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Nobody is stopping you..

You would love and be loved it's a matter of time

Hmm

Friendzoned huh....prolly, coz I like the bad ones I guess...and take the good one's for granted~

Hmm... you might want to do some counselling to find out why you cannot love.

And I just got my counselors license too.

I'm guessing that you are frustrated that someone who you appreciate for how good they are to you, just doesn't turn you on as you need them to, in order to feel you love them. That, or you are trying to say that you have been unlucky in love, having fallen again and again for people who were NOT nice to you.

In either case, no one can DECIDE to love someone. You can only decide how you are going to comport yourself, how you will behave from one moment to the next with them. Whether love blooms within you or them or not, isn't up to either of you.

If you are finding that you fall for the "wrong kind of people," the way to work on that, is self knowledge. Figure out what it is about someone who IS bad for you, that you find so desirable. There is usually some confusion in your inner thoughts, such that you are mixing up things like decisiveness with selfishness, or strength with casual violence.

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mmmmm could be love is not actually a transaction
goods/services in exchange for love

Wouldn't that extrapolate into prostitution?

Maybe you need to find out who you are and what you want.
Then you will know what type of person you want.

Because we cannot force our hearts to love , we just feel it. No matter how good the person is, it is difficult to teach our heart and if ever you will learn to love someone, sometimes it takes longer to realize the feeling. It took me 5 years to realize I was in love with my first boyfriend, he was so good to me and he became my good friend first before he became my boyfriend. I also had a good friend who courted me but I didn't feel anything for him, so instead I did a match making and found him a date, tried to introduce him to my female friend and I am so glad they are into a relationship now. We may not be able to romantically love someone so good to us and have a relationship with them but we can just love them as a friend. When the feeling is right, you will just feel that with the right person.

There are many situations that confirm that love is more important than anything else..