I had known him for several months, They don't meet my kids like in the first month or so i wait at least five before they meet them because i want to know if their for real.I can say this my kids are smart and they have learned to accept yes men will come and go in my life.They will be friends with a guy but they want let him in close to their heart till they know for sure.

To answer you thought here I'm not caving right now just taking sometime off to get myself back on track and come back better then ever.Also I didn't cave into my son when got home he found out who the boss was real quick and I put my foot down hard and I mean hard.he now knows who is running this house and my life.I made him realize he is the child and i'm the adult and if he couldn't handle it hit the road then.I have gained control back and it's my rules or the highway.

Sweety I'm sorry you had a bad day yesterday and I wish you well and I know how you feel in the hurt department I can truly understand and tomorrow we can discuss this else where you know where i mean hehe.Hugs for you smile now for me ok.Oh by the way what I'm going to be is witch haha i wear a mask all year long it never changes lol.

Hmmm I know I'm not in my 50"s yet but I hope there is because mine has gone through the roof lol.They say it slows down but mine hasn't hehe.

Single didn't work out.Dang can't find a man up for the challenge lol. I thought men loved challenges haha.

Thanks so much I would love to email you if you like you can contact me on here and send a mail through.I tried to email you but it wouldn't let me through.Take Care Cgirl777

Yes I have given up right now.I feel there isn't anyone who wants to date a woman with kids.They think it's to much drama and stress for them.I'm not here for my kids I'm here for me.So I'm single and not looking anymore.Just here for friends right now.

UPDATE: Hey Guys thanks for all the advice and i have called this guy and he responded today and he is calling it over.It hurts but I have made my decision to be single and stop looking.I feel right now there are no guys out there that want to be with a woman like me that has kids.It's to much drama and stress for them and I'm sorry if it is but I can't change that in my life right now.so I'm single and just looking for friends and if some guy wants to take the challenge just be honest with your self and me.maybe will see I'm not sure right now.Thanks again for all the help and advice.You guys have been great and awesome.

I have both Facebook and Myspace check it out sometime.

Thanks ----For the insecurity I have so many times tried to reassure both my boys they will always have me and I would always be there for them.That love will never leave no matter what they are my heart and forever and always will be in life no how old they get.I have reassured so much I don't know how to get through to him.I have taught them this is my priorities in life and always will be no matter what life brings---God,Whom ever comes into my life,My kids,Family,ect.I just wish he could learn to love and trust again.I have tried so much to teach him that but there times he turns away from me.I have also told him he would not lose me either that's something i can not do nor will ever do in life.

Only four----This guy was the fourth and maybe the last.I'm to point of just staying single till he{my son} leaves home in two years to go into the Marines.I'm the type I don't like stress and drama and I;m just one that will keep peace.I will give up all for my son just to keep peace even though it's going to hurt for along time.I guess I will get into my work more to keep my mind off things.

He is fifth teen and hasn't had anyone in his life since there father left about 7 years ago.See I'm not looking a daddy I'm looking a companion for me and if they want to be apart of there i'm ok with it as long as they treat them with respect.This guy did it all and respected my boys and me.

I need understanding on this I don't why my oldest is acting the way he is in this.I meet a awesome guy on here and the last two days were wonderful.He treated me with respect and honor and like a lady.He made dinner for us Friday night then took us to the fair and spent alot time with the boys.He showed love to me and the boys but my oldest pushed away and showed him self now my youngest son is hurt and so am I.I have been crying and hurt by this.This guy wanted to be a part of our lives and wanted to be apart of my sons.My oldest lashed out at him and told him not to come around any more.This really hurt the guy and he probably want come around any more.Why is my oldest pushing away every guy that comes into my life?It's like he dosen't want me to find happiness.Please help!!!!!

Good Morning To all I have the coffee ready ,anyone want to join me?Lol Have A Great Weekend to all on here.Stay Blessed.

Taken and he has stolen my heart and proposed and I said yes.

Wow Love this it speaks truth and love.

You are in my prayers,Stay Blessed

Welcome if you like I have a site I can give you that let's you know if they are a scammer or not.It's really helpful and I use it from time to time if I'm not sure.I have sent to a few other women that were not sure and they really loved this site because of the information it offered.You can email me on here and I will send it to you.To answer your question yes they are some that are real and I have made friends with quite a few on here and I truly love the friendship I have made with them.They are so awesome.Take care Stay Blessed and Have Fun.

As we say here in the south darling here is plenty more hugs---hug ya hug ya hug ya your sweet and an angel take care