We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence. If we commit ourselves to one person for life, this is not, as many people think, a rejection of freedom; rather, it demands the courage to move into all the risks of freedom, and the risk of love which is permanent; into that love which is not possession but participation. To Say in deeper thoughts, Freedom is not the absence of commitments, but the ability to choose - and commit myself to - what is best. and No Relationship stands firm without the deeper commitment. Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans. With Such Loyalty and Commitment towards your Loved One, Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning.

What are your Thoughts about Relationships, Loyalty and Commitments in your life.. How do you think from the spectrum of Culture and community to define them ? what they mean to you? please do share your thoughts

When you turn thirty, a whole new thing happens..One of my friends said that One of the great things about turning 30 is figuring out how to dress comfortably and still look good. Turning 30 was really big for me. I remember the day I turned thirty. I was getting out of the shower and I stood in front of the mirror and stared at myself for a long time. I kept on staring at myself and appreciated the fact that we get more matured capacity to gain an accurate and deep understanding of our inner & outer self as we get old like a wine.. I also assumed that this was how I was going to look for the rest of my life. The way I saw it, I was never going to age deep inside of myself; I’d just look up one day and be old. I can get really stuck on I don't like this or that about myself. I've found that the only thing that breaks that for me is being able to spend time alone, going to the movies by myself or going to art museums alone. I do that a lot. I've discovered the importance of even 15 or 30 minutes a day where it is just me. It's really something for people who are approaching 30 to take a look at what that means to them. I think turning 30+ is a chance to re-identify with yourself.

What are your insights of your 30+ and 40+.. Share you thoughts please.

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