it is easy... But can I ask why when we do give that we are the ones to
get walked on!!

I goes to where you will do anything for the other to make them happy!!
But it is not all about the sex it has to be a connection. since we will
all get old it has to be someone you can stand to be around and talk to
so good conversation at the start and lots of laughter!!! Then you can
stay forever and be satisfied!!

I like that cherub, better yet someone to crawl into bed with at night
and not be so alone

yep never!! And we are much nicer when we are treated well.... And do
not turn into the nags that most men say we do after you have been
dating us for awhile

Flowers are a good start but along with them do not feed us some
bull**** about all this amazing stuff you say you do that later we come
to find out is bull. We would like you to be just the way you are!! Now
again that is just my opinion... But I know it sucks to think you have
found the right guy who while he is trying to get you is all the things
you hope for but then once he does get you he turns into a total control
freak of an guy and is nothing of what he said he does not even work
where he said... Do you know what I mean!!

Thank you!!! Seriously what do guys want?

why would I be kidding.. Should I have said to be treated as sex object
and easily replaced.??

Honesty and trust and yes the old cliche of romance and love...someone
that will treat them as an equal and not take and take and take and give
nothing in return.. Someone that you are so close to you can look into
their eyes and know what they are thinking. Someone whos touch can drive
you mad..Someone you can laugh with and never feel embarrassed with..
Someone you would trust your heart with without a second thought!!
This is just my thought.. But in return what do men want from women...

Hey camp since all of our calendars were open can we all go???

wow amanda, that is some pretty heavy crap to be dealing with.. As for
the guy I agree with Tameka, you have more improtant stuff going on now
and you do not need to deal with a guy that is not there in your time of
need..

I hope you mom does well in surgery and I will say a prayer for her..
And like Tameka said get yourself checked out.. Hopefully if it is
something you will catch it in time and will be okay... Take care of you
and you will be in my prayers...

You are right Lex it is better to be alone then be with the wrong
person, but I am one of those hopeless romantics and I believe the right
one is out there for me and for all of us.. Man I have to keep that
hope, I look forward to finding the one that will be my first call of
the day or the last one I say goodnight.. I can't have so much to give
and not very many to give it to or to share it with..

I have met some truelly wonderful people here and I am proud to call
some of them friends dear to my heart, but I still hope for the one I
can crawl into bed with and share my day with good or bad and know they
are there for me when I fall asleep and will be there when I wake.. I do
not know I hope it is true that someone out there will love me for me
and I them in return..

Who knows I may end up theold spinster with 100's of cats but I hope
not!!! LOL

I just looked at my calendar camp and that is so depressing!!! No
anything!!!!

If you talk for awhile meet on several occasions and you are willing to
give it a try I mean heck life it to short. why not relocate??

Atleast you tried and atleast you lives a little even if it did not work
out.. Maybe something great came from the trying to make it work, like a
new friend, new memories and maybe a great changing life experience..

seahawk, but can't distance be worked around if the two people really
click??I mean what happend to love conquers all..

I know that just happens in movies and fairy tales....

But we can be hopefull and atleast try right!!!

Good question.. especially when you think you have really hit it off
with someone and you even plan to meet and then they disappear.. why? If
you find the answer Tameka please let me know..

Hey amanda whats going on there are lotsof us that are great listeners
and would like to help...

really nice hells angel!!

That is so awesome I hope it turns out like you want it to!!!

The one that rocks my heart!! would hopefully last longer than the one
night stand in more ways then one!!!

You realize it when you look in the mirror and you have no idea who the
person is looking back at you.. When you have hit the bottom and can go
no further and you realize you have to make a decision.. TO make it or
break it.... Hopefully you will decide enough is enough and you want you
back and then you will never ever let anyone take that person away form
you again....