blondey and crystal please start this thread

i am sure a lot of women will be empowered with this

men are also welcome to contribute. just dont go overboard please

finally youre here

no talk is needed then lol

Ohh yahhh sure blondy

cheeky smile ... check lol

Blondey lol

cant wait for blondeys next post lol paging crystal

Eye contact+ smile.

Even when I could not see your hand in front of my face you have to train yourself to look at people. Get your eyes off the ground, the sky, hiding, or looking anywhere but into someones eyes and connecting. Not talking a stare down but just looking into someones eyes is disarming because they are much more likely to look into yours.

AND YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR LOOKS ? Sooooooh easy; smile.

I am not saying give them the just had an orgasms grin 24/7 but so many people wear lost in electronic la-la land, resting ***** face, what are you looking at tude, looking through people like they don't exist, or even that I am chronically so constipated with my own misery by face is frozen ugly that you wonder if a smile actually hurts.

For most Flirting is going to take conscious effort because most of us had it trained out of us once we get to school and or the work place.

But success will breed success and can become a habit if you will just try it. You want people to be attracted to you have super powers if you just consciously make a habit of smiling. Even if you have to fake it try mentally reminding yourself to smile every few minutes. You will, I guarantee, see a difference in how your day Will go. ESPECIALLY with the opposite sex.

I don't believe in the power of flirting. Being naturally open,warm, easy going, honest and with a ready smile for everyone , people will tend to feel the AURA you exude and they will in turn respond to you in a friendly manner. Meeting and attracting people doesn't need a skill of flirting, but it is the positive energy that you surround yourself and spreads around you like a magnet that attracts people. Positivity creates an attractive aura, surround yourself with good vibes

a lot of girls are learning here including me... thanks people keep the thoughts coming may it be realistic or crazy lol. lets have a good laugh

Flirting alone is very difficult to work. You need charisma added to the equation. If that was not enough, you need to feel it. When flirting, if oneself is fake, the end result is failure and disappointment. When it work, is fun that may end up in something positive.
On the other side, there is a fine line with mixing it up with "trolling". That may seeing as, well, I have needs that need to be satisfied. Hey, if that is what the initiator wants, it is ok too.
I do not tend to flirt, only if I am in a situation that I feel is time. But always respectful about it. In reality, it can be fun.

I am absolutely terrible at both sides of flirting (when I try to do it, I screw it up every time; when women do it to me, I usually can't tell it's happening). But I can make one unquestionably simple and good suggestion:

put real work into practicing a positive RESTING FACE for yourself. That's what most people call the expression that you have on your face when you are just spacing out, or otherwise not directly engaged with another person. By practicing a generally positive resting face, you will reap all sorts of benefits, including everything from appearing to be more "approachable" than you really are, to reducing the chance that you will accidentally trigger a paranoid stranger in to attacking you.

This is Flirting 101, the person that initiate the flirting needs charisma and the feeling!, after that nature run it coarse, not much more I can offer here, .

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Sometimes we over compensate
when faced with inadequacy.