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Mon 03/16/09 02:09 AM
No, thought about it, but it just wouldn't work and I'd have to re-live all the pain again.

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Mon 03/16/09 02:08 AM

Sounds like you had someone who enjoyed the fantasy of love more than actually loving someone. Maybe it was just too big a step to come out in real life. Sorry it happen to you. Bet it hurts like he-l. Try to solace yourself that at least you were able to express love and when the right person comes along you will know you have the ability to love.

I think I would just chill for a few days and see if your love interest gets a grip on things. Such an about face is comman in people with manic depression. They are wildly romantic then with the same extream they abandon the relationship. Reversals can last a few days if they stay on or get back on their medication but you are getting a painful taste of a particularly cruel form of mental illness. You may decide that it really isn't worth the pain once the chock wears off.

I don't know if it will be a comfort or not but you are hardly the firat and I would guess are millions from the last of people that are hurt this way. My sympathies.


Ditto what Pacific says, darn fine advice.

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Mon 03/16/09 02:04 AM
This place IS open 24/7 isn't it? I just wanted some coffee, I'm new here.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:33 PM
Pushups daily, ride by bike a few times a week, jump rope here and there, Does sex count? If so, Im not getting any.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:24 PM
The gorgeous part is doubtful, but I'm checking in.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:22 PM
Good things: Not as stupid as I use to be, going for my RN after being an LPN for 6 years, Living where I've always wanted to live.

Sucky things: Never married (not a committment phobe), No kids secondary to....never married, Getting paranoid about EVER finding he right woman who doesn't have 50,000 lbs. of baggage from her past.

So, for me, there's good and bad in live at 40.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:17 PM
1. Clock out
2. See if the co-worker could go with me
3. If not, stay and talk to them and apologize for my growling stomach, lol.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:13 PM
Lilith401 is right, you got 7-9 good years left. Unfortunately, I'm in her RED FLAG zone.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:10 PM

They are all in the bathroom with swollen prostates trying to peelaugh

Or searching thru the medicine cabinet for their Viagra prescription


laugh Leave it to a nurse to describe the situation so well.

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Tue 03/10/09 07:09 PM

What happened to a good female in her 30's? I feel like I would have better luck looking for a yetti!


Freakin hilarious! and unfortunately true

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Tue 03/10/09 05:38 PM
Right here dude!

Sorry I didn't read this before I posted my own question.

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Tue 03/10/09 05:36 PM


you need to read it there are a few questions there just read


I did read it. I don't see any question marks. ohwell

I saw, "can you help me out some".

I asked, "How?"







Winx, stop. You are cracking me up.

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Tue 03/10/09 05:33 PM
Doesn't seem to be very many people from BI on these dating sites.

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Tue 03/10/09 05:29 PM
Monty Python - Holy Grail

"I will taunt you a 2nd time"

Pineapple Express

"This place smells like vomit"

Loved em both,couldn't stop laughing

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Tue 03/10/09 03:18 PM

aloha

yanno for years I thought "mahalo" meant trash

all the trash cans always have mahalo printed on them


Thats hilarious. I know its true.

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone.

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Tue 03/10/09 02:55 PM
Thanks FindMe, PatsFan, Gossipmpm for the warm welcome.

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Tue 03/10/09 02:48 PM
I live in Hawaii on the Big Island, just wanted to introduce myself and say hello to everyone.

"Hello everyone!"