Topic: Whats your opinion in interracial relationships ? Would you
Mihaip's photo
Fri 12/22/17 06:36 AM
I honestly would too!

msharmony's photo
Fri 12/22/17 08:20 AM
People are so much more than their race.

And even within a race there are millions of INDIVIDUALS all with a distinct combination of physical and character traits

there physical traits I am attracted to that come in all races such as heigth, shoulders, smile, scent, swat, cheek line

there are character traits I am attracted to that come in all races such as, integrity, wit, compassion, considerateness, sense of humor, intelligence

literally any race has people that have these traits, and certainly who their ancestors are will not make them less appealing to me

Stu's photo
Fri 12/22/17 08:28 AM
Love has no color. We are all created equal. We are all human beings. We are all capable of seeing past the color of ones skin and seeing the person as an equal, its up to those individual people to do so.

Timcl's photo
Fri 12/22/17 04:03 PM
I had and would have again

newsworthy's photo
Fri 12/22/17 11:43 PM

I think it is fine, if there is chemistry then that's all thats needed regardless.

no photo
Sat 12/23/17 05:21 AM
When two people have the love, the chemistry and affection color won't matter.

no photo
Sat 12/23/17 05:21 AM
When two people have the love, the chemistry and affection color won't matter.

vijay2131's photo
Tue 12/26/17 10:57 PM
Hi yes

Robxbox73's photo
Wed 12/27/17 12:29 AM
just a personal side note....
the word racist and race are totaly misunderstood by humanity.

everyone belives black is a race. white, red, yellow....wrong.

we on the planet earth or Terra...are HUMAN. Sooooo, no one can be racist. unless you have a prejudice about Martians or Moon people or Sasquatches or smoke people....then and only then you can be racist toward someone.

What we have on earth, is variants...
asians, europeans, inuit, ect, ect...

So if you have a problem with the abundace of melin or lack of melin (pigment in human skin)...they you are weird and you hate your own race eathling!

Now, i have to get back to Mars..its interplanetary playoffs, and i NEVER miss a game!

nanoo, nanoo,
RobXbox73

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 12/27/17 12:56 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 12/27/17 12:56 AM
3 criteria

Consenting
Human
Adults

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 12/27/17 02:53 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 12/27/17 02:58 AM
Nope, I wouldn't. Been close in the past, but not anymore.
Race is much more than just difference in melanin levels (skin colour). It's also facial features, physical differences, the way people move even. But that's a matter of attraction, or not.
But it also comes with different culture, background, behaviour, beliefs, norms and values.
One important 'condition' to have a long-lasting healthy relationship is that you share similar / the same norms & values, goals, beliefs and so on in life. It's much harder to establish a lasting healthy relationship when you don't see eye to eye on such matters.
Of course this can also be found within the same race, but variances are typically more substantial with someone from another race.
Personally I think people often underestimate what you have to deal with when with someone from another culture or race.
It's nice to want to get rid of racism, but we're not talking racism here, we're talking healthy relationship potential. And the way I see it, it is another obstacle to overcome.
I'm not looking for obstacles anymore, too much work. I'm looking for a wonderful partner with whom I have a 'smooth' connection. Not up for bashing out differences anymore. Been there, done that.
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Tripper2184's photo
Wed 12/27/17 07:03 AM
I am comfortable with inter race relationships but would that inter cultural relationships are very very hard work and may well end up coming to heartache.

I have been writing, calling and emailing a Lady in UAE - she is from India - and the end result is that she had no intention of ever meeting me, for her the dream of a loving man was enough and she has chosen to stay in a marriage there because it is comfortable - not frightening - and predictable.


msharmony's photo
Wed 12/27/17 09:27 AM
My feeling is that no two families are identical so the idea that culture and race are absolutely intertwined is not true.

The truth is we don't know what similarities we will have with an individual, or what their 'culture' might be until we get to know them on an individual level. A white southerner may have quite a different culture than a white northerner. A black person raised in suburbia may have quite a different culture than one raised in the hood.

The white and black person both raised in suburbia, may have a much more similar 'culture' than a white person raised in suburbia, and a white person raised in the back woods.

I am of the opinion that people should look in individuals at the things they are attracted to AS well as what they may not find attractive, when it comes to the physical.

I am not attracted to pale, or thin lips. But I AM attracted to swag, confidence, sense of humor, positivity, so I can be attracted to someone even IF they have pale skin or thin lips IF they happen to have swag, confidence, and sense of humor.

I am also of the opinion that people get to know the individual before assessing what their 'culture' might be. And seeing where those cultures are similar or different, and rather its significant enough to set firm in the feeling that there is an obstacle too much to deal with.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 12/27/17 10:41 AM

Honestly I would date someone from another race.


That is you. People eother don't care, only date outside or only date inside. Preference is preference. If someone isn't into you, move on to the next

Ted_Bear's photo
Wed 12/27/17 11:06 AM
I don't think in this 21st century we should even be talking about races.. Yes it exists.. But I don't think it has got to do anything with a relationship..

msharmony's photo
Wed 12/27/17 12:09 PM

I don't think in this 21st century we should even be talking about races.. Yes it exists.. But I don't think it has got to do anything with a relationship..


My opinion is that talking is good, so we can communicate with and influence and understand others.

I agree that race and relationships don't have much at all to do with one another though.

Mariannah's photo
Fri 12/29/17 04:32 AM
I would definitely date outside my race and look forward to it.

notbeold's photo
Fri 12/29/17 05:04 AM
Personally I would biggrin ; some other 'races' to me are more attractive than others, is that racist ?

But the idealist utopian idea of a world of coffee coloured people is not a good thing, because as any farmer knows, if you have a monoculture and it gets a disease, then the whole crop is at severe risk. A variety within species diversity is insurance against total wipeout.

And it's nice to look at different looking people in different clothes, from different cultures.

calista29's photo
Fri 12/29/17 05:25 AM
If the feeling is right and real,the circumstances favored and the element of respect,honesty and deep rooted connection were present....i personally don't see any reasons why it wouldn't be possible to get involved with someone from the other race....after all,we're all humans.:wink:

IAMISTHIS's photo
Fri 12/29/17 08:50 AM
It's good that a black and white couple to be together ,if the male is black and the girl is white ,if the couple is a white man and a black girl ,that don't go well with me ill