find things to do together like watch movies or tv shows.

But many people aren't interested in games or media, so it might be harder to maintain a LDR when you don't have mutual activities to enjoy together.

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 10/12/15 05:18 PM


yes
thats from ^^^^^ someone who has never been in one iam sure,,,I SAY HELL NO. but you just never know who your gona meet,,,so i guess you should never say never,,,,i have tryed three times,,all failed with in three months,,but ya never know right?

Ahh Nascar.. You know Pancho and I both said nah nope not doing it.. And look where we arelaugh

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 10/12/15 05:40 PM
I don't know .
it's a big risk
yes it works for some I agree and I happy for them
But for me he would have to be pretty special.
It's not as if you can jump in your car drive. In some cases you can't drive to them.
At the end of the day it depends on the couple concerned.
if you want something badly enough you will make it happen.
The question is how bad do you want it?


Drkalat's photo
Mon 10/12/15 05:46 PM
of course, buh not for long

valeria32's photo
Tue 10/13/15 10:53 PM
Si cre� en relaciones a distancia,si hay amor y confianza si se puede logrartongue2 :banana:

no photo
Tue 10/13/15 11:43 PM
Maybe the rest of you minglers can explain something to me.

I'm trying to understand how a person falls in love over the internet before they meet each other? I'll go so far as to say that I've been attracted to a woman that I met on the internet. But for me, that's as far as it goes. And in a lot of cases that first initial attraction goes away as soon as we meet.

So, With knowing that I'm a bit leery to go that far to meet someone. Much less another state or country. I'll go 50 miles. And usually that's about it. Depending on the circumstances I might stretch it to 75, maybe a 100. And that would only be if I saw something really special in the lady. But still, for me, I just don't understand how people do it. How do they fall in love before they meet? How do you know that person, man or woman are who they portray themselves to be before you travel 5000 miles to meet them?

solat20's photo
Wed 10/14/15 12:48 AM
but its difficult

Valeris's photo
Wed 10/14/15 02:01 AM

Maybe the rest of you minglers can explain something to me.

I'm trying to understand how a person falls in love over the internet before they meet each other? I'll go so far as to say that I've been attracted to a woman that I met on the internet. But for me, that's as far as it goes. And in a lot of cases that first initial attraction goes away as soon as we meet.

So, With knowing that I'm a bit leery to go that far to meet someone. Much less another state or country. I'll go 50 miles. And usually that's about it. Depending on the circumstances I might stretch it to 75, maybe a 100. And that would only be if I saw something really special in the lady. But still, for me, I just don't understand how people do it. How do they fall in love before they meet? How do you know that person, man or woman are who they portray themselves to be before you travel 5000 miles to meet them?


You're 100% Correct.Not possible.The best possible outcome that can be realized in cyberspace encounter is that there maybe enough exchanged information to give one -reason to believe in the "Potential" of a real love relationship with another individual. Without "Real Time" spent together in each other's company; "Real Love" cannot be determined.

chronicliar75's photo
Wed 10/14/15 06:59 AM


How do they fall in love before they meet?


Individuals would always differ on how they define love.

For me, to suggest that u fall in love before u meet
sounds untrue & even ominous.

Attracted. Yes.
Interested. Yes.
The person makes u feel alive.Yes
The person makes u self-reflect. Yes.
The person makes u actually want to be good for someone for a change. Yes.
The person makes u feel variety of emotions (negative & positive). Yes.
The person makes u heart beat faster than the usual. Yes.
Emotions is prevalent even if your mind says stop. Yes.


Is that love? No,it is not for me.

There is a big probability that it can
turn to love
if the feelings are mutual
after they have confirmed,
if what they are
both declaring in the internet is true.
And the chemistry & emotions are still
prevalent when they meet in person.

There is a big probability that it can
turn to love,
if both are interested enough & attracted
enough to each other to take a risk
and get to know each other
and date each other online,
& see if they are really compatible
enough that it will merit
courage to both individuals to meet
in person.



Do you believe in distance relationships?


I have long distance relationships with my brothers
& parents until now. Not ideal, and not that good as I
would like it to be.

Do I believe on romantic long distance relationship?

I am skeptical.
But I choose to hope:smile:
I never have one yet. I do not know if it will work.
I do not know too, if I will have the courage to
actually try, after I will get to the part where
I will find someone who can makes my heart beats faster
than the usual or makes me feel alive. Hahahahaha

Only time will tell.

Imgracey's photo
Thu 10/15/15 05:20 AM
Yes yes and yes...been together for one year..I meet my fiancee in this site and were getting married next year..we survive all the obstacles..being apart but in mind and our hearts..were always together..

no photo
Thu 10/15/15 07:56 AM
Helo pls cn we b frnd

Annierooroo's photo
Thu 10/15/15 12:49 PM

Yes yes and yes...been together for one year..I meet my fiancee in this site and were getting married next year..we survive all the obstacles..being apart but in mind and our hearts..were always together..


Congratulations
I am happy for you both.
This is the second happy ending I have heard.
It can happen I know.