Well is it?

First time? Devastated. rolling on the bed whole night and bawling: "Oh
Gawd!!!"
The other hundred times? "Oh! Well." And I will say to the other man:
"All the 'BREAST' to you, Sir!"

I am assuming that by the term 'BAD SITUATION' it means that the
person/persons have already reached the conclusion that the relationship
has broken down irretrievably. That they have tried everything possible
and it has now reached here.

then if it wasn't for the children, they would have gone a long time
ago?

Well I was in a situation where I was the one who was giving my female
toddler Church morals amidst television and internet contamination. I
was the one who really used to see that she ate; and try to get her to
eat; and wonder what will she eat today. I was the one who will unstick
myself from the bed when we are going to sleep and she says: "Daddy I am
hungry" She just realized that.

All this time and even BEFORE, her mother is with someone else on the
side and boldfaced with it. Every family party he is invited with rank.
He is the DJ but I am a musician with much more DJ knowledge than him.
She is passing our dwelling straight after work and go by him and coming
with some stupid excuse that she knows I aint believe. That no one will
believe.

When I realized she was pregnant and insistent one, I returned from a
break up, BECAUSE OF THE CHILD, vowing to shut my mouth.

Well I shut my mouth and walked around grieving for about ten years
while she walking around happy. To have sex I had to force to embrace
and get an erection. Until I decided to forget all the bad things and
think only of the good. Force my brain to block out what will interfere
with my drive. For the sake of the child who needed me.

In the Western World, when a break up occurs it is the man who gets
thrown out away from his kids. It is a long story.

The day I decided to talk, I got thrown out, even though my talking was
in defense of the said child from violence coming from the older
siblings that were not mine. And even though the child needed my
continued protection.

I was not allowed to see the child for eight months.

Anyway later there was a reconciliation for the sake of the child and I
did wish I could make it with this pretty woman.
Well she ended like limiting me to friending from afar. She will visit
me with the child from 100 miles away when she and the child is off like
weekends.

Well to cut a long story short, I will fast forward and say that she ups
and tells me one day, that if I go to a wedding in my area that she
promised to accompany me to, as she has changed her mind, she will call
off the relationship. So later out of the blues she tells me as I
visited the child there, she has met someone, so not to come inside
except I want to pee.
All for the sake of the child I took this.

Well somewhere if I rewind, I started to correspond with a foreigner on
the Net .... well that is another story not related to 'for the sake of
the child.

See if you can dedeuce what I am saying untill I return. I have to go
now. I am on the job.

I thought it was men who used to worry about that. Women just BAWL in
your ears a very resounding and resonant: "NO!!!!!!!!!?"

When exactly is it time for letting "GO"! ?????

When it seems like there is SURE to be a homicide.

When U are afraid to have sex for fear of a next STD.

When you are tired forcing to embrace.

When you're finished untieing yourselves from the bank commitments.

More to come later.

He hasn't even seen you either. I am only seeing a pic of U face and
some kids. So based on that pic of U face, he wants to move to U face?
He's probably living in that area already.

Getting first from women but if they take too long then I will have to.

Yes he might obtain one in a convent. Know of any?

Stay with the one you have already started a relationship with by having
had sex with him.

Why can't you call him on his job to find out at least why is he not
calling you and where you stand?

If no 1 feels you are seeing someone else he will be less motivated to
continue a relationship with you, especially since he hasn't yet fallen
so much in love with you that he cannot do without you; or where if you
separate, it will hurt too much. He might tell himself, "before he gets
hurt badly, better let her run to see where she is going.

You call him and let him know how serious you regard having had sex with
him and that you consider that act has put you together, or has STUCK
you two together; and that if you had looked through a mirror during the
act, you would have seen how you two were stuck together.