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Fri 05/22/09 10:42 AM


How long should a person wait before meeting someone face to face. If living in same province, or few minutes away. Shouldn't you chat and get to know each other for awhile first or is it something that should be done right away in a public place and get any questions of attraction out of the way?


I think every situation is different, and a "general rule" would probably just mess things up the way most "general rules" tend to do.

I will say this -- I once met someone from a dating site two weeks after we first started communicating. That one turned out to be an arsonist, and she did NOT provide that information anywhere in her profile or in any of her pre-face-to-face comminications.

So, I have waited anywhere from two weeks to almost a year to meet someone in person. It hasn't made any difference in the outcomes of the relationships. But if I ever decided to meet someone from a dating site again, I would take my time.



I hear that loud and clear, thanks

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Fri 05/22/09 08:53 AM
I wish I never put that down. Is there a way to delete posts you put up.rofl

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Fri 05/22/09 08:51 AM
your welcome. drinker

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Fri 05/22/09 08:46 AM
I have only been here for two days and find it very friendly and fun. I am sure you will feel right at ease. Good luck finding that special someone.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:41 AM

shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared !How do you want your steak ?bigsmile


I like my steak medium well thanks. Nice profile you have .

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Fri 05/22/09 08:23 AM





I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile
sounds nice, going to check out your profile, :laughing:


Pfffffffffffffft! tongue2
What kind of attitude is that ?Geez I got the fire pit ready and the steaks marinateting .Beer is on ice too !

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Fri 05/22/09 08:20 AM


I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Thanks, I refuse to be rushed. And will be very Public when I am ready.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:18 AM

don't even meet them at all, they are all completely mad! scared

thats what i am afraid of surprised

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Fri 05/22/09 08:15 AM



I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile
:laughing:

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Fri 05/22/09 07:45 AM

I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.


That is exactly how I feel, am glad my head is not in the wrong track. Thanks

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Fri 05/22/09 07:36 AM
How long should a person wait before meeting someone face to face. If living in same province, or few minutes away. Shouldn't you chat and get to know each other for awhile first or is it something that should be done right away in a public place and get any questions of attraction out of the way?

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Fri 05/22/09 07:29 AM
laugh

whoa Geez, it's all about youwhoa

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Fri 05/22/09 07:19 AM
Hi, looking for a nice man to chat with and to get to know from the NB area.

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Fri 05/22/09 07:14 AM
I think its sexy, manly. I like the feel of skin too though so not sure how I would feel if a mans chest was too hairy and my figers just went through hair and not feel skin. Not sure because I never experienced it. A realistic amount of chest hair is very sexy I find.

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Thu 05/21/09 09:38 AM
wow, an hour, that was fast. Wish you the best of luck. Thanks for the advice.

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Wed 05/20/09 06:46 PM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Wed 05/20/09 06:32 PM
Yes there are hotties here and yes they are young though I have seen a few hotties my age.

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Wed 05/20/09 05:44 PM
wow, thank you all very much. Was not expecting a response at all. I look forward to getting to know people. I guess I should put a picture on my profile.

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Wed 05/20/09 05:31 PM
First time on any kind of site like this. Definately different. Hoping for sincere responses. No head games or rudeness. Yikes, this is a little scary. Looking forward to being part of this community. Please don't make me regret this. surprised