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Topic: Please help me understand a gemini woman
zheetor's photo
Fri 06/23/17 01:17 AM
Edited by zheetor on Fri 06/23/17 01:22 AM
Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.

falcon1016767's photo
Fri 06/23/17 01:38 AM
frustrated when you get up in the morning go outside and see if the wind is blowing.if it is your going to have a good day.if its not you are going to have a good day.the wind has nothing to do with your day.neither do women who are like the wind.sail on soldier.

rizzi84's photo
Fri 06/23/17 01:52 AM
my ex was gemini. even a gemini women cant figure their ownself, how can others? gemini women can easily change their mind. they have 2 personalities. dont worry, juat wait, she will contact u again..when her other half is back..

zheetor's photo
Fri 06/23/17 02:01 AM
It feels like I'm waiting for nothing LOL

zheetor's photo
Fri 06/23/17 02:02 AM
Thank you that's inspiring I like that.

Chubbyjhen's photo
Fri 06/23/17 02:02 AM
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frustrated when you get up in the morning go outside and see if the wind is blowing.if it is your going to have a good day.if its not you are going to have a good day.the wind has nothing to do with your day.neither do women who are like the wind.sail on soldier.



Well said sir... salute...flowers flowers

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Fri 06/23/17 10:00 AM
Edited by peggy122 on Fri 06/23/17 10:11 AM
If someone stops talking to you , it usually means that they are no longer interested in you. Most of the time its because they found someone else they like more than you and dont feel vomfortable to admit it.

This reality applies to women of every zodiac sign and also every man.

The recommended response to being ignored is to move on.

Some other woman will find you amazing and wont want to let you go.

Keep your eyes and heart open for THAT WOMAN. :)

zheetor's photo
Fri 06/23/17 05:27 PM
QUOTE:

If someone stops talking to you , it usually means that they are no longer interested in you. Most of the time its because they found someone else they like more than you and dont feel vomfortable to admit it.

This reality applies to women of every zodiac sign and also every man.

The recommended response to being ignored is to move on.

Some other woman will find you amazing and wont want to let you go.

Keep your eyes and heart open for THAT WOMAN. :)


Awwww...thanks Peggy, well you know what I was hoping she's better than just ignoring me but I will definitely keep my eyes and heart open, thank you very much.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 06/23/17 05:49 PM
First and foremost she is a fellow human being and should be treated with that respect that same respect that you desire as a human being.

Second, she is unique and should be allowed to be herself at all times.

Third, She is a woman and should be treated with respect and dignity.

Finally, she is a Gemini by sign but her life experiences that make her who she is are what makes her interesting and unique.

Getting hung up on horoscopes and the idealisms pertaining to that type may not be a proof of her as a person.

I'm a Cancer-Leo cusp.
I am much more than just a Cancer and Leo.
I have traits from all the signs.
I am me, She is her. Remember that foremost and take horoscopes as a distant factor that can be completely wrong.

Good Luck!

sybariticguy's photo
Fri 06/23/17 07:32 PM
Astrology has no basis in science but people seek a shortcut to understand and comprehend the complexity of human behavior so they seek simple answers to complex human issues at the expense of rational discourse and common sense....

zheetor's photo
Sat 06/24/17 01:55 AM
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.
are you sure you know ??? Perhaps she genuinely is busy . How can you know for sure what is going on in her life . I am not sure what you said to her but I would have said .. I understand .. I miss talking to you ... hope we can talk again soon .. and left it with her . If she is not interested she will find a way to let you know . You can either give her time or move on . Zodiac traits are very generalised and seldom have any meaningful insight . waving


I'm not sure, she hasn't turned me away yet. LOL lucky me...but I don't know what to think. She has been busy before but have been somehow replying from time to time. It started when I didn't message her for 3 days, I mean we don't have any relationship so I thought giving her space would be good. When I get back she suddenly turned cold it's like her other twin took over. I asked her what's wrong or did I do something wrong there's no reply tried again the next day same thing I felt a little bad and got out a few emotions out and I kinda freaked out then she was like can I not be just busy?then I just needed to put a lot of things out she was like I busy I don't have time for this drama I stopped their instantly because that's all I need to know then after that I was getting ignored, tried a lot of things. Gave her more time, sometimes I message her I miss her. Hope shes ok etc. but until now I'm not getting any replies. I wanted her to be straightforward to me because it's important for me to have a clear answer than to just assume but she's not giving that to me.

🚛mikey 🚛's photo
Sat 06/24/17 01:59 AM
Maybe just change the word 'Gemini 'for the word 'any '
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sat 06/24/17 02:20 AM
I think the problem here is that you just disappeared of the face of the earth for 3 days.
You reasoning for doing this doesn't make sense:
- I wanted to give her more space --> I'm doing her a favour, one she hasn't asked for.
- Hey, we're not in a relationship --> I don't have to do her any favours. Ouch...

Now she doesn't react, says she's busy. So what? You aren't in a relationship -your words- and like you, she doesn't owe you any favours.

In a nutshell I think what happened:
you let her down when you didn't get in touch for 3 days. Your excuse is lame, she feels that too. She probably thought you two did have a relationship, then you pull a stunt like that?
If you want to do a disappearing act on a woman you have to take the consequences of your own action.

If you really care, man up, go over to her with flowers, apologize -better be sincere!- and take her to dinner if she lets you. Take responsibility for your f*** up and assure her it won't happen again.

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Sat 06/24/17 02:21 AM
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.
are you sure you know ??? Perhaps she genuinely is busy . How can you know for sure what is going on in her life . I am not sure what you said to her but I would have said .. I understand .. I miss talking to you ... hope we can talk again soon .. and left it with her . If she is not interested she will find a way to let you know . You can either give her time or move on . Zodiac traits are very generalised and seldom have any meaningful insight . waving


I'm not sure, she hasn't turned me away yet. LOL lucky me...but I don't know what to think. She has been busy before but have been somehow replying from time to time. It started when I didn't message her for 3 days, I mean we don't have any relationship so I thought giving her space would be good. When I get back she suddenly turned cold it's like her other twin took over. I asked her what's wrong or did I do something wrong there's no reply tried again the next day same thing I felt a little bad and got out a few emotions out and I kinda freaked out then she was like can I not be just busy?then I just needed to put a lot of things out she was like I busy I don't have time for this drama I stopped their instantly because that's all I need to know then after that I was getting ignored, tried a lot of things. Gave her more time, sometimes I message her I miss her. Hope shes ok etc. but until now I'm not getting any replies. I wanted her to be straightforward to me because it's important for me to have a clear answer than to just assume but she's not giving that to me.


Well, you said it yourself, you wanted to give her space and left for three days,did you even tell her, you wanted to give her space?
As a Gemini woman, that is a turn off to me, someone I talk to and have the effort to reply even when I'm busy who suddenly just stops talking and then come back?
To me personally that's a sign to just let it go, not worth investment.

My only answer is, use her messages to show her that you did that because you sesnsed that from her conversation and wanted to give her the space but I can't say if she's gonna believe that or not.
Good luck

zheetor's photo
Sat 06/24/17 10:22 PM
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Was talking to a gemini woman last time now she's ignoring the hell out of me. Asked her what's wrong she said she's busy but I know there's something else. I don't want to annoy her, I could go if she wants me too but she just ignores me. I don't know what to do because I wanted to keep her but seems like she doesn't care.
are you sure you know ??? Perhaps she genuinely is busy . How can you know for sure what is going on in her life . I am not sure what you said to her but I would have said .. I understand .. I miss talking to you ... hope we can talk again soon .. and left it with her . If she is not interested she will find a way to let you know . You can either give her time or move on . Zodiac traits are very generalised and seldom have any meaningful insight . waving


I'm not sure, she hasn't turned me away yet. LOL lucky me...but I don't know what to think. She has been busy before but have been somehow replying from time to time. It started when I didn't message her for 3 days, I mean we don't have any relationship so I thought giving her space would be good. When I get back she suddenly turned cold it's like her other twin took over. I asked her what's wrong or did I do something wrong there's no reply tried again the next day same thing I felt a little bad and got out a few emotions out and I kinda freaked out then she was like can I not be just busy?then I just needed to put a lot of things out she was like I busy I don't have time for this drama I stopped their instantly because that's all I need to know then after that I was getting ignored, tried a lot of things. Gave her more time, sometimes I message her I miss her. Hope shes ok etc. but until now I'm not getting any replies. I wanted her to be straightforward to me because it's important for me to have a clear answer than to just assume but she's not giving that to me.


Well, you said it yourself, you wanted to give her space and left for three days,did you even tell her, you wanted to give her space?
As a Gemini woman, that is a turn off to me, someone I talk to and have the effort to reply even when I'm busy who suddenly just stops talking and then come back?
To me personally that's a sign to just let it go, not worth investment.

My only answer is, use her messages to show her that you did that because you sesnsed that from her conversation and wanted to give her the space but I can't say if she's gonna believe that or not.
Good luck


Nope I didn't, I remember when she went out for 3 days we don't have anything official but she let me know she will be gone for 3 days and I was like wow I didn't expect that she will be telling me that. Maybe that was the reason but man I have been contacting her said sorry too. I didn't mean anything bad from it, I did it because I just thought she might need it and I don't need to let her know.

zheetor's photo
Sat 06/24/17 10:25 PM
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I think the problem here is that you just disappeared of the face of the earth for 3 days.
You reasoning for doing this doesn't make sense:
- I wanted to give her more space --> I'm doing her a favour, one she hasn't asked for.
- Hey, we're not in a relationship --> I don't have to do her any favours. Ouch...

Now she doesn't react, says she's busy. So what? You aren't in a relationship -your words- and like you, she doesn't owe you any favours.

In a nutshell I think what happened:
you let her down when you didn't get in touch for 3 days. Your excuse is lame, she feels that too. She probably thought you two did have a relationship, then you pull a stunt like that?
If you want to do a disappearing act on a woman you have to take the consequences of your own action.

If you really care, man up, go over to her with flowers, apologize -better be sincere!- and take her to dinner if she lets you. Take responsibility for your f*** up and assure her it won't happen again.



Well yes I've been doing that now but unfortunately the other side of her is still there. Somehow she has been giving me something to hold on with her riddles but she's not talking to me directly anymore. Just ignores my every messages. It feels like she's punishing me or something.

zheetor's photo
Sun 06/25/17 11:03 PM
QUOTE:

QUOTE:

I think the problem here is that you just disappeared of the face of the earth for 3 days.
You reasoning for doing this doesn't make sense:
- I wanted to give her more space --> I'm doing her a favour, one she hasn't asked for.
- Hey, we're not in a relationship --> I don't have to do her any favours. Ouch...

Now she doesn't react, says she's busy. So what? You aren't in a relationship -your words- and like you, she doesn't owe you any favours.

In a nutshell I think what happened:
you let her down when you didn't get in touch for 3 days. Your excuse is lame, she feels that too. She probably thought you two did have a relationship, then you pull a stunt like that?
If you want to do a disappearing act on a woman you have to take the consequences of your own action.

If you really care, man up, go over to her with flowers, apologize -better be sincere!- and take her to dinner if she lets you. Take responsibility for your f*** up and assure her it won't happen again.

I agree with what crystal had said .. if a man treated me in such a way .. I would be disappointed with him and he would be very lucky
To get a second chance . The longer you leave it .. the less likely it will be fixable .


Thanks Crystal, I guess I just have to distant myself for a while then. I totally screw this one up. whew!

37ko's photo
Mon 06/26/17 01:07 AM
trying to "understand" ANY woman is an exercise in futility... men aren't supposed to be able to figure women out... it's against the natural order of things...attempting to understand women just leaves u with even more baffling questions...part of the fun of it all i suppose

🚛mikey 🚛's photo
Mon 06/26/17 10:01 AM
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trying to "understand" ANY woman is an exercise in futility... men aren't supposed to be able to figure women out... it's against the natural order of things...attempting to understand women just leaves u with even more baffling questions...part of the fun of it all i suppose

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no photo
Mon 06/26/17 10:26 AM
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Maybe just change the word 'Gemini 'for the word 'any '
laugh


One could say the same when it comes to men tongue2

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