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Topic: Is there a general rule?
peace_ful's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:36 AM
How long should a person wait before meeting someone face to face. If living in same province, or few minutes away. Shouldn't you chat and get to know each other for awhile first or is it something that should be done right away in a public place and get any questions of attraction out of the way?

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:38 AM
Just do it. Get it over with and then you won't have to worry about it.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:38 AM
I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.

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Fri 05/22/09 07:41 AM
don't even meet them at all, they are all completely mad! scared

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Fri 05/22/09 07:41 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Fri 05/22/09 07:42 AM
Till, one of us, buys the Trump Plane.surprised rofl

jk...I do agree,I would want to talk alot first,to make sure,i was comfortable, with meeting.flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Fri 05/22/09 07:45 AM

I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.


That is exactly how I feel, am glad my head is not in the wrong track. Thanks

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Fri 05/22/09 07:52 AM

I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!

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Fri 05/22/09 08:00 AM


I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 05/22/09 08:03 AM
I say.....You can't judge a person by their font.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:05 AM



I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile



Pfffffffffffffft! tongue2

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Fri 05/22/09 08:07 AM
It should be whatever you feel comfortable with.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:09 AM
hey hey phuque, i actually got a mutal match on here - he don't wanna answer me tho frown

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Fri 05/22/09 08:15 AM



I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile
:laughing:

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Fri 05/22/09 08:15 AM
Edited by STARTRAVELER on Fri 05/22/09 08:17 AM




I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile



Pfffffffffffffft! tongue2
What kind of attitude is that ?Geez I got the fire pit ready and the steaks marinateting .Beer is on ice too !

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Fri 05/22/09 08:16 AM

hey hey phuque, i actually got a mutal match on here - he don't wanna answer me tho frown



Contact PATS...I'm sure he'll get right on it! :wink:

peace_ful's photo
Fri 05/22/09 08:18 AM

don't even meet them at all, they are all completely mad! scared

thats what i am afraid of surprised

peace_ful's photo
Fri 05/22/09 08:20 AM


I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Thanks, I refuse to be rushed. And will be very Public when I am ready.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:23 AM





I like to take time getting to know someone as much as I can before meeting, that way the first date you will feel comfortable with more to talk about because you will be familiar with each other or after awhile of talking you may decide you don't want to meet them at all.



Yep! I agree! The few times I allowed myself to be rushed into a first meeting ALWAYS turned out to be a disaster! I usually email for a week or so, then if I'm comfortable enough, move it on to phone convos for at least a week...then a meeting...IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
Yak , Yak , Yak too much talk just get here !bigsmile
sounds nice, going to check out your profile, :laughing:


Pfffffffffffffft! tongue2
What kind of attitude is that ?Geez I got the fire pit ready and the steaks marinateting .Beer is on ice too !

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Fri 05/22/09 08:37 AM
shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared !How do you want your steak ?bigsmile

peace_ful's photo
Fri 05/22/09 08:41 AM

shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared shocked scared !How do you want your steak ?bigsmile


I like my steak medium well thanks. Nice profile you have .

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