does. age difference matter if so male or female who should be older.and what shld be the age diffrence

It depends; age difference counts negatively when is a big one.

An old man is a situation; an old woman is a different one

It counts in both ways...and negatively for the future years...

its all personal perspective,,

my experience is women mature faster then men(just my experience, though Ive spoken to many women that are exceptions,,lol)


so, for me, an older woman with a younger man is creepy,unless either the younger man is exceptionally mature, or the older woman is exceptionally immature
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an older man with a younger woman makes more sense to me


although, when there is a situation when either is younger then the oldest of their children,,, its creepy all around,,lol

Eh I really doesn't matter theses days.

My ex wife is way younger than me. An to well do "things" that were a bit risky was a challenge at times.A few times it was what she wanted. But all in all I was the immature one. Lol go figure.

Where as being with some one older was a bit more adventurous all the time.

The only reason I prefer older is because they are more agreeable (for one reason or another) to the whole no romance and no marriage aspects that I prefer to look for in a friendship now a days.

The following is a 'rule of thumb' guide.

Half your age plus 7 should be the youngest.
Subtract 7 from your age then double it should be the oldest.

see more information at the web address below,

http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2011/10/4/the-dating-equation-your-age-7.html

I believe it is more a personal choice and on how much importance you place on age in a romantic relationship. I don't believe it matters providing you can both marry, but if you are concerned about age difference it's probably better to stay within an age group you are comfortable with.

Women develop their minds at a younger age than men. That is why in most relationships, the man is older than the woman. When a man and a woman of the same age get together, the woman is often the more developed one. As with everything, there are alot of different cases. I only speak from a biological perspective.

doesn't matter to me as long as good emotional connection and compatibility are present

Part of the answer is to be found in WHY people of significantly different ages get together (or try to).

Any time that one or both people are really looking for something other than specifically each other, there is a likelihood of the relationship being unhealthy. That includes people of the same age as well.

It gets tricky when you talk to the people about their relationship, to try to make a purely factual judgment, because people wont usually be truthful even to themselves, when they think they are doing something wrong. People who are looking for someone to oppress and or use, will claim to be looking for someone to care for, just as people looking for someone with money to "dig gold" from, will claim to be looking for "confidence that comes from success in life," or some such thing.

It doesn't matter as long as the woman hasn't hit the "WALL" yet.

The "WALL" is somewhere a round age 40.

Early to Mid 30's is a great age group for women though.

I guess I hit the "wall" along time ago. I'm almost 50.

It depends what men and women are looking for in a relationship.

I've been around since way before the last ice age, in one form or another to my recollection... Twice as long and further back, things start to get foggy, and super-mega-sometimers-Alzheimers slips in, I consider everything alive, including bristle-cone pines, too young to be anything by an acquaintance of sorts. Besides, when they see my ugly damn face, they uproot and run like hell. I guess they don't like receiving oral secxs... I'm just too childlike and immature for anything or creature, in the grand scheme of things. The older I get, the more dumb I become, and the less I know, and the less I learn. Amoebas and paramecium get better grades, seriously.

I did notice something awhile back though, and before I forget it which will be most soon I'm sure, is....

If humans would drop:

gender and racial trump cards

egos

anger over petty issues

greed

Age differences will be smoother, and only interests and lifestyles, and understanding one another will be determining factors in what you might seek. Not so much society's look of dis-approval.

I also think Legal ages are a great idea, with what all the predators wandering around these days... no women are safe anymore, legal or not... I have seen terrible things in all countries, with no justice. U.S. included. just be careful....

aaand....you'll do alright.

Are we making ball jokes now? Cool...I have one...well, I heard one anyway. Saw a show about vajazzling....like bedazzling, except for vaginas. Some guy said he would start Penazzling...and have Disco Balls....made me chuckle slightly....

Hey I agree....even got an ad slogan myself...

"Gonad? Go Rad!"

Balls deep profits if ya ask me....

Can u plz shed some more light on this ''WALL''
Thanks

Its the one Trump wants to build I think

So it's like this ya see. I think I am 26 in my mind. Then I hangout with 26 year olds and I am like nope I am 46

I'd say stick with someone near your age. My last date didn't know there had been a second world war. We broke up fast.

Now that is bad.. Either she was way way young or she just didn't listen in history class...




Well Hells bells I must have smashed into this wall almost 20 years ago and didn't even know it...


Someone must really send out memo's to us that have seen 40 and shot past it a long time ago...



Now to the question honestly. When I was single I dated 15 years younger I did make one exception and did 20 younger, and I have dated older.. I have found the older I get the less I want to date someone 10 years older than I am.

OP this is totally a personal choice.