Topic: in love?!
dionisiostifler's photo
Thu 11/19/15 01:53 AM
of course... when u been broken alot by people u see in the flesh why wouldnt u dream of some excitement

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/19/15 02:37 AM
Love is something you generate yourself based on how someone makes you feel.
So yes, it is possible. Doesn't mean it is realistic though. When you meet the person for real, he/she might make you feel completely different.

The risk is in what RustyKitty said: you build something on image upon image.
As far as I'm concerned you'd need shared emotional moments to build a real relationship on. You can't have those online.

Your feelings may feel just as strong, but the chances they're based on something that doesn't really exist, are high.

Spike1964's photo
Thu 11/19/15 03:09 AM

could it really be possible to fall in love deeply with someone to whom you haven't even met yet in flesh?


Anything is possible but it would need to be face to face for me people can lie online too easily for my liking.

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Thu 11/19/15 04:08 AM
wow!
it's kinda pretty amazing reading brilliant opinions coming from all brilliant minds.

thank you guys for sharing thoughts.
and for the overwhelming response as well.:smile: :smile: :smile: love love love

each opinion matter's

and here's mine...

am referring to two real people involved over here.
name it. Skype,Viber these are only among those means of communication being ventured upon.
to keep the communication line open.

and it succeeded to brought these two people closer.
managed to establish trust,understanding and great rapport.

in other words,they're beginning to build those basic fundamentals of a serious relationship.

but not too sure yet if it will gonna workout given the time & distance as the biggest barrier here @ the moment.

both were aware of the true feelings.but confused if it's really true love on the line.

and yes,it's true the level of emotions is really way too far different when you feel it for real.
over being said on line or through chatting.
scared? or perhaps skeptical?
to face the truth.
thinking it might not gonna workout?

both I might say,were I guess playing safe of not getting hurt once again.

but as for me.it's worth to give it a try cause we'll never know what is there in store for the both of you.
if in the long run it didn't really workout.
no regrets still,@ least I tried..I dared...I braved it.
rather than being haunted by "what if's".:throughout my existence:smile: :

Frankk1950's photo
Thu 11/19/15 04:22 AM
It is generally accepted that people tend to regret the things they didn't do in life rather than the things they tried and failed at.

Better to have loved and lost,than to have never loved at all.

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Thu 11/19/15 04:24 AM
cheers to that Frankk 1950 !:smile:

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Thu 11/19/15 04:47 AM
Edited by fridawanda on Thu 11/19/15 04:48 AM
ops,if I may add here.
both were actually agreed to simplify things in any given situations.
as both have had deep aversion's to "complex" life.

but,isn't it ironic to say that both were creating it right now?
just only because so afraid to get being hurt by playing it safe?

dare to face itlove love love

no matter whatlove love love

jacktrades's photo
Thu 11/19/15 05:28 AM
I think you could really like their online personality and I also believe that you can be attached at their words or beliefs but until you lock eyes, and touch each other, and spend time together, all your attracted to are words on a screen.

TMommy's photo
Thu 11/19/15 05:32 AM
people fall in love with the 'idea' of love or the ideal of it..

the fantasy version if ya will
that side you choose to share with someone else

the selfies that took ya half the afternoon to take
the always upbeat humor
fun, flirty, understanding and kind you


which may not be the whole picture


people tend to build things up in their minds
nobody can live up to


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/19/15 07:25 AM

people fall in love with the 'idea' of love or the ideal of it..

the fantasy version if ya will
that side you choose to share with someone else

the selfies that took ya half the afternoon to take
the always upbeat humor
fun, flirty, understanding and kind you


which may not be the whole picture


people tend to build things up in their minds
nobody can live up to



Dammit, T, you're ruining my dreams here!
tears

And I did not take half the afternoon taking my pictures. Well, not all of them anyways :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

no photo
Thu 11/19/15 07:48 AM
Edited by fridawanda on Thu 11/19/15 07:50 AM


people fall in love with the 'idea' of love or the ideal of it..

the fantasy version if ya will
that side you choose to share with someone else

the selfies that took ya half the afternoon to take
the always upbeat humor
fun, flirty, understanding and kind you


which may not be the whole picture


people tend to build things up in their minds
nobody can live up to



Dammit, T, you're ruining my dreams here!
tears

And I did not take half the afternoon taking my pictures. Well, not all of them anyways :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


oh hello there lovely lady:smile:
this is all about taking chances herelove :wink: :smile:

TMommy's photo
Thu 11/19/15 07:58 AM


people fall in love with the 'idea' of love or the ideal of it..

the fantasy version if ya will
that side you choose to share with someone else

the selfies that took ya half the afternoon to take
the always upbeat humor
fun, flirty, understanding and kind you


which may not be the whole picture


people tend to build things up in their minds
nobody can live up to



Dammit, T, you're ruining my dreams here!
tears

And I did not take half the afternoon taking my pictures. Well, not all of them anyways :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
heeehee...I shall admit that it took awhile to take mine bigsmile

of course I never said I was upbeat or flirty or uh..pleasant all the time grumble :wink:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/19/15 10:40 AM



people fall in love with the 'idea' of love or the ideal of it..

the fantasy version if ya will
that side you choose to share with someone else

the selfies that took ya half the afternoon to take
the always upbeat humor
fun, flirty, understanding and kind you


which may not be the whole picture


people tend to build things up in their minds
nobody can live up to



Dammit, T, you're ruining my dreams here!
tears

And I did not take half the afternoon taking my pictures. Well, not all of them anyways :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
heeehee...I shall admit that it took awhile to take mine bigsmile

of course I never said I was upbeat or flirty or uh..pleasant all the time grumble :wink:

It usually takes me a few hours to get some good pictures. Most are always (slightly) blurred. After about an hour I tend to get fed up with the umpteenth blurred smile, so I do just whatever, and that's when I end up with some good pictures: when I stop giving a chit about it all, lol.
Works the same with painting for me. As soon as I stop trying to get it right, I get it right.

As for feeling good all the time ... work in progress laugh

no photo
Thu 11/19/15 10:44 AM
No. It is usually delusional. Every now and then someone you meet via the internet can LEAD TO LOVE. Falling in love with someone you've never met is one of the silliest thoughts ever. It is strictly fantasy. Fantasy never leaves the toilet seat up, right ladies?

Sorry to you "internet lovers." :wink:

TMommy's photo
Thu 11/19/15 10:58 AM
Edited by TMommy on Thu 11/19/15 11:02 AM
well thank goodness that is one less chore for me to have to do

cough cough my goodness I have raised quite the cloud of dust

I am such a busy busy girl




ooooh man I am probably gonna get mail from this one grumble

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 11/19/15 12:26 PM
If that don't give you mail, nothing will laugh

graygentleman's photo
Thu 11/19/15 03:26 PM

well thank goodness that is one less chore for me to have to do

cough cough my goodness I have raised quite the cloud of dust

I am such a busy busy girl




ooooh man I am probably gonna get mail from this one grumble




Can still see you through that dust cloud!

Valeris's photo
Thu 11/19/15 03:48 PM

could it really be possible to fall in love deeply with someone to whom you haven't even met yet in flesh?


Hey why not?! GO FOR ITlaugh"Abandon the search for Truth; instead settle for a good fantasy..."

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Thu 11/19/15 05:19 PM
Edited by dolphin0925 on Thu 11/19/15 05:38 PM

could it really be possible to fall in love deeply with someone to whom you haven't even met yet in flesh?


Yes it is possible to fall in love deeply with someone you haven't met in flesh yet. The heart doesn't have eyes to see, doesn't have ears to hear and doesn't have hands to touch......but the heart has the power to bring out different emotions and most of all to feel love. The heart recognizes an intangible thing that moves the deepest part of ur subconscious mind to feel, of which you don't necessarily need a real flesh to yield a certain emotion. You watch tv, movies, hear music and it makes u react in different ways,you cry, laugh, dance etc. You feel these emotions even when there is no physical presence of something or someone. How much more when you talk to someone regularly on phone or video, and have taken time to get to know each other , established a deep emotional attachment.......these could eventually lead to falling in love. But it depends on what type of a person you are, some are emotional and some are physical. Emotional person feels strongly with passion even without seeing , only based on feeling, while a physical person base their feelings through touching and seeing. Emotional people has a greater tendency to fall deeply in love with someone they haven't met in real yet, it's more on the meeting of the hearts and minds.

But , just be careful to assess your feelings because sometimes it could mislead you as well as the person you are dealing with coz he or she might not be real. When you fall in love, make sure you both have taken time to really know each other well with all honesty and sincerity. Love happens...... everything is possible for a pure heart that truly believes in the power of love.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/19/15 05:36 PM

well thank goodness that is one less chore for me to have to do

cough cough my goodness I have raised quite the cloud of dust

I am such a busy busy girl




ooooh man I am probably gonna get mail from this one grumble