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Topic: is it wrong?
Jill298's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:54 AM
To talk to more than one person online at a time?
I talked to a guy 3 or 4 times online and he got kinda mad when he asked how many other people I talk to.
I told him I get lots of emails from people and I chat with people, see how things go and I take it from there.
I said once I get to meet someone and things go well... I wouldn't be talking to other people except on a friends basis.
He got all pissy... did I miss something??

Gumbyvs's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:56 AM
You missed that he's retarded.

touchybear's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:56 AM
be careful...if that start that early...then is jealousy side issues are already showing.....DRAMA ........

CATBW56's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:56 AM
you have every right to talk to whom ever you want to....sounds like this guy has issuesgrumble

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:56 AM
Edited by Puffins1958 on Mon 02/25/08 08:57 AM
You can do as you please, it sounds like a controlling issue to me. Just how I see it....

flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:57 AM
Yes Jill, you missed his insecurities. lol j/k :wink:

Jill298's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:57 AM

You missed that he's retarded.
laugh laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:58 AM
It's just insecurity. Until there is a mutual agreement then you have done nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong with talking to people. But on the flip side...I know some people look at it as they are players or whatever. I know there are people online that just love the attention and talk to everyone. There is nothing wrong with that as long as they are up front about it. Doesn't sound like you have done anything wrong. Chin up

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:58 AM
I talk to many many many people! You should enjoy yourself at all times!

happy

Jill298's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:58 AM
I thought he shouldn't even be asking that question...

Gumbyvs's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:58 AM
I've talked to a select few on here on a regular basis, and I wouldn't give up their friendship for anything. So until someone says "Hey, you're great, let's be a couple", you should keep your options open, you never know what's around the corner.

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:59 AM
Everyone wants to feel "exclusive".
But until YOU make that decision for yourself.....it is ok to talk to whom ever you want.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/25/08 08:59 AM

I thought he shouldn't even be asking that question...


If there is no commitment...then no he really shouldn't be

no photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:00 AM
hmm he may be a bit controlling, Your not even dating, he should not expect you to not chat with others...heck, even if you were dating he should trust you to be able to chat with other guys.

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:00 AM
this is a friendship site as well as a dating site, ive met someone on here but ive made some great friends too...plus i dont like been told what to do lol

Jill298's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:01 AM


I thought he shouldn't even be asking that question...


If there is no commitment...then no he really shouldn't be
I haven't talked to him on the phone or anything... I have given no indication we are together.

Gumbyvs's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:01 AM

this is a friendship site as well as a dating site, ive met someone on here but ive made some great friends too...plus i dont like been told what to do lol


Yea, I see a lil Bobbit in you.

izzie's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:01 AM

You missed that he's retarded.
omg!!!!!!


morning gumby!!!



i agree tho... watch out.. until you are "together" officaly... flowerforyou flowerforyou

Enya's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:01 AM
POSSESIVE MAN!

oldsage's photo
Mon 02/25/08 09:01 AM
CONTROL issues.....HUGE RED FLAG

Some people can be so childish.

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