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Wed 03/21/12 06:07 PM
http://www.orlandosentinel.com/news/blogs/beth-kassab/os-trayvon-martin-sg-20120315,0,3117109.special



if anyone can look at those two pictures and tell me the man with the gun had a reasonable expectation that the kid without one could kill him in a physical fight,,,,

I dont know what else to say,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 01:30 PM

cheating is doing something that you would not do if your significant other was there.


this is a good standard,, my past (very very past) relations could easily have watched porn in front of me,,,maybe thats why it doesnt seem like cheating to me

sleeping with someone else though, except in a 'swinger' lifestyle, is unacceptable

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Wed 03/21/12 12:55 PM
Let me ask you a question real quick. What do you think would have been the public response if Martin had wrestled the gun away and shot Zimmerman?

Let me also ask you to pretend for a moment you believe Zimmerman's account, that he got out of his car at a cross street to get the info on his where about to inform police, and the teen approaches him, they exchange a few words and the teen attacks him, knocks him to the ground, and proceeds to beat on him for minutes before the gun came into the situation. (Does this change anything in your opinion?)



if he had shot Zimmerman, he would be charged with murder

unless he made a claim that the gun (introduced by Zimmerman) went off during the scuffle, which is also possible

(barring Zimmermans words afterwords saying he shot the boy)



if the teen attacked him, in Florida, it might be justified if he could convince people he felt 'threatened' , he would have the right to 'stand his ground' instead of look for a retreat,,,


he could also claim temporary insanity on account of being confronted in the dark of night by a grown man who had previously left his vehicle to follow him,,,

thats whats wrong with stand your ground , in this scenario, both people would be in the right, and one would lose their life unnecessarily because of the ease and access there was to a gun,,,


I think the law should expect a person to retreat, if possible, before using deadly force in situations of imminent fatal harm,, Florida law doesnt mandate it though,,,


I dont want to live in a place where people cant even 'fight' anymore without it being justification for taking a life in 'defense'

and these things are exactly the reason why it bothers and disgusts me,,,

overzealous, overparanoid people overreact, and when they overreact with easy access to a gun , otherwise 'law abiding' citizens end up taking the life of other 'law abiding' citizens,,,,its senseless

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Wed 03/21/12 12:46 PM
You know, if it is true that Martin was on top of Zimmerman, beating on him with Zimmerman using his arms to protect his face, that is not a depiction of a boy trying to defend himself.

Sorry.



... SORRY, but if the boy is aware the man has a GUN, and is trying to get the upper hand to keep him from getting to it,,,

its still self defense,,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 12:45 PM



Well hear in Northeast ohio a few miles from chardon things are finaly settling down a bit. The red and black plastic ribbons (Chardons school colors) are all fadeing and tearing away from werever some kind hearted soul thought to put them thinking they would do some good. The future remains bleak for most american kids. Hug them if you got em.


amen, and dont let them walk alone at night if they live in Florida or Texas...
As soon as they are 21, arm them, train them, and pass Campus Carry.

In Most states at age 18 you can open carry a firearm as long as you have obtained it legally.



thats ok. I am raising my children to value human life, even others....

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Wed 03/21/12 12:44 PM


or she will restructure and continue being successful

and probably never having to file bankruptcy to do it,,,,

even people that dont concur with your political choices deserve to be compensated for hard work,,,,





Hard work? Sitting on a couch talking to someone is hard work now? noway

Not to mention she hasn't been successful with this OWN flop, and it wont be successful.

Plus she definately hurt her career supporting the campaigner in chief.



yeah, producing television shows is just 'sitting on a couch talking to someone'....lol

OWN is still young and its success is yet to be determined

she didnt hurt her career supporting OBAma, he won in november 2008, she continued to be successful with the Oprah show until october of 2011, still ahead of all other day time talk show ratings,,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 07:49 AM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 03/21/12 07:50 AM


what if conflict follows and confronts you after you have TRIED to avoid it....what then?

what if the man had gotten shot? would he not be responsible by his reckless choice to follow someone in the rain at night who was a hundred pounds lighter than him and walking AWAY from him?

he was reckless, should have left it to the cops, and instead tried to play cop which ended in a child dead,,,,


I am not going to speculate. Its my opinion that speculating without all the facts leads to these emotional displays which we see in the media, which sadly prevent a fair trial and subvert the system in favor of emotional justice.

His story which so far has been corroborated is that he did not confront the teen, he was attacked, which matches the physical evidence, and that he cried for help for nearly a minute and continued to be beaten, then shot after a struggle for the gun ensued.

I am sorry msharmony, I can tell how much you want this to be in favor of the teen, but unless evidence surfaces that contradicts these events then prosecution will have a hard time convicting. (Also its election year for officials, so you can bet this wont be settled until October at the very least)

No amount of him walking the neighborhood was illegal, no amount of him asking the teen a question is illegal. Nothing he did so far (as the evidence can show), was illegal, the shooting itself was legal based on the current set of evidence. If more evidence is available that we do not have, it would seem to favor Zimmerman, or else Id imagine he would be arrested.

That he had wounds to his nose, and the back of his head and grass stains on his back indicate he was in a defensive position on his back on the ground being beaten on. You do not attack someone from your back on the ground.

If the 911 tapes can be used to determine if the screaming was not in fact his (Zimmermans) that might be a way to call into question the events as depicted by Zimmerman.

Lets hope some audio wizardry can parse the vocal range and distinguish between the two.

I do not know the contents of the call to the girl friend, does anyone know if that was recorded?

(Also everyone keeps talking about the weight difference, the teen was 6'3 140 lbs of pure muscle, he was an athlete and football players, fully capable with good leverage with that height. Do we know Zimmermans physical characteristics? I heard somewhere he was 220, but looks fat, short, and out of shape in his pics. To my knowledge the teen had no marks on his body indicating taking blows in a fight, this may indicate that Zimmerman did not fight back at all.)



still sucks, that a grown up with a gun can possibly scare a teenager to the point of defending himself to get away and then claim self defense if he happens to shoot that teen dead after losing the confrontation, unless someone has 'recorded' the actual incident as it happened


there would be no information regarding the childs wounds as he is DEAD, and considering how little it took for them to try to wrap the case up initially, I doubt anyone took time to try ot check or that enough time had passed for them to know

, an autopsy would have to settle that question


so kids, if an adult approaches you with a gun, let them beat you up , dont dare get the best of them cause if they shoot you (especially if they screamed like a girl while you were beating them), you are up the creek because you kicked their behind before they did it and therefore gave them a 'self defense' defense,,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 07:45 AM


what if conflict follows and confronts you after you have TRIED to avoid it....what then?

what if the man had gotten shot? would he not be responsible by his reckless choice to follow someone in the rain at night who was a hundred pounds lighter than him and walking AWAY from him?

he was reckless, should have left it to the cops, and instead tried to play cop which ended in a child dead,,,,


I am not going to speculate. Its my opinion that speculating without all the facts leads to these emotional displays which we see in the media, which sadly prevent a fair trial and subvert the system in favor of emotional justice.

His story which so far has been corroborated is that he did not confront the teen, he was attacked, which matches the physical evidence, and that he cried for help for nearly a minute and continued to be beaten, then shot after a struggle for the gun ensued.

I am sorry msharmony, I can tell how much you want this to be in favor of the teen, but unless evidence surfaces that contradicts these events then prosecution will have a hard time convicting. (Also its election year for officials, so you can bet this wont be settled until October at the very least)

No amount of him walking the neighborhood was illegal, no amount of him asking the teen a question is illegal. Nothing he did so far (as the evidence can show), was illegal, the shooting itself was legal based on the current set of evidence. If more evidence is available that we do not have, it would seem to favor Zimmerman, or else Id imagine he would be arrested.

That he had wounds to his nose, and the back of his head and grass stains on his back indicate he was in a defensive position on his back on the ground being beaten on. You do not attack someone from your back on the ground.

If the 911 tapes can be used to determine if the screaming was not in fact his (Zimmermans) that might be a way to call into question the events as depicted by Zimmerman.

Lets hope some audio wizardry can parse the vocal range and distinguish between the two.

I do not know the contents of the call to the girl friend, does anyone know if that was recorded?

(Also everyone keeps talking about the weight difference, the teen was 6'3 140 lbs of pure muscle, he was an athlete and football players, fully capable with good leverage with that height. Do we know Zimmermans physical characteristics? I heard somewhere he was 220, but looks fat and out of shape. To my knowledge the teen had no marks on his body indicating taking blows in a fight, this may indicate that Zimmerman did not fight back at all.)


how was his story about not confronting the teen 'corroborated'

because people saw them fighting and at some point he was losing?

that doesnt prove he didnt initiate the threat or confront the teen,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 07:11 AM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 03/21/12 07:13 AM
I think you can fall in love with someone you have never seen , or else blind people would be up the creek

I dont think you can fall in love with someone that you have not interacted with outside of a computer screen though,,

I think it takes that personal interaction over time and over various circumstances and in various environments, to truly know someone enough to really fall for who they are,, as opposed to falling for what they write,,,

the computer screen only gives us a very one dimensional access to
'knowing' someone,,,its not personal enough (in my opinion) to develop real intimacy or love on its own


if you have interacted with someone personally who lives overseas, quite possible you fell in love

if you have only typed on a screen to someone overseas, its quite possible you fell for the image your mind has created of them based upon what you read,,,

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Wed 03/21/12 07:09 AM
good, better, best

are we speaking an ABSOLUTE or a GENERAL


people can be the best, (absolute, compared to others) and still have room to improve


people can be THEIR personal best (general), and that doesnt leave room to improve

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Wed 03/21/12 07:06 AM
Do you feel your mother knows thereal you?


not understanding what that would have to do with narcissism, is there some reason a mother shouldnt know their child?

my mom is the person I feel probably knows me best, so it would apply to our relationship,,,,


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Wed 03/21/12 01:24 AM

Well hear in Northeast ohio a few miles from chardon things are finaly settling down a bit. The red and black plastic ribbons (Chardons school colors) are all fadeing and tearing away from werever some kind hearted soul thought to put them thinking they would do some good. The future remains bleak for most american kids. Hug them if you got em.


amen, and dont let them walk alone at night if they live in Florida or Texas...

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Wed 03/21/12 01:11 AM
what if conflict follows and confronts you after you have TRIED to avoid it....what then?

what if the man had gotten shot? would he not be responsible by his reckless choice to follow someone in the rain at night who was a hundred pounds lighter than him and walking AWAY from him?

he was reckless, should have left it to the cops, and instead tried to play cop which ended in a child dead,,,,


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Wed 03/21/12 01:00 AM


is the vote something people must pay for now?

why should income change the right to vote?


I have an answer, why not treat voting in government like voting in a corporation. The more you pay in taxes is like the more stocks you own. The more you have invested the more you have to say about what is done. That sounds fair. Shouldn't the person who pays 10,000 in taxes have more a say in how those tax dollars are spent than the person who pays 1000? :banana:


in a word, no

taxes are based upon income, income is no indicator of worth as a citizen and should be used to rank citizens in such a way

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Tue 03/20/12 04:27 PM

it should have been at the worst a scuffle
msharmony please make sure to tell your kids about my three rules. Better yet print it out, and make sure they understand what rule two really means more than any other.

Scuffles are all well and good in play grounds, but in the real world they are unacceptably dangerous.

A person can get you into a compromising position and choke the life out of you, sometimes even on accident, during a scuffle.

The only way to take control of such a scuffle when you are being overpowered is to use deadly force. (When the SCOTUS agrees you have the right in such a scenario to defend using deadly force you must learn this and act accordingly even if you disagree with it)

Scuffles are unacceptably dangerous

Maybe that will be rule #4


http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-57366771-504083/cops-man-65-shoots-teens-who-pushed-him-off-bike-kills-one/
Another example of a justified shooting, where if the kids had followed my rules no one would have died.



your odds against dying from strangulation during a 'scuffle' (Which takes physical effort) are much much different than those from a bullet (which takes very little force or effort)

you have a MUCH better chance of walking away from a scuffle than from a BULLET

I will NEVER teach my kids to kill people they get in fights with, and if that person has a 'weapon' that can kill them, they need to use that same 'weapon'

ie, a threatening hand deserves a t hreatening hand ,, not a HAND GUN

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Tue 03/20/12 04:21 PM





do you think if he would have reported to the police and not confronted the kid that the kid would still be alive?
We do not know who confronted who. So that is an element which must be answered to answer this question.

Feelings have no bearing on the facts. You hear a 911 tape and think oh yea this guy confronted the other one, you dont know that.

Knowing that takes more. This is what is called circumstantial evidence.

I want to know more before judging the events of that night.


i thought we knew that.. he was following the kid, not the other way around...all he had to do is follow the kid till the police got there, it was not his job to detain or harass the boy, just watch him till the police got there. you cannot detain someone that has not broken any laws... what law did the kid break again?
Where are the facts that show he confronted Martin?
It is just as likely that Martin recognized him from being followed earlier and decided to confront Zimmerman.

Please let me know if you have additional facts.


but what if he did?

you seriously consider that a man 200+ pounds could make a kid 140 pounds feel threatened enough to run when he followed him?

but felt his life in danger when confronted by this same kid?


it just doesnt add up billy, no matter how diplomatic or reserved a judgment one tries to have,,,
Of course it doesn't add up, you dont have all the facts.

It doesn't add up for me either, all the more reason to not take sides when all the facts are not available.

If you rule out conspiracy, and racism then we must all assume the PA is withholding indictment for good reasons.

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Complete side bar here for me. (regardless of outcome these are words of wisdom for everyone)

Rule #1
--Treat others as you would like to be treated.

Rule #2
--Never mess with anyone, you dont know them, treat everyone as if they are armed and dangerous, becuase they could be.

Rule #3
--Record anything and everything anytime you get those bad suspicious feelings about something.

This may seem paranoid, but if you follow these three rules you will be able to navigate life and remain justified in your own actions.

These three rules make me a pacifist for all intents and purposes. I want no one to harm me, so I cannot harm anyone else. If I treat every person with the respect due to an armed and highly capable person I will never underestimate them and find myself in a situation of my own creation that I cannot handle and was not prepared for.

If Both parties had called the police, and REMAINED on the line, or continued to record using a personal device then we the people who are trying to judge the situation would not be so want to imagine what we want to imagine in coming up with the events that surround this tragedy.




good advice

with the exception that its probably best for witnesses to record, because 'devices' can be destroyed in a physical altercation,,,

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Tue 03/20/12 04:19 PM
never quite got that either

I mean, I get that some people are shallow or hypocritical jerks
excluding people for superficial things like race, or ethnicity, etc,,,,

but who would want to be with those people so much that theyd be offended when those people didnt want them


sometimes a preference is just a preference, and I Think everyone has them,

but sometimes 'mandates' cause a feeling of being superior/inferior to someone else, which few people like to feel


if we try to look at it that everyone is not a good match for everyone else,, it works a bit easier


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Tue 03/20/12 04:11 PM





do you think if he would have reported to the police and not confronted the kid that the kid would still be alive?
We do not know who confronted who. So that is an element which must be answered to answer this question.

Feelings have no bearing on the facts. You hear a 911 tape and think oh yea this guy confronted the other one, you dont know that.

Knowing that takes more. This is what is called circumstantial evidence.

I want to know more before judging the events of that night.


i thought we knew that.. he was following the kid, not the other way around...all he had to do is follow the kid till the police got there, it was not his job to detain or harass the boy, just watch him till the police got there. you cannot detain someone that has not broken any laws... what law did the kid break again?
Where are the facts that show he confronted Martin?
It is just as likely that Martin recognized him from being followed earlier and decided to confront Zimmerman.

Please let me know if you have additional facts.


but what if he did?

you seriously consider that a man 200+ pounds could make a kid 140 pounds feel threatened enough to run when he followed him?

but felt his life in danger when confronted by this same kid?


it just doesnt add up billy, no matter how diplomatic or reserved a judgment one tries to have,,,
Of course it doesn't add up, you dont have all the facts.

It doesn't add up for me either, all the more reason to not take sides when all the facts are not available.

If you rule out conspiracy, and racism then we must all assume the PA is withholding indictment for good reasons.






ok, we will assume, (this time), that the police and DA .. DO their job well,,,(unless you are a potential victim and then you have to defend yourself because they suck so much),

and Im assuming that an endictment will come shortly,,,,

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Tue 03/20/12 04:02 PM
Edited by msharmony on Tue 03/20/12 04:08 PM



do you think if he would have reported to the police and not confronted the kid that the kid would still be alive?
We do not know who confronted who. So that is an element which must be answered to answer this question.

Feelings have no bearing on the facts. You hear a 911 tape and think oh yea this guy confronted the other one, you dont know that.

Knowing that takes more. This is what is called circumstantial evidence.

I want to know more before judging the events of that night.


i thought we knew that.. he was following the kid, not the other way around...all he had to do is follow the kid till the police got there, it was not his job to detain or harass the boy, just watch him till the police got there. you cannot detain someone that has not broken any laws... what law did the kid break again?
Where are the facts that show he confronted Martin?
It is just as likely that Martin recognized him from being followed earlier and decided to confront Zimmerman.

Please let me know if you have additional facts.



but how do you 'know'

at this point, people are going to either say what they saw or what they heard and how do you 'know' they are right or honest either....?


we have a girl who says she was on the phone with him and thats verified by the times on his call log,, that doesnt prove she had the conversation she said she had though,,,,

so what would make us 'know' which witnesses, accounts are actually true and accurate?

dont we usually put the onus of responsibility on adults in situations where there is an adult and a child?

if the adult was in the safety of his car and told not to pursue the boy, wouldnt the responsible thing be to sit in his car by the mailboxes until police arrived , he was the ADULT

he shot and killed a KID after the KID got the upperhand on him in a scuffle (fist fight)

Im judging that hasty and irresponsible decisions on this ADULTS part led to this childs death,,,and there should be some accountability for it,,,,
Too much speculation without facts.

We need facts msharmony. You are speculating on how it went down.

To convict you need evidence that amounts to BEYOND A SHADOW OF DOUBT.

You are filling in the details with no regard to the facts on the ground, which currently only the authorities have available.

In this forum all you are doing is showing you cannot be an unbiased commentator on this subject.

I understand the emotional responses from the family, but as someone who works in law you should try to remain unbiased.



I am not disregarding the facts. I heard with my own ears the mentality of this man on the phone. He saw this boy as a suspect and did not want him to get away. He had the mentality of a 'predator' wanting an ahole to be captured.

I cant be unbiased about what I heard. It seems plain as day to me.

Even if it had went down that this boy caught him off guard, it wouldnt matter to me. He set that in motion by getting out of his car to follow this boy at night, in the rain, in the dark

I told my children their whole life to be suspicious themself of JUST THAT TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

it should have been at the worst a scuffle, the child ending up shot dead is unfathomable, tragic, and a desperately unnecessary end to this story.

I dont think his story will hold water, unless the boy decided to try continuing his conversation on the phone while he 'snuck up' on the man,,,,which is sort of a ridiculous and slim possibility...

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Tue 03/20/12 03:58 PM
I suppose all that coward in the park had to do the day he tried to rape me was shoot me and claim self defense.

AFter all, I could have confronted him after being aggravated that he followed me into the woods,,,and the moment I got the better of him he could have felt his life was legitimately threatened,,,,,


amazing,,,

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