and as for the grinch, who can seriously consider taking any advice from someone who won't post an honest pic. dude!

dude! don't give-up the fight. truth is truth, whether the masses want to hear it or not. let the chips fall where they may. YOU know what YOU wrote & what You meant. i've seen previous posting of yours & they're always well thought out & balanced. their problem, not yours.

indnprncs:i doubt you're older than me.

monier: i follow you. if the others who disagree, & it's their right, had actually read the entire piece instead of mentally highlighting key phrases that tripped their collective triggers, they would have seen it as fairly balanced. there's plenty of blame to go around for the current state of unrealistic expectations. playboy, playgirl, fhm, cosmo the list goes on. bottom line look for someone who can be reasonable. what i mean is, someone who willing to talk things out when, because our imperfections causes a rift, we can work it out. that's certainly what i'm looking for. it's my new mantra. someone who's reasonable.

you should ask!

like good sex from bad sex?

imagine that!! time to dump that chump. it appears this is going to be a habitual problem. unfortunately he's just 1 piece of the lake-erie-disaster-movie-in-the-making.

msmyka: see, in your case it would be different. somehow a person seems to act or carry themselves differently when they actually used their means to provide their bling.

i had a high maintenance woman. didn't fully realize 'til after tying the knot. don't to be in that quagmire again!!

tough 1 to call. thought we're not supposed to be judging & all. although myself, i look @ the overall presentation.

winx: you're welcome.

now you're hitting below the belt. & me w/o a cup. man! it's gonna be a long ugly summer.

winx: sometimes it happens because of your pop-up blocker thinks it's an invalid program or advertiser try to spam or infect you. sometimes the systems, your internet provider or the sender's server just hiccup's. if it's constantly a prob have someone who is knowledgeable checkout your internet connection & setup in your computer.

if you really want to generate some sympathy, you should have mentioned that 20yrs ago it was much worse!

for those who don't know, solon is a very nice suburb of cleveland. but the dt pics those r real. being an indians fan i've there a number of times.

hockey: thanks. what team do you follow?

solitary: thanks for the info & invite.

metalwing: your thread was the one I was commenting about. LOL. OMG was that ever funny.

hey, thanks

Hello everyone. I wanted introduce myself & look forward to making some new friends. I had a chance checkout some of the chat threads & found some hilarious posts.