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Thanks you guys I just get so frustrated, but I refuse to give up in the
belief that true love is out there, not only for me but for all of us!!!

You all are really encouraging and helpful with your advice!!

Could possibly mean you are not ready.. Have you had your final
resolutions with you ex. If you have not had that final closeure with
your ex you may still have somethings that you have left open or
unanswered with him especially since you are still married.
Just take your time you will know when it is right to get involved...
Just do not do anything you do not feel comfortable with, and one good
thing that could happen you could have found a reall great new friend.
You never know.

What is Honesty??
What is Trust??
What is a Liar??
What is a Deceiver??
What is "falling in love with"?

I seem to have encountered some on here who say they are honest and I
should trust them but the turn out to be the opposite and I was just
wondering if I had the definitions all wrong????

I just do not know if my Webster dictionary is right anymore.

Any ideas would be appreciated!

Hi Christi you can add me also. Would loveto have more friends to talk.
that goes for anyone else on here also. I love to talk and can do alot
of it. My friends do say that I am actually a good listener and offer
some pretty good advice when asked LOL

I think most women look for truat and honesty and it goes back to how do
you know when to trust someone!! I guess that will be a never ending
question that will outlast all of us.
Personally someone who can make me laugh and smile, be there when I need
to vent after a bad day a shoulder to cry one when the world has fallen
in around me, someone to enjoy my success with or my failures. Someone
that I can love unconditionally and they would do the same for me.
Someone who sees me for me and not what they think they can change me to
be, you know change this here and there and then I would be perfect.
Just love me for me and I will always be there for you good, bad, ugly
indifferent. And someone who does not walk away when things get a little
bumpy but be there with me towork through it. That may be asking to much
but after all the lies and disappointments lately I guess this is what I
am hoping for myself. Hope this makes some sense.

Hey how are you surviving the snow????

Most of us are but we tend to get pushed to the back as "really good
friends" who are really great to talk to and hang out with but nothing
more

millsdd why can't more guys think like you. The good guys seem to always
choose the girls that are perfect on the outside but treat them like
shot on the inside and never give those of us who are just well normal
but with really good hearts a chance. Why is that???

Amen kingbreeze you take the good with the bad and hold on for dear life
for the ride of your life!!! LOL

I like to think I am happy, butI know I find most of my happiness with
my daughter. But I have also found that if I do not let to many things
bother meor get me down I stay in a pretty happy place. I always remeber
that no matter how bad I think I may have it someone else somewhere else
has it worse than I do. when I feel really down I think about the kids
I have worked with that have a terminal disease, but they still smile
and laugh and they manage to find happiness in all the bad and I think
wow if they can be like that so can I . But then again each person has
their own definition of happiness.Maybe none of this makes since but it
is just my thought on it.

Kingbreeze I have taken people at their word and it went on for a few
months and then all of a sudden it was like the really them finally came
out. I mean for those few months I did not catch a hint of a lie or
anything and then I wastotally blindsided. I try to take people at their
word and I always give the benefit of the doubt. And usually I end up
end getting burned. My friends say I am to gullible and I should not be
so nice to people amd I should become a hardass and I would not get
walked on so often. But that is not me. So like you guys said it is a
chance we take and I do believe we all will findthe rightone someday but
we have to be willing to put ourselves out there and chance the "burns"
now and then. I guess when we do find the one it will make us that more
aware of how lucky we are and not do something stupid to blow it. But I
guess we all will have to take the risk and see where the ride takes us.
I guess thatis what makes life so interesting. Without the rollercoaster
I am sure it would get really boring.

Coaltrucker I lived in Ky also can I count twice???

How are things in Colorado?? Did you get slammed with all of thatsnow
from a few days ago?? I am so jealous you live there!!!

You know things do seem to be better in Texas!!!
Especially Cowboys in Cowboy hats!! LOL

Why not start by being honest with them and then go from there??? Be up
front about how you feel and see what happens.

What about the husband who lies and cheats should she stay with him
then?? What about the husband who beats her and the kids?? Should she
stay with him then??
There are limits to what a wife should have to deal with don't you think
or do you think she should be home barefoot and pregnant and eat the
S**t he dishes out with a fork and a smile??

We were talking about that last night about honest and trust worthy. It
seems it is really easy to hide behind a phone and a computer but when
it comes time to finally meet that is when you really find out how
dishonest they are with all the excuses. I have met some really nice
guys on here looking for the samething, and I have met some really low
life lying pieces of you know what tugging at your heart stings hit you
where it hurts type guy, especially when they say they like your kids
and even talk to them. Sorry venting for a moment there it just came
out. But like they told me yesterday you have to take a chance and be
willing to see where it takes you,and also above all trust your gut
instincts. The guys /girls last night I was talking to helped me out
alot.

the problem with the last one slowtoget is I did venture way far and I
gained nothing but a swift door in my face. Anyway glad I am not the
only newbie trying this. And I will continue to venture just maybe a
little more slowly this time LOL

Thank you Deamweaver and you are absolutely right we owe it to ourselves
to be true to ourselves. No one is ever going to treat is as well as we
do ourselves we just need to find someone closeto that, and I guess my
dad was right. never trust anyone and that way you never get hurt. The
words o a Navy Commander that are so true.