I think had very good advice, too. It makes a lot of sense, but people are so superficial. I am plus sized myself, and it's really hard to find someone who is interested in dating a big girl. That's just the truth. I am trying hard to take better care of myself and lose the weight, and I think this might be good advice for you too. The kinds of men that like fat girls like me, from my experience, are NOT the kinds of men I am attracted to and I don't want to settle just because I'm big. Neither should you. Just keep working on yourself. Since you are larger, You should be able to lose weight A LOT faster than a skinny person can doing the same excercises. We just have more weight to lose. I am not trying to be negative or rude, because I am fat too and dealing with the same issues, we just have to face the truth and take better care of ourselves in order to get what we want. Good luck to you, and God bless.