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I think the problem here is that you just disappeared of the face of the earth for 3 days. You reasoning for doing this doesn't make sense: - I wanted to give her more space --> I'm doing her a favour, one she hasn't asked for. - Hey, we're not in a relationship --> I don't have to do her any favours. Ouch... Now she doesn't react, says she's busy. So what? You aren't in a relationship -your words- and like you, she doesn't owe you any favours. In a nutshell I think what happened: you let her down when you didn't get in touch for 3 days. Your excuse is lame, she feels that too. She probably thought you two did have a relationship, then you pull a stunt like that? If you want to do a disappearing act on a woman you have to take the consequences of your own action. If you really care, man up, go over to her with flowers, apologize -better be sincere!- and take her to dinner if she lets you. Take responsibility for your f*** up and assure her it won't happen again. To get a second chance . The longer you leave it .. the less likely it will be fixable . Thanks Crystal, I guess I just have to distant myself for a while then. I totally screw this one up. whew! |
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I think the problem here is that you just disappeared of the face of the earth for 3 days. You reasoning for doing this doesn't make sense: - I wanted to give her more space --> I'm doing her a favour, one she hasn't asked for. - Hey, we're not in a relationship --> I don't have to do her any favours. Ouch... Now she doesn't react, says she's busy. So what? You aren't in a relationship -your words- and like you, she doesn't owe you any favours. In a nutshell I think what happened: you let her down when you didn't get in touch for 3 days. Your excuse is lame, she feels that too. She probably thought you two did have a relationship, then you pull a stunt like that? If you want to do a disappearing act on a woman you have to take the consequences of your own action. If you really care, man up, go over to her with flowers, apologize -better be sincere!- and take her to dinner if she lets you. Take responsibility for your f*** up and assure her it won't happen again. Well yes I've been doing that now but unfortunately the other side of her is still there. Somehow she has been giving me something to hold on with her riddles but she's not talking to me directly anymore. Just ignores my every messages. It feels like she's punishing me or something. |
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.  I'm not sure, she hasn't turned me away yet. LOL lucky me...but I don't know what to think. She has been busy before but have been somehow replying from time to time. It started when I didn't message her for 3 days, I mean we don't have any relationship so I thought giving her space would be good. When I get back she suddenly turned cold it's like her other twin took over. I asked her what's wrong or did I do something wrong there's no reply tried again the next day same thing I felt a little bad and got out a few emotions out and I kinda freaked out then she was like can I not be just busy?then I just needed to put a lot of things out she was like I busy I don't have time for this drama I stopped their instantly because that's all I need to know then after that I was getting ignored, tried a lot of things. Gave her more time, sometimes I message her I miss her. Hope shes ok etc. but until now I'm not getting any replies. I wanted her to be straightforward to me because it's important for me to have a clear answer than to just assume but she's not giving that to me. Well, you said it yourself, you wanted to give her space and left for three days,did you even tell her, you wanted to give her space? As a Gemini woman, that is a turn off to me, someone I talk to and have the effort to reply even when I'm busy who suddenly just stops talking and then come back? To me personally that's a sign to just let it go, not worth investment. My only answer is, use her messages to show her that you did that because you sesnsed that from her conversation and wanted to give her the space but I can't say if she's gonna believe that or not. Good luck Nope I didn't, I remember when she went out for 3 days we don't have anything official but she let me know she will be gone for 3 days and I was like wow I didn't expect that she will be telling me that. Maybe that was the reason but man I have been contacting her said sorry too. I didn't mean anything bad from it, I did it because I just thought she might need it and I don't need to let her know. |
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care. I'm not sure, she hasn't turned me away yet. LOL lucky me...but I don't know what to think. She has been busy before but have been somehow replying from time to time. It started when I didn't message her for 3 days, I mean we don't have any relationship so I thought giving her space would be good. When I get back she suddenly turned cold it's like her other twin took over. I asked her what's wrong or did I do something wrong there's no reply tried again the next day same thing I felt a little bad and got out a few emotions out and I kinda freaked out then she was like can I not be just busy?then I just needed to put a lot of things out she was like I busy I don't have time for this drama I stopped their instantly because that's all I need to know then after that I was getting ignored, tried a lot of things. Gave her more time, sometimes I message her I miss her. Hope shes ok etc. but until now I'm not getting any replies. I wanted her to be straightforward to me because it's important for me to have a clear answer than to just assume but she's not giving that to me. |
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If someone stops talking to you , it usually means that they are no longer interested in you. Most of the time its because they found someone else they like more than you and dont feel vomfortable to admit it. This reality applies to women of every zodiac sign and also every man. The recommended response to being ignored is to move on. Some other woman will find you amazing and wont want to let you go. Keep your eyes and heart open for THAT WOMAN. :) Awwww...thanks Peggy, well you know what I was hoping she's better than just ignoring me but I will definitely keep my eyes and heart open, thank you very much. |
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Thank you that's inspiring I like that.
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It feels like I'm waiting for nothing LOL
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Edited by
zheetor
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Fri 06/23/17 01:22 AM
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.
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