I've been there for a very long time.

My spirit is willing but my body isn't.
I'm barely healthy enough to sit at the computer sometimes.
Not by choice.

I have days when I am feeling ready to do some amazing things.
On those days, I sit and think if there were only someone in my life to do these things with.

Problem is I am homebound most of the time.
While I am not really bored, its not exciting enough to warrant company.

I think that if I found a woman that could be interested in the 'down time' the things we could do during the 'up times' would be wonderful and fun.

I can't take the heat in the summer or the cold in the winter.
I have to wait till the sun goes down to do outside things right now. In the winter, I have to do indoor activities.

Spring and fall are the best for me. Its difficult to find a woman that can understand. I'm not saying they don't exist, I just haven't met any yet.

see people drift into one of two camps as they hit mid-life

1. no man's land or I am an island unto myself
2. grab while the gettings good


I dunno call the what you like

the first one is for the ones who have stopped trying
or have standards so high no one can meet them or
they have convinced themselves that this 'perfect' person does not exist

the second camp are the ones that jump in at a moment's notice, at every wink or flirt they are on it man..and convince themselves they have found their soulmate or they convince themselves that this person is good enough


of course those are the two extremes
many fall somewhere in between

What does being undateable mean max?

Does it mean you cant find anyone compatible that you would like to date ?

HONESTY,that is all it takes to keep me for a lifetime.

if throwback thursdays are free im signing up for a group consult doc Max

Voila! Mingle abounds with clients, here's your first one!
Send her your calling card, ask for her phone number, email, Skype, Kik, and tell her you want to get in touch. Oh, and don't forget to ask her to send you money. You don't want to start sessions until payment has been made.
She may think you're a scammer, so you might have to convince her of your sincerity. Maybe sending a picture would help? Grin.

Hmm... you might want to do some counselling to find out why you cannot love.

Don't worry, Max... great sex was on the list too