Topic:
Question For the Girls
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Why is it that when a man treats a girl right (opening there car doors, pay for everything, loves with all there is to love) they walk all over them but when the guy abuses the woman they stay true to them? i have been told that i was to good to be true and had my heart broke to many times because i am to nice. can you please tell me what i do wrong and why yall do that? my first guess is they broke your heart because something is wrong with them or because you werent well matched not merely because you are a nice guy a good place to start is being honest about not just about what you can offer them but what you want in return if there is plenty of communication of those two ideas, it should be much easier to find a 'match' who wont break your heart,,,,but these days people are playing the 'dating game' so its hard to know what the truth is,,,, |
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Topic:
fathers.
Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 03/08/12 06:46 PM
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the 'average' male sperm donor is more a paycheck than a father,,,rather inside the home or not,,,but especially outside the home
when they can be made to send financial support |
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when they get personal,, they lost
just saying... |
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trust, by the time they are done with him he will be an america hating, socialist, racist pig,,,, no matter his accomplishments coming up in the segregated and racist times that he did ![]() ![]() ![]() Actually he has already been proven to be close friends with terrorists, radicals, known racists and extremests and socialists. apparently not 'close' enough to have harmed him a video introducing someone for three minutes, does not a radical make,, especially when that someone is a PROFESSOR at the school you are attending,,, |
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Sean Hannity and Fox News who watches this garbage. Derrick Bell is a man who made a difference in the world. Look at all the people there. Your right it is garbage Obama is good friends with radicals and terrorists. Obviously it will hurt their campaign or they wouldn't have fought to keep it hidden for the past 7 years and tried to keep it hidden through this campaign. it wont hurt his campaign in terms of anyone that was serious about voting for him first, because all the video shows is him INTRODUCING a speaker at a rally about diversity (oh the horror!)...lol and second, because it was part of his COLLEGE experience, over TWENTY YEARS Ago,,, but they can keep trying, they DID eventually get Clinton for lying about a blow job,,,,when everything else was failing maybe if they cant PROVE OBama is muslim, or not really natural born, they can sway people to believe he has RADICAL friends because he introduced a HARVARD professor while attending HARVARD,,,, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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First it was the highest gas prices ever recorded in February. Unemployment going back to 9.1% Now.. The highest ever monthly deficit in American history.. I hope all you Obamaites keep thinking he is gonna win easily in November.. Govt. sets record deficit in February The federal government recorded its worst monthly deficit in history in February, according to a preliminary report Wednesday from the Congressional Budget Office that said the deficit in fiscal year 2012 is already more than half a trillion dollars. The CBO’s figures show that despite repeated efforts to trim spending, the government has borrowed 42 cents of every dollar it spent during the first five months of this fiscal year. The nonpartisan agency projected the government will run a deficit of $229 billion in February, the highest monthly figure ever. The previous high was $223 billion a year ago, in February 2011. It is the 41st straight month the government has run a deficit — itself a record streak that dates back to the final months of President George W. Bush’s tenure. BEFORE NOW, THE LONGEST STREAK ON RECORD WAS 11 MONTHS. http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2012/mar/8/govt-sets-record-deficit-february/ numbers can show many things the numbers are high, the context can be diverse as can the implications 229 billion is the highest NUMBER, but things cost more in context, as a portion of the GDP, its not close to the highest deficit IF the last time we had a 'surplus' was in 2000, how could we have only had 41 months of deficit since then...? a vote for Obama is a vote against Crazy,, thats one way he could potentially win 'easily'.... |
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trust, by the time they are done with him
he will be an america hating, socialist, racist pig,,,, no matter his accomplishments coming up in the segregated and racist times that he did ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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How high is intelligence on your list of qualities? Let's say you meet a thoughtful, caring person but they don't understand what you consider simple words and phrases. When you are looking for a teamplayer.... does intelligence matter? at this point, Im 42 with a college student and a preschooler,, we have to be on a similar intellectual page so,, it matters,,, |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 03/08/12 04:38 PM
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WOW, even in his college days he was an excellent speaker.
lol, its sure election year How weak...lol OBAMA 2012! |
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Topic:
the death penalty
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Colo. Authorities: Deceased serial killer Vincent Groves may have had up to 20 victims from 1970s - '80s.. Deceased serial killer Vincent Groves has now been linked to the deaths of four more women between 1979 and 1988. He may have been responsible for as many as 20 homicides, authorities said Wednesday. Groves was originally convicted of second-degree murder in 1982 for killing 17-year-old Tammy Sue Woodrum and was released in 1987 on mandatory parole. http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-57392487-504083/colo-authorities-deceased-serial-killer-vincent-groves-may-have-had-up-to-20-victims-from-1970s-80s/ Guess this guy didn't get the rehab he needed.. first, I think the justice system is the best we have right now but could be much better second, ID like to comment that the justice system itself has some corrupt and dishonest and egocentric people, that when they think they are right about a 'suspect',, thats it and there is no other focus It seems to be motivating many judges and district attorneys to 'win cases' as opposed to actually finding the truth, and alot of times they will 'link' multiple cases to one person just because they can,, and not necessarily because its true but it makes them look like they are solving more cases, and like they care,,, |
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Topic:
dada.
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Why should insurance cover birth control? because pregnancy affects the body. so do alot of other things that insurance doesnt cover (depending upon the policy and the insurance company) |
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Topic:
dada.
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ID rather the woman carry the baby to extend bonding time before the baby is born and possibly feeding off of that parents breast you wouldn't want to see a father breast feeding? no, they arent designed to |
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Your arguing definitions like they dont hold multiple meanings and like that is somehow cogent. When ever a person decides to argue a definition it becomes clear they have nothing better to argue. http://www.fff.org/freedom/fd0210e.asp Gun-control advocates look at guns only as a means to harm others even though they are more often used to prevent injury. According to a 1995 study entitled “Armed Resistance to Crime: The Prevalence and Nature of Self-Defense with a Gun” by Gary Kleck and Marc Gertz, published by the Journal of Criminal Law and Criminology at Northwestern University School of Law, law-abiding citizens use guns to defend themselves against criminals as many as 2.5 million times every year.
This just makes sense. There are far more law abiding citizens with guns, than violent criminals. It only makes sense that the defensive usage would be a greater preponderance. It takes some extreme bias to disregard this, however once a person has made the decision to go unarmed no matter what, they often do not care about the relationship between armed defense and lower rates of violent crime.
That means that firearms are used 60 times more often to protect the lives of honest citizens than to shoot with criminal intent. Of these defensive shootings, more than 200,000 are by women defending themselves against sexual abuse. About half a million times a year, a citizen carrying a gun away from home uses it in self-defense. Again, according to Kleck amd Gertz, “Citizens shoot and kill more criminals than police do every year [2,819 times versus 303].” Moreover, as George Will pointed out in an article entitled “Are We a Nation of Cowards?” in the November 15, 1993, issue of Newsweek, while police have an error rate of 11 percent when it comes to the accidental shooting of innocent civilians, the armed citizens’ error rate is only 2 percent, making them five times safer than police. It also makes sense that fewer of the shooting would be mistaken, a citizen has a far greater chance of being prosecuted than a police officer does, which means they are far less likely to shoot if it isn't needed. The police are given protections from prosecution, they know it, and they use lethal force more often due to this knowledge. The police are far fewer in number, but have a greater incidence of unjustified shootings than the law abiding citizen. This concludes that law abiding citizens with defensive firearms are a greater deterrent to crime than police. one conclusion from selective data which seems to support the conclusion but I Still prefer not to carry a gun around like Im in the wild wild west,,, |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 03/08/12 04:19 PM
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I personally believe it means next to nothing, but Im just showing how to pull random sampling and numbers and use them to seem to s upport one side or the other I dont really think its all about having more gun restriction or less, its more about the culture (which can vary from region to region and state to state) in which those restrictions occur,,, The problem with what you posted is that you are talking apples to oranges. You need to make the comparison apples to apples. In states where CCW permits are made "shall issue", you can watch the crime statistics drop like a rock. This is significant, because you have a before / after scenario, instead of comparing two states with different demographics, geography, education levels, poverty levels, etc. By doing a before / after study on a state, you are comparing apples to apples and the statistics are meaningful. ok. fine. lets use that random criteria than there are 34 shall issue states according to http://www.moccw.org/ccwtable.html I will pick seven at random and see how significantly crime dropped after ccw permits were made shall issue Ill even try harder to compare 'apples and apples' by sticking to those with shall issue for the same period of time ID IN TX TN Montana MS AZ oh, look at that, I cant find information on when these states 'switched' to shall issue to actually compare whether or not crime was 'significantly decreased' ,, oh well, IM sure plenty of 'official' studies have drawn their own conclusions on both sides of the debate about the affect of shall issue,, but I have to research all that later,,,,, |
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Topic:
dada.
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What do you think would happen if birth control were covered by insurance? SOME insurance companies will cover birth control already, and others want its free market and people can shop around,,, |
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Topic:
dada.
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let's say doctors/scientists/whatnot have made it possible for a man to be pregnant. i don't know how it would work, but just assume it's possible. if you were ready to have kids, would you rather have the man or woman carry the baby? do you think abortion rates would go up? will insurance cover birth control now? ID rather the woman carry the baby to extend bonding time before the baby is born and possibly feeding off of that parents breast I think , if men could get pregnant, as well as women, abortion rates would go up I think if men got pregnant instead of women, abortion rates would be about the same I still think some insurance would cover birth control and some wouldnt,, like it is now |
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Topic:
Traditional or Modern?
Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 03/08/12 07:39 AM
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I agree that its fine to disagree.
It comes down to personal preference of what kind of existence will make us happy. Some are happy catering to children and others are not, but both types can manage to rear beautiful people who are responsible and appreciative and productive blessings to the world and both can sometimes rear ugly people who just drain and take from the world,,,,so parents have to do what works in THEIR HOME..... ![]() |
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oh and about the op even with a gun, you are still a 'victim', the crime just has the word 'attempted' placed in front I think its ingenuous to describe the pov as that of supporting being a victim as a means of self defense its more about what TYPE of victim is better,, one in which there is a defendant and plaintiff left to live another day or one where someone dies unnecessarily,,,, The meaning remains the same. If you stop your attacker you have stopped your victimization. If you prevent your rape you have stopped the victimization. If you prevent your murder you have prevented your victimization. You can play with the word all you want, but being unable to stop the crime is not a solution and THAT is what the OP is about. Leaders who are tasked with reducing crime that tell you to just do nothing to protect yourself are not doing there job. false, I stopped my first sexual assault from turning INTO rape (I screamed and fought and he was fortunately a coward and run, I imagine had either of us had guns one of us would NOT have managed to walk away to see another day), so I was not raped, but the ATTEMPT Was still made so I Was a victim of an ATTEMPTED rape,,,, my brother has also been the victim of thieves with guns before, all are still living,, so , yes he was a victim of theft, but noone was a victim of MURDER and all still live to tell the tale(the thieves from behind bars and my brother with his family) I think life takes precedence over EVERYTHING, so I Dont mind being someone who was 'victimized' and can tell about it over being someone who is buried or caused someone else to bury their loved one,,, |
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Topic:
Traditional or Modern?
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Well we will have to have varying opinions on the matter, which is fine. I was brought up a child who was secondary to the marital relationship. All three of us kids are not close to either parent, because what we learned from them was that we were not so very important or as valuable. They are divorced to boot. And currently alone. Its too bad they agreed that marital relationships were the first priority. If a marital relationship cant survive the selflessness of parenting, its probably not a good match anyway...Regardless of putting it first. Thats what happened to my parents. Alone, and not much going on in the bond with their kids. its really just balance there wasnt enough balance (seems like) in the home, regardless of whether the parents or the children felt 'secondary' the truth in our home was that our parents were more than a relationship they were a UNIT,, you cant seperate a unit, one part of a unit cant come after other units,,,, so, my mom and dad were one, and there was therefore no way to feel I was more important to one or the other, I was just equally important to BOTH and would never ask or expect them to care more for me than themself (although I understand this is becoming the norm in modern culture), although I also didnt expect them , as a unit, to love me less but there was no, does mom love me more than she loves dad, or does dad love me more than mom,, they were one, they were going to have to work at being one long after I left home to have a life of my own, so there was going to be more actual effort they had to put into preserving their unit of choice, than it would to preserve our relationship of biology,,, Yep, its a balance issue, but when one is the priority, for me it has to be the kids. I do feel loved, just not so very important to my parents as my child surely feels to me...not really a competitive issue between kids and spouse...it feels more like a comittment thing...the parents love the kids, yet the cocktail parties, couplehood together time, or such things were clearly the priority. We always had our basic needs met. I went thru a major crisis a few years ago, and though I never asked for any help, I got a frantic call from my mother who already had vacation plans with friends and wouldnt be able to be with me to see it thru. Luckily, I never relied on her for emotional support, as it was never there. Without vengence in mind, I am not available to her as much as I would like, mostly because of my location, but the reality is that we are simply not close. Truth be told, I spose the location was a possible self preservation thing. These are my reflections of prioritizing children v marital relationships. Its interesting to see the 'whys' of how our perspectives form. there should not be a situation where one has to ALWAYS Be a priority , in my opinion, that is a flaw and a catastrophe waiting to happen I am not even ALWAYS my own priority, but the MAJORITY of the time, I Have to take care of me before I Can help anyone else, family or not so too is my view of a spouse, who I am SUPPOSED to become one with,,,, the majority of the time, even in taking care of our children, my spouse has to come 'first' because they have to be one with me and WE have to do the caring together,,, |
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Topic:
Traditional or Modern?
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I admire and respect anyone who puts their children first while they are children. My view is that the alternative is irresponsible. my view is that it is irresponsible to let a marriage die and teach children that the sun rises and sets on their every move better to allow them to see a loving relationship at work to prepare them for adulthood as ADULTS not large spoiled .....people my view too |
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