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Topic: what do i do?
stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:10 AM
I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.

Brenna24's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:11 AM

I've been dating a girl for 2 and a half weeks now, going on our sixth date today. Do I just assume we are a couple now or do I ask her? I've never really understood how someone becomes an actual couple.


ask her! she is probably thinkin the same thing!

sexxyandsingle's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:11 AM
Wish i could tell you if i could i wouldn't be here!

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Wed 01/23/08 10:13 AM
I would say.......or at least let her know that you want to be exclusive.....bigsmile

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:13 AM
Well if you have to ask someone else then your probably not a couple yet.
Good Luck

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:14 AM
it wouldn't be rushing things would it? I don't know if 2 and a half weeks is about normal or too early?

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Wed 01/23/08 10:15 AM
just do it!!!bigsmile

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:16 AM
do i ask her is she wants to be exclusive or tell her i want to be exclusive?

Dragoness's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:16 AM
I do not consider us a couple and exclusive until we agree mutually that is what we are doing. I suggest you talk to her about it before assuming anything.

Rose41's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:17 AM

it wouldn't be rushing things would it? I don't know if 2 and a half weeks is about normal or too early?

oh this is easy it happened to me b4 the guy comes to me and says can i call you honey..i said you could but rose is more appropriate as seeing were good friends so see i answered his question and it was all clear

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:17 AM
I honestly don't know how to bring it up because she is very busy with her masters program at school and working overnights.

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Wed 01/23/08 10:17 AM

I do not consider us a couple and exclusive until we agree mutually that is what we are doing. I suggest you talk to her about it before assuming anything.
I concur!!!:wink:

Brenna24's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:17 AM

do i ask her is she wants to be exclusive or tell her i want to be exclusive?


just tell her you like her alot and you wanna see where it could go and ask her out!

KennethP5206's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:18 AM
How have the dates been going, how do you think she feels?
Has she been calling you, have you been calling her?
Any touching?
Do you feel chemistry towards her, or between the both of you?
Any sparks...butterflies in your stomach...etc?:wink:

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Wed 01/23/08 10:19 AM

I honestly don't know how to bring it up because she is very busy with her masters program at school and working overnights.
Just say that you would like to be exclusive and ask her if she wants to be......flowerforyou

Drivinmenutz's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:20 AM
Its hard to say what would be the right thing to do at this point. A lot of knowing if and when to bring certain things up to a girl involves reading into her personality some. Is she a bit of a "free spirit", meaning, do you think she would rather hold off on making things official? All this analytical b.s. aside...when in doubt, screw it, just ask her. It's a relief to a lot of women when guys are more up front about certain things, and aren't afraid to talk about them.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:20 AM

do i ask her is she wants to be exclusive or tell her i want to be exclusive?


Ask her how she is feeling about you two together. Then let her know you were considering making it exclusive between you two and you want to know how she feels about it. This should start dialogue that should end with an agreement but make sure that is what is understood.

nonchalantwendy's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:20 AM

it wouldn't be rushing things would it? I don't know if 2 and a half weeks is about normal or too early?



That depends on the two of you there are no set rules for dating.....but Communication is key!!!!!!You should ask her what she wants and has time for.......

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 01/23/08 10:21 AM
Wait till your alone with her and look deep into her eyes and say...."Can you get me a glass so I can soak my teeth overnight please" If she gets you a glass your a couple, if she shows you to the door.....your not.

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Wed 01/23/08 10:22 AM
just buy her a ring!!!:wink: laugh laugh

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