Joined Mon 03/28/16
Yours is an interesting question and important; definitely worth considering.
My aims are defined and settled.
After two women I loved ran off with other men, I determined to find the way to be a one woman man with a one man woman. It hasn't been easy, but it has worked.
I am certain of Concrete Moral Values - meaning some things are always right, and some things are always wrong, regardless of whether or not they are popular.
A good and healthy relationship is based on Covenant rather than Contract.
Contract has an escape clause, allowing and expecting failure.
Covenant says; We know there will be problems, but we will work together to overcome them. We are an inseparable team. We will learn to communicate through think and thin, just as we promised in our vows. We will overcome all odds, we will be patient and forgiving knowing neither of us are perfect.
The key to it all is Faith in God the Creator.
To those who don't believe, go your own way and don't trouble those of us who do. We mean you no harm.