Topic: Texting/Calling...
no1phD's photo
Wed 10/26/16 04:55 PM
Sexteting...all the time..morning noon and night..texting..to say hello..only if I have to...lol..jk.

Ohh.and baby..hello...lol...wink..:angel:

mariaclaracruz23's photo
Thu 10/27/16 06:55 AM


I really think that this issue depends on both of you. If you feel like texting her, then go ahead. As long as you don't bother her work hours, I think it will be just fine.

Now if only women could learn this as well. Clinginess before we've even met in person is a complete turn off!


Lol. Women could be really clingy. In my case, i don't usually practice it. Preparations for laboratory activities mostly kill my time. I can't hardly read posts on forums. Haha :joy::joy::joy:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/27/16 12:44 PM

For the ladies, how often should a guy call/text you in a new relationship? And for the guys, how often do you call/text a new dating interest? I know there's a thin line between appropriate and creepy. I just don't know where it is. lol


Oh you can tell if a woman is receptive to your calls or texts. Plus, if you get that piece of paper delivered to you by the Cops that says 'Restraining order" it should pretty much tell you that she's not that into you. laugh

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 10/27/16 12:55 PM
If I really like someone, he can't text too much.

If I'm busy at work, I just answer when I can - and he can do the same.


no photo
Thu 10/27/16 01:01 PM
hi

no photo
Thu 10/27/16 01:01 PM
hi

cherylhayley's photo
Thu 10/27/16 01:32 PM
First thing in the morning and last thing at night is a must.. Between those times, I suppose it just depends on how busy your life's are.. If she's got a busy life and your messaging her all the time, that go's from cute to annoying pretty quickly, if she's not replying within 5/10 minutes she's probably busy, so keep it short and tell her to message you when she's free :ok_hand_tone2::wink: it's a win win situation :grinning:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 10/27/16 01:47 PM


For the ladies, how often should a guy call/text you in a new relationship? And for the guys, how often do you call/text a new dating interest? I know there's a thin line between appropriate and creepy. I just don't know where it is. lol


Oh you can tell if a woman is receptive to your calls or texts. Plus, if you get that piece of paper delivered to you by the Cops that says 'Restraining order" it should pretty much tell you that she's not that into you. laugh

Hahaha.. yeah, I think that indeed would be pretty darned clear! Lol

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 10/27/16 02:46 PM

First thing in the morning and last thing at night is a must.. Between those times, I suppose it just depends on how busy your life's are.. If she's got a busy life and your messaging her all the time, that go's from cute to annoying pretty quickly, if she's not replying within 5/10 minutes she's probably busy, so keep it short and tell her to message you when she's free :ok_hand_tone2::wink: it's a win win situation :grinning:



Good point ... if someone doesn't respond - don't keep texting! laugh

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/27/16 03:28 PM



For the ladies, how often should a guy call/text you in a new relationship? And for the guys, how often do you call/text a new dating interest? I know there's a thin line between appropriate and creepy. I just don't know where it is. lol


Oh you can tell if a woman is receptive to your calls or texts. Plus, if you get that piece of paper delivered to you by the Cops that says 'Restraining order" it should pretty much tell you that she's not that into you. laugh

Hahaha.. yeah, I think that indeed would be pretty darned clear! Lol


Hey. Some guys simply do not get the hint. They will reason that they thought the restraining order paper was simply "a mistake". noway laugh

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/28/16 02:45 AM




For the ladies, how often should a guy call/text you in a new relationship? And for the guys, how often do you call/text a new dating interest? I know there's a thin line between appropriate and creepy. I just don't know where it is. lol


Oh you can tell if a woman is receptive to your calls or texts. Plus, if you get that piece of paper delivered to you by the Cops that says 'Restraining order" it should pretty much tell you that she's not that into you. laugh

Hahaha.. yeah, I think that indeed would be pretty darned clear! Lol


Hey. Some guys simply do not get the hint. They will reason that they thought the restraining order paper was simply "a mistake". noway laugh

And think "I gotta make it up", go by her place with flowers and bonbons and a late night serenade...

LeeFranklin's photo
Fri 10/28/16 05:43 AM
I just do not know what to do to please everybody.

Text Novels make me not happy. Usually the Author in a fit of some emotion...Happy, Sad, Mad or other.

I have never much enjoyed talking on a phone to anyone about anything as it seems I am talking to a machine.

Of course I have had some enchanting conversations and required from time to time. Nothing beats in Living Color - In Person.

LeeFranklin's photo
Fri 10/28/16 05:44 AM
I can see you are not hanging out with the Right ONES.

Restraining Orders can be GREEN Light with some!

Means hurry over now!

chasen33's photo
Thu 11/03/16 01:26 AM
Text at first till you get to know each other then once dating call

Joss420's photo
Thu 11/03/16 11:14 AM
Hi

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 11/03/16 12:06 PM
Met a guy, had one date, it went well and he said "maybe we can be vaping buddies"

Exchanged numbers, texted off and on - he never seemed too interested, so I moved on.

Met someone, dated about 7 months and unfortunately it didn't work out.

Reactivated my dating profile & here comes my vaping buddy. He claims I broke his heart.

I said, I didn't think you were interested. We start texting again, daily... For a few days.

It's been about 3 days now, haven't heard from him.

I guess he's not interested again.

Moral of the story - if you are interested you will make time to at least text a Good Morning, and a Good Night.

(shrugs)

peggy122's photo
Thu 11/03/16 12:59 PM
Edited by peggy122 on Thu 11/03/16 01:20 PM

Met a guy, had one date, it went well and he said "maybe we can be vaping buddies"

Exchanged numbers, texted off and on - he never seemed too interested, so I moved on.

Met someone, dated about 7 months and unfortunately it didn't work out.

Reactivated my dating profile & here comes my vaping buddy. He claims I broke his heart.

I said, I didn't think you were interested. We start texting again, daily... For a few days.

It's been about 3 days now, haven't heard from him.

I guess he's not interested again.

Moral of the story - if you are interested you will make time to at least text a Good Morning, and a Good Night.

(shrugs)


I always laugh at the men who say they dont have time to acknowledge the person they claim to care about on a daily basis by texting.

Ofcourse we have to leave room for human frailty. People get sick, or they fall asleep prematurely or they are caught up in the stress of their day.


There will be days here and there where both parties will fall short in that area, but I don't understand that slip- up being a regular occurrence.

But if a man does not think I am deserving of 2 minutes from his 24 hour day to text , "Im swamped today honey, but thinking of you . Hope you have a great day,flowers" , then I don't think he is deserving of even an inch of space in my life.


Madcatlady01's photo
Thu 11/03/16 01:27 PM
It depends how into eachother you are. I recently got involved with a guy who leads a very busy life but our texting went on for weeks and then moved on to phone calls and discussing our first meetup as it's long distance. I tend to hold back as I don't believe you can develop real feelings before testing out the actual chemistry for real. But he was extremely funny and intelligent and we sparked off eachother. So I did become excited about his texts and dissapointed if it was ages between them.

It was puzzling because he was the one talking about sloppy stuff and the L word not me. Yet he could be red hot one day then leave me dangling the next.

So I would say the messaging/calling should be consistent with the way the relationship is developing. If you can't find a couple of minutes to text a brief message at least on a daily basis then you are sending a very clear message that he/she is not important.

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 11/03/16 02:29 PM

Met a guy, had one date, it went well and he said "maybe we can be vaping buddies"

Exchanged numbers, texted off and on - he never seemed too interested, so I moved on.

Met someone, dated about 7 months and unfortunately it didn't work out.

Reactivated my dating profile & here comes my vaping buddy. He claims I broke his heart.

I said, I didn't think you were interested. We start texting again, daily... For a few days.

It's been about 3 days now, haven't heard from him.

I guess he's not interested again.

Moral of the story - if you are interested you will make time to at least text a Good Morning, and a Good Night.

(shrugs)


I always laugh at the men who say they dont have time to acknowledge the person they claim to care about on a daily basis by texting.

Ofcourse we have to leave room for human frailty. People get sick, or they fall asleep prematurely or they are caught up in the stress of their day.


There will be days here and there where both parties will fall short in that area, but I don't understand that slip- up being a regular occurrence.

But if a man does not think I am deserving of 2 minutes from his 24 hour day to text , "Im swamped today honey, but thinking of you . Hope you have a great day,flowers" , then I don't think he is deserving of even an inch of space in my life.






I couldn't agree more!!!!!

ruffsean's photo
Thu 11/03/16 03:09 PM
i do.....